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Rules for the opposite sex

CowgirlK39 · 2013-10-23 02:23:22

I will make a really long story short: My DH's buddy recently broke up with a girl, and DH took it upon himself to play matchmaker and set his friend up with a girl he knew from his high school days. He picked her up (no idea why) and took her to meet up with his buddy and a few others. Well, as luck would have it, the…

Re: Rules for the opposite sex

Mrs.Rad888 member

November 2013

Look, if your SO is going to screw around, he's going to screw around. It may be with someone you know, or someone you don't know. It's unrealistic to expect your SO to never have any friends of the opposite sex, and it shouldn't really be up to you to decide who he is friends with. You should trust that you made a good decision in marrying this person and that you can trust them even when he isn't with you. Did you make him break ties with all his single, opposite-sex friends before you got married? That's more about your insecurities than it is about whether men and women can be "just friends."
And like a PP asked, what if your SO is friends with someone who is the same sex, but is gay? Does he have to break that friendship off too?

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