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NMR: State of the Union Address - thoughts?
I didn't catch it and was wondering what everyone thinks of Obama's SOTUA.
Posting here because the other boards are dead.
Re: NMR: State of the Union Address - thoughts?
Vlagrl29- my BMB was talking about the 'free college' yesterday. Apparently he is proposing to pay for it by taxing 529 accounts- which is people saving- for college...... Does this get any more insane?
I agree with you about a middle ground. Can we all work, pay for ourselves, and forget the government even exists? I think one of the main problems is that Democrats get elected by promising free stuff, and republicans by promising tax cuts. Those are their horses that the are willing to die on. And until we get a legitimate 3rd party in this country to shake things up, we are all screwed.
Wow- I'm just a burst of sunshine this morning, aren't I? No sleep 3 nights in a row will do that to you I guess.
I can't sit through the SOTU but I try to read about all of these issues. I do agree about a middle ground. Though I agree with the president on many of his policies, I am starting to see some entitledness among my generation that is bugging the heck out of me. From the little I have read I'm intruiged by the middle class tax breaks he is proposing. I just wish it could be covered by closing tax loopholes for large corporations who pay very little in tax nationally instead of tinkering with estate taxes. It's complicated stuff though and I definitely don't have the full background.
But should the government BE paying for healthcare? I personally do no think so, if you CHOOSE to smoke, do drugs, participating in unhealthy behaviors that make you sick then YOU (general you, not you specifically) should have to pay the consequences of your behaviors.
but the cost to have medical procedures and visits is so out of control high - something needs to be done.
I think that can at least partially be fixed by tort reform. There are a lot of frivolous lawsuits out there for medical malpractice that cause doctors to pay high premiums for insurance AND cause a lot of unncessary tests/procedures to be done (defensive medicine) just to make sure they can say they ran the test if asked.
You make some great points here that I agree with, while still supporting the ACA for a lot of the reasons @Gdaisy09 mentioned above.
I agree that people shouldn't go in for every little sniffle just because it's "free." However, I'm also a believer that responsible preventative care will save us all money by preventing expenses ER visits. I'm even supportive of some birth control being free (ducks to hide from flames).
We can definitely all agree it's a broken system. Philosophically, I'm comfortable with the government having some role in providing affordable insurance a) for moral reasons and b) to hopefully throw fewer people into medical debt, which isn't good for anybody. We always had it that way in MA and everything worked great. I do worry for people who fell into the "gap" in states that didn't accept the Medicaid expansion. They are truly without a safety net.
I encourage you to see a doctor for what you are facing now, especially the sores. Perhaps your H's HR could help you figure out how much will be covered?
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I just don't understand why it all costs so much, but then we really aren't supposed to use it unless we ABSOLUTELY have to. So we throw $150 a week away. Or get fined. What an awesome system.
My employer has to offer me insurance because I work over 30hrs/week however I'm not full time so I would be responsible for the full cost of the premium. I would pay $690/month for individual coverage. I would have a $2500 deductible followed by specific copays for office visits, specialists, urgent care and ER. (Just for comparison - the premium for two people is $1660/month, family coverage is $2030/month.)
And saying birth control shouldn't be covered... making changes to that now would open a huge can of worms. Not all birth control is "free," like many people think. Also it is frequently used for other medical issues other than preventing pregnancy. Then if we aren't willing to have that covered by insurance, why have Viagra and the like covered for men?
I'm glad immunization annual max has been removed. I know people who wanted to have their children vaccinated postponed because of the out of pocket cost.
It would be nice if our country could focus on how to live healthy lives and use preventative care to lower medical costs. However you can only prevent so much.