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TarponMonoxide: How come your counselor didn't mention "your H needs AA"? Sounds like your counselor is worth nothing much. Because a counselor isn't going to diagnose or recommen… (View Post)

Have you people who are recommending AlAnon, and also telling the OP she needs to leave immediately, ever actually worked that program? Because they explicitly advise against telling the spouse of a … (View Post)

If you're making 9.25 with unreliable hours, then I suggest that both of you actively look for better jobs. Whoever finds a better job first takes it. At that pay rate, I don't know that yo… (View Post)

Both of you are working really hard, and it probably just kind of sucks right now. If he's working 12 hour days 6 days a week and you are a SAHM, I wouldn't expect him to do any of the hous… (View Post)

I think you have to be honest, but in an age appropriate way. Don't tell him you'll never divorce your H, because you can't say that for sure. But I like Tarpon's response above, … (View Post)