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Is a Low Down Payment Ever OK?
Re: Is a Low Down Payment Ever OK?
Zillow is a super addictive real estate browsing app. You can save your search parameters for various towns, and it gives you a notification when your saved searches have an update. I have heard, however, that it tends to show houses that have long since sold.
In our case, that's where we're different. We have three cards. One doesn't get used and has a $22k limit on it. Another sees maybe $200-300/month and has a $9k limit. The third sees anywhere from $1500 to $3k+/month, but has a limit of $15k on it.
This exactly! Not saying you have to stick to the 20% rule, but owning a home is more than just getting past closing costs and your monthly mortgage payment. Forgetting this is how people get into trouble.
I bought my first house without having 20% down, however, I had enough money put away that if something happened, there was money to fix things that can and did go wrong. I eneded up having to redo the roof ($3900), a hot water heater ($1000), new windows ($3000), a new HVAC system ($6400) over the course of 10 yrs.
We made about $65k off our first house. Sold it, put the money into a bigger house. Fully expect this house to appreciate as it was one of those houses that should have sold for a lot more given the neighborhood. We also expect to stay here for the next 10-20 yrs.
You can make money in real estate, but it takes planning and patience.
Redfin is also really good. I used it religiously and found the condo we're hopefully going to buy on it! It updates very frequently and is way more accurate than zillow.
One thing that I also want to add...
If you're looking at buying a foreclosure that needs some updating, make sure you have a good chunk in your monthly budget for upkeep along with updates. Our mortgage payment is only 14% of our take home pay. So our house is easily affordable and a lot cheaper than a rent payment. But we easily spend another 15% per month on updates for the house. Along with our 20% down payment that we ended up putting into remodeling the home.
So honestly, I would wait till you had a 20% down payment. Yes, the market is great right now. But it has been for the last 3 years. The 20% equity in the home will give you so much more breathing room.
We can honestly sleep well at night knowing that we only have financed 50% of what our house is worth right now, because we had the 20% to put into it and have made updates to it along the way.
There's just something about not having to worry at all about what your property is worth or whether or not you have to worry about being under water on your mortgage if you need to sell it.
TTC since 1/13 DX:PCOS 5/13 (long, anovulatory cycles)

Clomid 50mg 9/13 = BFP! EDD 6/7/14 M/C 5w6d Found 11/4/13
1/14 PCOS / Gluten Free Diet to hopefully regulate my system.
Chemical Pregnancy 03/14
Surprise BFP 6/14, Beta #1: 126 Beta #2: 340 Stick baby, stick! EDD 2/17/15
Riley Elaine born 2/16/15
TTC 2.0 6/15
Chemical Pregnancy 9/15
Chemical Pregnancy 6/16
BFP 9/16 EDD 6/3/17
Beta #1: 145 Beta #2: 376 Beta #3: 2,225 Beta #4: 4,548
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So, after a lot of number crunching, we're under contract on a house and we're totally ok with putting only 5% down -- this will make our monthly payment (PITI) 30% of our monthly take home. After closing, we'll still have an emergency fund remaining, funds to do some minor renovations right off the bat and still 15-20% of take home going into savings every month. We are also debt free and have stable incomes.
All in all, it really all comes down to what your family is comfortable with, financially. Good luck!
TTC Countdown to 8/2015
Thanks all for your advice and perspectives! No retirement funds will be harmed in the purchase if this house
A related vent-sat down to do future budget with a kid the other day, since that will affect what our payments need to stay under, and couldn't find a single daycare in our area that puts prices online. Why is this some sort of trade secret? I don't want to be the crazy lady calling daycares and saying "We may try for a kid in two years and I'm trying to budget. What is the weekly cost of your infant room?"
TTC since 1/13 DX:PCOS 5/13 (long, anovulatory cycles)

Clomid 50mg 9/13 = BFP! EDD 6/7/14 M/C 5w6d Found 11/4/13
1/14 PCOS / Gluten Free Diet to hopefully regulate my system.
Chemical Pregnancy 03/14
Surprise BFP 6/14, Beta #1: 126 Beta #2: 340 Stick baby, stick! EDD 2/17/15
Riley Elaine born 2/16/15
TTC 2.0 6/15
Chemical Pregnancy 9/15
Chemical Pregnancy 6/16
BFP 9/16 EDD 6/3/17
Beta #1: 145 Beta #2: 376 Beta #3: 2,225 Beta #4: 4,548
www.5yearstonever.blogspot.com
Thanks @brij2006! I knew you guys wouldn't think I was nuts
Take into account about 3-5% per year for rate increases at day care centers as well- we've got hit with that % every year since DD#1 was born in 2010.
Infants are more, but not as much as you would think. This is our breakout for the upcoming Sept 2014 - August 2015 school year. It's more expensive per day if your child only goes 2, 3 or 4 days. We also get a sibling discount for both girls at 10%, they don't charge for the major holidays, and we get 20 vacation/sick coupons (10 for each) to use throughout the year. Ours go 5 days a week (except for July and August, they only go 2- DH is a teacher), so our total for the 2014 calendar year is projected to be about $19,500 for 2 kids. That is the same as our mortgage, taxes, and utilities for our current home- it's a huge expense, but in our case, it's not enough where it makes sense for one of us to stay home for 5+ years.
Anyway, this is cart way before the horse. I have a pretty obvious case of babies on the brain right now, but we're a year and a half out from even starting to try.
We are currently looking to buy a home within the next 6 months. Seems like all the houses in our price range go within 2 weeks of being put on the market.(I am a crazy redfin-er and get all updates in our price range in the area we want) This is for one reason - schools! There is one district in our county that has by far the best schools, the district we currently rent in has horrible schools. The market gets much more difficlut for buyers in the spring/summer because everyone is tring to get into the district before school starts. That's why we are considering looking now with a little less down, instead of waiting. But apparently the market slowes after September so we could wait too.
My point is, if you are buying a forever home, or a home where you plan to have school age kids, be sure to check out the school ratings!