Married Life
Dear Community,
Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.
Thank you.
Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.
Thank you.
Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
Here's your drama for the night. TMI.
H and I have had a rough patch. We're on the upswing (things are actually really good now), but it's not been easy. Until the last week or so, it had been over 2 years since we last had sex.
Ever since, though, I've been feeling... off. Down there. I'm a prude in general, and have a very hard time talking about sex/related stuff. To anyone/everyone (including my H/doctor/friends/etc.).
I'm scared what's might be going on. I want to bury my head in the sand and hope it fixes itself.
Re: Here's your drama for the night. TMI.
WTF.
are you saying he gave you crabs?
WHAT ARE YOU SAYING
DID YOU READ THAT I'M A PRUDE?! This is hard for me!!! lol
This is going to sound awful/weird/something. I don't know how to describe it. But... damp. Or moist. Or drippy. Something. Like my vag has a cold. wtmf. I don't know!
Not pain. Just... weird.
lol! it sounds like your vag is saying, "thank christ!! we're getting some action!!"
lol! it sounds like your vag is saying, "thank christ!! we're getting some action!!"
This is an excellent theory. Much less scary that what I had been envisioning!!!
Please reassure me that there is not actually something WRONG with the ol' vagolla.
dup
There is not. You have a happy vag.
You don't have to answer this on here, but are you "off" because you've ever experienced any sort of sexual trauma?
Honestly, sex is awesome and I hope you're able to find a way to let yourself go so you can enjoy it, even if that means therapy or something.
Did he Jizz in you? If so, that probably explains a lot. Or, have you been thinking randy/perverted thoughts lately? That could explain a lot as well.
I cannot believe I just typed any of that.
wise words. wise words, indeed.
Ok then, I agree. Sounds like your vag got some action and is just...responding?
Noooooooooooooo no. Never, thankfully. Stupid sex as a teenager, yes. Trauma, no.
Like I said, we've had some rough times - emotionally, and as far as our relationship goes. I am 100% guilty of using (lack of) sex as a punishment. And it spiraled out of control with everything else.
I need to continue to work on letting go so I can enjoy it. But this was a step in the right direction. I'm just totally freaked about the vag now.
I can't believe I'm responding to this.
Yes, he did. But for DAYS afterward? I mean, I get for like A day. Maybe 2. But 3 or 4???
I've been so stressed about this whole ...issue that I haven't been able to think anything remotely good-sex related.
I was going to include this originally, but thought "EW! No one needs that!"
Clear. Totally clear. No smell (that I've noticed, at least). A little bit... sticky?
Not cloudy, not yellow, not fishy (I've done some googling... although I wish I hadn't).
I was thinking this too.
You are seriously cracking me the fvuck up tonight!! LOLOLOLLLLLL
I swear I want to kiss everysinglefuckingoneofyou. I do not exaggerate.
I had planned out in my head how I was going to:
go to the PP in a neighboring town (so as to not use the insurance)
get an STD test
find out it was positive
sob and take the drugs they give me
ask for some for H
slip them to him, unbeknownst to him
All while not being upset for him cheating. Because, really, how can I be mad after 2 years of no sex?!
I KID YOU NOT. NOT ONE BIT.
Wouldn't it be just my luck to get k-***-u the first time after all this time? omg.
Lol....yeah.