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So incredibly sad... Pregnancy loss mentioned
I debated even making this post...but hiding it won't help either. It doesn't help get rid of the stigma that is attached to miscarriage.
I lost my pregnancy on Wednesday at 9 weeks pregnant. There was nothing wrong with the baby, but the severe subchorionic bleed I've had and been on bed rest for the past month for likely contributed.
Heartbroken obviously, we tried for three years to even get pregnant and then I lose it.
I got home from mailing off my elf package today to see a package in the door. I thought that it was an elf package for me and I was very excited. But it turned out to be a free pregnancy journal that I signed up for three weeks ago.
I kind of lost it then.
I don't really know how to feel or how to move on. I keep being told that I have to move on and at least I can get pregnant, but that doesn't help.
I don't know guys... I really don't have many people to talk to about this...
But I'll heal, I know, but its going to take long time.
my read shelf:


“Would you tell me, please, which way I ought to go from here?"
"That depends a good deal on where you want to get to."
"I don't much care where –"
"Then it doesn't matter which way you go.”
―
Lewis Carroll,
Alice in Wonderland
Re: So incredibly sad... Pregnancy loss mentioned
*big hugs* I'm so sorry :-(
my read shelf:
You suffered a very real loss and it's not something that you can just "get over." It's a death, and you need to take time to grieve.
I had a D&C at 8w5d after two weeks and three ultrasounds showed slow heartbeat, then slow development, then no heartbeat.
DH and I created a memory box with everything we had: u/s photos; a small stuffed lion that we purchased; my hospital bracelet; etc.
PM me if you ever want to talk/yell/cry/throw things.
my read shelf:
Books read in 2010: 153
Books read in 2011: 160
Books read in 2012: 134
Books read in 2013: 110
Books read in 2014: 151
Books read in 2015: 153
Books read in 2016: 31
My Badges:
2014: 4/40
[2010: 63] [2011: 35] [2012: 23] [2013: 27]
my read shelf:

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DS born 2.28.13 at 31w1d
Emmett born 01/28/2013
2015 Books Read 3 * 2014 Books Read: 151
2013 Books Read: 90 * 2012 Books Read: 125
2011 Books Read: 150 * 2010 Books Read: 117
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my read shelf:
Wes: 10/8/2012
Jack 11/29/2009 and Brynne 7/11/2013