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At the very base of your relationship, you both have very different ideas of what is/isn't acceptable married behavior. He thinks it is acceptable to become completely unavailable to you for an … (View Post)

If another person had this problem, what advice would you give? I'm going to guess that it would be along the lines of: Stop talking to this loser once and for all! You have lawyers - USE THEM. … (View Post)

That sounds like a good start to me. Maybe if you start with counseling on your own first, you'll get ideas on the best way to approach the topic with him.  (View Post)

Do whatever you feel comfortable with, and don't worry about what other people want/expect you to do. I completely changed to my husband's name, but his name was already hyphenated. He didn… (View Post)

Pumpkin! (View Post)