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Sexting? How do you forgive and move on?
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Re: Sexting? How do you forgive and move on?
Oh haiiiiii
Um. He's clearly not honoring their marriage vows, so why should she be bound by them? The bit about FORSAKING ALL OTHERS applies to both sides. Most churches don't look favorably upon adultery (that whole Ten Commandments thing), which is what this is.
From what she says, he doesn't seem to be even acknowledging that he did some pretty awful sh!t, much less trying to work things out. Whether she wants to work it out or not is almost irrelevant at that point, because when one person cares and the other doesn't, guess what happens? (Hint: probably more of the same bullsh!t.)
You know what gives children a worse example to learn from than divorced parents? One parent who cheats while the other one excuses it and becomes a goddamn doormat.
Time to put on your big girl panties
I've got your rainbows and ponies right here
Do you think it's twins?
I think it's about time for a BUMP!
Sexting is bad, but if you really love your husband you should work through this. After all, marriage is a big commitment and you shouldn't just abandon your marriage because of this one thing.
. . . I mean, what?
Time to put on your big girl panties
I've got your rainbows and ponies right here
Heeeeyyyyy.
This.
Zombie santa gnome is pissed this thread is baaaaack.