do we need a confessions post?

5dogs

nabum:

Gambling? Hookers? YIKES!!! How did you not know if this was a joint card? Or do I even want to ask????  I hope you get this cleared up. Escrow was a PITA and they scrutinized everything.

He was handling the finances while I was starting up my new company & had done a pretty stellar job of covering it up. Thankfully our loan processor has been great and very understanding.

Yahpee

5dogs:

nabum:

Gambling? Hookers? YIKES!!! How did you not know if this was a joint card? Or do I even want to ask????  I hope you get this cleared up. Escrow was a PITA and they scrutinized everything.

He was handling the finances while I was starting up my new company & had done a pretty stellar job of covering it up. Thankfully our loan processor has been great and very understanding.

 

Which is surprising cause banks right now just arent giving a fek what anyone's story is.  Hope it continues that way for you. 

 

kirkette

5dogs:

kirkette:

5dogs - sorry about the child support issues

It's not child support (my daughter is with my FI) - it's the $16k in joint credit cards he ran up living his double lifestyle while we were married (flying his girlfriend down to OC, entertaining her, gambling, hookers, etc) + his car that I was a co-signer for.

& don't feel guilty about re-wearing the same dress. I think I lived in like four outfits over the summer last year because they were comfy.

Oh that's f'ed up! 

*marshy*

You know, I get SLIGHT baby rabies sometimes. I really do love kids, I just feel like there's no way we can fit kids in financially and in our work lives. We both work so much the max I'd see any kid is a couple of hours a day, and frankly, I need a lot of "me" time to feel good.

But a WEIRD thing that freaks me out about kids is the fact a baby is growing INSIDE of you and you can feel it kick you and move around and stuff. Seriously, it gives me the willies.

So yeah, my confessions today are I'm a _bitch and weird.

5dogs

Yahpee:

Which is surprising cause banks right now just arent giving a fek what anyone's story is.  Hope it continues that way for you. 

The judge found him fully responsible for all of it, I offered to pay off a percentage which I already have done. It's been a fun ride.

zeesbride

I wore a shirt out of the dirty clothes today ....to a party, nonetheless! It was a " pinkalicious" theme and all the guests had to wear pink. Well, I do not own too many pink things and have no idea when the last time I wore this tank top. :::: shrug :::

xoxo,

Duuuurrrtyy ZB 

kimarino13

*marshy*:

But a WEIRD thing that freaks me out about kids is the fact a baby is growing INSIDE of you and you can feel it kick you and move around and stuff. Seriously, it gives me the willies.

OMG, this was totally me before I got KU.  Like, a few years ago, it almost made me not want kids because the thought of it made me want to .  But then when it actually happens to you, it's the coolest thing ever.  

Nessdogg

kimarino13:

*marshy*:

But a WEIRD thing that freaks me out about kids is the fact a baby is growing INSIDE of you and you can feel it kick you and move around and stuff. Seriously, it gives me the willies.

OMG, this was totally me before I got KU.  Like, a few years ago, it almost made me not want kids because the thought of it made me want to .  But then when it actually happens to you, it's the coolest thing ever.  

This!! I was always thinking I would be like Sigourney Weaver from Aliens. I just couldn't see myself pregnant that movie was making me scared as hell.

pinkpuffyhearts

kimarino13:

*marshy*:

But a WEIRD thing that freaks me out about kids is the fact a baby is growing INSIDE of you and you can feel it kick you and move around and stuff. Seriously, it gives me the willies.

OMG, this was totally me before I got KU.  Like, a few years ago, it almost made me not want kids because the thought of it made me want to .  But then when it actually happens to you, it's the coolest thing ever.  

I kind of feel the opposite I always thought it sounded so cool and while it is exciting I'm tired of it. I'm looking forward to having some personal space again..

*marshy*

Nessdogg:

kimarino13:

*marshy*:

But a WEIRD thing that freaks me out about kids is the fact a baby is growing INSIDE of you and you can feel it kick you and move around and stuff. Seriously, it gives me the willies.

OMG, this was totally me before I got KU.  Like, a few years ago, it almost made me not want kids because the thought of it made me want to .  But then when it actually happens to you, it's the coolest thing ever.  

This!! I was always thinking I would be like Sigourney Weaver from Aliens. I just couldn't see myself pregnant that movie was making me scared as hell.

Um, yes. This is what I think.