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Is the enstrangement YOUR choice? If so, sending a gift seems to kind of go against it. Especially a nice gift like a spa GC? (View Post)

I do find it ironic that you want her to respect your DHs sleep schedule but you don't respect hers. All because "you have friends" who have kids and stay up past 10. LOL. And for the … (View Post)

Where is your FI on this? What has he said to his mom about this? Has he told her to back off? If not - he needs to. He needs to show her that you all are a united front. As far as you and what to do… (View Post)

A part of the issue here is your DH. He doesn't back you up. Having her come stay in the house when he knows how you feel about it? Um, no, that's uncool. the fact that he made that decisio… (View Post)

I'm with Bluebird and joleri. His friendship w/ this girl is more important than his relationship with you. He had an AFFAIR with her. Emotional or physical - he had an affair. He may be transpa… (View Post)