3T Check In

Xan921

I now have an update, yay! I went to my ObGyn and instead of having to go through another surgery he was able to do an endometrial biopsy in office today to check to see if the hyperplasia is gone or not. I'll have results back by Wednesday and if all looks good ill head back to the RE at the end of next week and start our first injects/IUI cycle!

LooneyLife

Good luck, xan. I hope you get great news next week!

Flamingo86

Hugs to everyone.

I really want to get started on adoption but we need to figure out the house stuff first.

My biggest body issue is that I can't stay pregnant.

LuckyAngel07

It's been a very rough week around here, and that breaks my heart.

I'm hoping for, and praying for, and sending out huge hugs to all of you ladies. 3T/IF is freaking unfair as all hell and I hate the shit some of you ladies are dealing with. I also have hope for all the treatments going on; I will be the hopeful when you can't be! 

As always, love you ladies! ((hugs))

DangerMuffin23

brij2006 said:

Updates:  I don't really know where I belong now.  Probably not in the 3T check-in anymore.
H and I talked about things yesterday and we can't handle more losses.  He isn't comfortable moving onto an RE (even though I have some coverage on insurance for it now), and wants to solely focus on paying off our debt.  Then we'll re-evaluate once the debt is gone. 
I'm heartbroken with this decision but yet I feel a huge weight lifted off our shoulders.  We still haven't decided if I'm going to get back on BC until we're ready again, or if I'm going to continue the PCOS/GF diet and hope there is some regulacy to my cycles from it.  So maybe when we do start TTC again, we could at least conceive without help.
It isn't the direction I wanted to go right now, but I need my husband 100% on board with me about moving to the RE and getting some help.  He said he just isn't there yet, and isn't ready for that step.  So I am going to respect that until he is.  The last thing I want is a husband who isn't all-in on this plan with me.

I usually don't swear much, but 3T fucking sucks!  These are discussions nobody should ever have to have with their spouse.  We should be able to just have sex and get pregnant because we're ready. Not have to base the decision on whether or not we're ready to get help getting and staying pregnant, because my uterus doesn't like to keep babies alive. 
I'm trying to be okay with this decision, and am trying to look at the big picture and focus on other things in the meantime.  But it's not easy.

QOTW: What are you insecure about? My body and weight.  My IRL name is Bridget, and my nickname from family growing up was Big Digit Bridget.  It's something I want to make sure they never have any reason to call me again.

FFC/AW of the Week (no rules):

I think it's wise not to go into it until DH is 100% on board. And he might get on board sooner than he thinks. Fingers crossed. But what I really wanted to say is that that is a horrible horrible nickname and I'm sorry you had to deal with that.