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should she be allowed to wear this to prom?

Dress that looks like Confederate flag keeps teen from prom

3:22 AM, Apr. 24, 2012 | 23 Comments
imageTexanna Edwards was not allowed to attend the Gibson County High School prom because school officials said her dress too closely resembled the Confederate flag." src="http://cmsimg.tennessean.com/apps/pbcsi.dll/bilde?Site=DN&Date=20120424&Category=NEWS21&ArtNo=304240032&Ref=AR&MaxW=300&Border=0&Dress-looks-like-Confederate-flag-keeps-teen-from-prom">
Texanna Edwards was not allowed to attend the Gibson County High School prom because school officials said her dress too closely resembled the Confederate flag. / Submitted
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Gibson County High School senior Texanna Edwards was ? like many of her classmates ? looking forward to her prom last Saturday.

But Edwards didn?t get to attend because of her attire ? a knee-length red dress decorated with bright blue stripes and white stars inside the stripes. The school?s colors are red, white and blue, but the dress resembles the controversial Confederate battle flag.

Edwards, 18, said she wasn?t allowed inside the prom after school officials told her the dress was ?offensive and inappropriate.?

?We asked why they thought that, but they kept saying the same thing over and over,? she said Monday. ?We kept asking people walking inside ? black and white ? and everyone said they loved it. Two black women even went off on the principal. They were upset with the principal. No one was upset with me.?

School officials said a teacher warned Edwards about two months ago that the dress might not be acceptable. The teacher, who served as prom sponsor, expressed concern and suggested to Edwards in February that she should clear the idea with the principal, but Edwards did not do so, said Eddie Pruett, director of schools for the Gibson County School System.

Pruett said there have been race-related issues at Gibson County High School in recent years and that Principal James Hughes thought Edwards? dress could have caused a problem.

?She was told because of the dress and what it would look like, it would be considered inappropriate,? Pruett said. ?She had talked with the prom sponsor and they told her it would be inappropriate. ... I feel like Hughes followed legal precedents set by other court cases. Students have legal rights, and we don?t infringe upon those. But we have to follow legal precedents, and if there is a reason to believe something could happen, we don?t wait until after the fact to do something.?

Offer to change is rejected

Edwards said she told several people about her idea and many liked it. Only the one teacher said the dress was a bad idea and that she should check with school administration, she said.

?I didn?t talk with administration because we wore rebel flags all through my four years at Gibson County,? she said. ?I didn?t ask for approval because I didn?t think I needed to. I had one teacher tell me it was a bad idea. but I just thought she only said that because it would offend people. But I asked a bunch of people before I had the dress made and they all loved the idea.?

Kim Lee, Edwards? mother, said her daughter was told by school officials when she arrived at the prom that she could go home and change and then be admitted, but she didn?t. About $500 was spent on her hair, makeup, the dress and her date?s apparel, the family said.

Edwards said, in a way, she wanted her dress to look like the Confederate flag because she lives in the South and at the time she didn?t know if there was a dress like hers. She had the dress custom made.

She said in her four years as a student, she?s seen students wearing clothing bearing the Confederate flag with no incident.

But she said on Monday friends were sending her texts and messages saying school officials were checking for rebel flags and making students hide them as a result of this incident.

?As far as our dress code ? girls can?t show cleavage, wear short shorts or have holes in our clothes, and boys can?t have saggy pants,? Edwards said.

'Unfortunate incident'

Pruett said the dress code for each school is left to the discretion of the principal. Pruett was the principal of the high school until the end of the school year in 2011.

?Their job is to make sure their school is a safe learning environment,? he said. ?Whenever they have after-school activities ? be it a game, prom or something else ? they have to ensure those same things apply. They have to ensure they have a safe environment for all students.?

Hughes ? who was the assistant principal until this year ? called Pruett to discuss the issue on prom night, Pruett said.

?I hate that the girl was not able to attend prom, and this is an unfortunate incident,? Pruett said. ?But as a school district, we have to look out for the best interest for all students. You have to try to do what?s best for every child. Because of past incidents, Mr. Hughes felt that by admitting that dress it could cause a problem that night, or it could continue on throughout the school year.?

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    I couldn't get past her first name to actually read the article....

  • I can't find one iota of sympathy for her.  Not one. 
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  • She doesn't know it yet but she's going to thank this principle in 20 years.  He saved her from a life of immortality on Awkard Family Photos (Prom Edition).
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  • Yes, she should.  If you want everyone at your hs (and now world) to know that you are this stupid (this looks horrible, even on the off chance she didn't mean it), go for it. 
  • But guuuuuys, it's just about Southern Pride!

     

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  • It's tres fug
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  • ?I didn?t talk with administration because we wore rebel flags all through my four years at Gibson County,? she said. ?I didn?t ask for approval because I didn?t think I needed to. I had one teacher tell me it was a bad idea. but I just thought she only said that because it would offend people. But I asked a bunch of people before I had the dress made and they all loved the idea.?

    I do find this a bit hypocritical, though I'm on the principal's side.

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  • This exact thing happened in 2004.  Girl sued for $50K.

    ...but I think her dress was "nicer".

     

    (below article is WND, so take it as that, m'kay?)

     

    BRAVE NEW SCHOOLS

    Confederate flag prom dress leads to suit

    Teen says district violated her 1st Amendment right to free speech

    Published: 12/22/2004 at 1:00 AM
     
     
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    Jacqueline Duty in her prom dress (Photo: Lexington Herald-Leader).

    A high-school senior who was barred from her prom because she showed up wearing a self-designed sequined dress patterned after the Confederate flag has filed suit, claiming her First Amendment rights were violated.

    Jacqueline Duty came to the Russell High School prom May 1 wearing the dress and was told to leave, according to a report in the Lexington, Ky., Herald-Leader.

    School officials had gotten wind that she would wear the gown and, her lawyers say, wouldn?t even let her leave her vehicle.

    ?Her only dance for her senior prom was on the sidewalk to a song playing on the radio,? Earl-Ray Neal, her lawyer, told the local paper.

    Duty is suing not only on First Amendment grounds, but for defamation, false imprisonment and assault. The suit seeks damages in excess of $50,000.

    Showing a news conference the controversial dress on Monday, Duty defended her actions.

    ?I wanted to show part of my Southern heritage,? she said. The Herald-Leader reports she had worked on the dress? design for four years and that she said it had always been her dream to wear a Confederate-themed dress to her senior prom.

    While Duty acknowledges some people are offended by the Confederate flag, she says that?s no reason to bar her from expressing herself.

    ?Everyone has their own opinion,? she said. ?But that?s not mine. I?m proud of where I came from and my background.?

    According to the report, the Sons of Confederate Veterans have agreed to help pay some of Duty?s legal costs.

    Duty, 19, who now attends Shawnee State University in Ohio, says the principal warned her not to wear the dress, but she didn?t have another one available. She decided to go to the prom anyway in hopes officials would change their minds.

    The lawsuit claims the principal, Sean Howard, and two police officers met Duty outside the school.

    ?Howard intimidated (Duty) by physically striking the vehicle in which she was sitting,? the lawsuit said.

    Duty says she was surprised by the tough stance taken against her.

    ?We?ve all worn Confederate flags to school before,? she told the paper.

    Her lawyer said Duty lost many scholarships because she was portrayed as a racist after the incident.

     http://www.wnd.com/2004/12/28137/

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  • I had one teacher tell me it was a bad idea. but I just thought she only said that because it would offend people.

    Mkay. Well, good luck with that then. 

  • imageMrsBeagle:

    But guuuuuys, it's just about Southern Pride!

     

    Another pic of the girl from 2004.  Check out the right side background. Yep, that's about southern pride.

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  • imageSou Desafinado:

    I had one teacher tell me it was a bad idea. but I just thought she only said that because it would offend people.

    Mkay. Well, good luck with that then. 

    Well duh.  I'm going out on a limb and thinking she isn't the brightest bulb...

    I also can't get past her name...and that dress is ugly anyway. 

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  • She shouldn't be allowed to wear it because it's fug.
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  • imagemominatrix:
    imageMrsBeagle:

    But guuuuuys, it's just about Southern Pride!

     

    Another pic of the girl from 2004.  Check out the right side background. Yep, that's about southern pride.

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    I'd sue too if I had to take my Dad to prom. 

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  • imageSou Desafinado:

    I had one teacher tell me it was a bad idea. but I just thought she only said that because it would offend people.

    Mkay. Well, good luck with that then. 

    This is what sticks out for me. She knew it was offensive, and yet chose to wear it. I have no sympathy for this girl. None.

    A big old middle finger to you, stupid Nest.
  • My high school dress code banned rebel flags outright. That's the best way to handle prom attire, IMO. If it's already in the dress code, there's no room for arguments of it being arbitrary/unfair/what have you. As to whether a school can legally ban rebel flags in the first place... that's trickier. Being in the South in a school where racial tensions have run high since it opened in the 50s, my school probably had a compelling interest to issue that ban. I can't speak to these schools, but I'm siding with the principal since the chick was told not to wear that fug dress in the first place.
  • another one...

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    is this a thing?

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  • imagemominatrix:
    imageMrsBeagle:

    But guuuuuys, it's just about Southern Pride!

     

    Another pic of the girl from 2004.  Check out the right side background. Yep, that's about southern pride.

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    So if you want to class up the stars & bars, just add sequins!

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  • imagecopzgirl:
    imagemominatrix:
    imageMrsBeagle:

    But guuuuuys, it's just about Southern Pride!

     

    Another pic of the girl from 2004.  Check out the right side background. Yep, that's about southern pride.

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    I'd sue too if I had to take my Dad to prom. 

    RIP marie427.

    At first I thought, "well, if girlfriend wants to make an ass of herself, then let her." But the article mentioned that this school has dealt with race-related incidents before so I think they are well within their right to not allow someone into the prom with a dress like that if they fear that it would incite something serious.

  • imagemominatrix:
    imageMrsBeagle:

    But guuuuuys, it's just about Southern Pride!

     

    Another pic of the girl from 2004.  Check out the right side background. Yep, that's about southern pride.

    image 

     

    What is that?  It's not a tarantula? 

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  • I have NO sympathy for this girl.  Absolutely none.  It's appalling.

     

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  • imageMrDobalina:
    imagemominatrix:
    imageMrsBeagle:

    But guuuuuys, it's just about Southern Pride!

     

    Another pic of the girl from 2004.  Check out the right side background. Yep, that's about southern pride.

    image 

     

    What is that?  It's not a tarantula? 

    Whatever it is, it appears to be eating a watermelon? Indifferent

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  • imageMrDobalina:
    imagemominatrix:
    imageMrsBeagle:

    But guuuuuys, it's just about Southern Pride!

     

    Another pic of the girl from 2004.  Check out the right side background. Yep, that's about southern pride.

    image 

     

    What is that?  It's not a tarantula? 

    No. Racist cartoon.

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  • imagemominatrix:

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    It's a dress for the evening wear competition of Miss America. If Miss America was run by the KKK.

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  • wow I didn't even see the watermelon.  WOW.  WOW.

     

    also, Mr.Dobs to the eyedoctor. 

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  • imagecopzgirl:
    imagemominatrix:
    imageMrsBeagle:

    But guuuuuys, it's just about Southern Pride!

     

    Another pic of the girl from 2004.  Check out the right side background. Yep, that's about southern pride.

    image 

    I'd sue too if I had to take my Dad to prom. 

    /dead

     

    This whole thread is even better than the article. 

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  • imagecurlydoglover:

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    I couldn't get past her first name to actually read the article....

    That face.  

    ::shudders::

  • Which state did this happen in? Oh...huh...

    Zip it! 

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  • imageDylanite:
    imagecurlydoglover:

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    I couldn't get past her first name to actually read the article....

    That face.  

    ::shudders::

    that's the future of America, right there.

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  • imagetartaruga:

    Which state did this happen in? Oh...huh...

    Zip it! 

     

    LOL  You are starting *** lately, aren't ya? 

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