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S/O: What's the longest you've been away from DH?

We lived apart when we first started dating, traveling from Chicago to Milwaukee or Chicago to Lafayette, IN (for almost 2 years, seeing each other on the weekends), but since we've been married, 10 days.
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Re: S/O: What's the longest you've been away from DH?

  • 2.5 weeks at most, since 2000. 
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  • in a row? 5-7 days, probably.

    when we were engaged and the first year we were married, he was traveling 3-4 days a week, 3-4 weeks a month. so, while not long stretches, it felt long because it added up.

    my ex and i were long distance, so we'd go a month or more without seeing each other. that sucked, and ultimately did our relationship in. well, that and wanting different things in life...


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  • Since we've been married, in the 10 days - 2.5 week range.

    When we were dating, I did two summer internships that were in different states from where we were living - he visited once each summer, but otherwise the whole summer. 

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  • Three months with a short visit (like 1-2 days) or two.

    It sucked ass, but he sent me Hallmark cards every week.  Awwww barf. :)  I love mail.

  • 7 months.

    It has only been 3 months though since I've seen him (goodness I can't believe I'm even saying only 3 months) 

    *sigh* I miss him (sorry)

  • While we were dating since he joined the Peace Corps and moved overseas. I quit my job and moved there too after five months.

    And I'm leaving for tomorrow for two and a half weeks for a work trip. As excited as I am, I'm going to miss the crap out of him.

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  • Never more than a weekend. 

    Now a week.

     

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  • I have no idea.  Probably a week or so back when I was in college. 
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  • I have no idea really, a week or two during college.

    5 days since we graduated. 

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  • imageUnderwaterRhymes:

    While we were dating since he joined the Peace Corps and moved overseas. I quit my job and moved there too after five months.

    And I'm leaving for tomorrow for two and a half weeks for a work trip. As excited as I am, I'm going to miss the crap out of him.

    Where are you going??
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  • Confession: I bought him a card to open every other day while I'm gone.

    I am a dork.

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    imageUnderwaterRhymes:

    While we were dating since he joined the Peace Corps and moved overseas. I quit my job and moved there too after five months.

    And I'm leaving for tomorrow for two and a half weeks for a work trip. As excited as I am, I'm going to miss the crap out of him.

    Where are you going??

    Nepal.

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  • imageUnderwaterRhymes:
    imageJalapenoMel:
    imageUnderwaterRhymes:

    While we were dating since he joined the Peace Corps and moved overseas. I quit my job and moved there too after five months.

    And I'm leaving for tomorrow for two and a half weeks for a work trip. As excited as I am, I'm going to miss the crap out of him.

    Where are you going??

    Nepal.

    GD, that's awesome! Do you blog?

     

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  • 1 month - but there was a weekend visit in the middle

    He had to go to a 1 month long course for work right around when Natalie was turning 1 year old. 

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  • imageUnderwaterRhymes:
    imageJalapenoMel:
    imageUnderwaterRhymes:

    While we were dating since he joined the Peace Corps and moved overseas. I quit my job and moved there too after five months.

    And I'm leaving for tomorrow for two and a half weeks for a work trip. As excited as I am, I'm going to miss the crap out of him.

    Where are you going??

    Nepal.

    I would love to know what you do.  You seem to get to see the world that way.  But, I won't pry. :)

    I need to get around more.  See more places.

  • I would say the longest is a week since we've been together.   Since we've been married, I dont think we have been apart for more than a night.  
  • While we were married?

    Well, in a row, almost two months.  But we lived apart for almost 3 years, when I while I lived in Seattle and he wrapped up his post doc in Madison.  He'd "visit" me every other month or so.

     

     

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  • Six days when he was on a hunting trip. The first day I missed him so much I could barely stand it. Days 2 - 5 were glorious and on day 6 I went back to missing him because I knew he was coming home
  • Jalapeno - I did when I lived in Bulgaria, but I haven't for a long time. I'm willing to PM the link to you because I trust you if you're interested. :)

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  • Since we've been married?  Probably 10 days.  He's probably going to be gone for 6 weeks next summer and it's going to suck.  He's going to be off some random island off the Marshall Islands, so I won't be able to talk to him much at all during that time. 

    We did long distances for 2.5 years before we got married, so I'm okay with him not being around for a bit as long as I can talk to him.  Last week I saw him Monday morning and didn't see him again until Friday night.

  • When we were studying abroad (same time, different places) I think we went 4-6 weeks without seeing each other. Since we've been married- overnight, but we've been married less than 6 months.

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  • When I was on a girls trip for four days. I missed him sooooooo much. He'll have to go to India for two weeks for work pretty soon and I'm a bit anxious about it. We've been together almost 10 years and are together a lot. I'm pretty sure we're ML codependent.
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  • 3 days when my Dad was sick. We've only been married 2.5 years.
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  • A couple weeks.  I usually visit my family solo once a year.  He was waaaay more lonely last year than ever before though, maybe because I brought the kid with me. lol.
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  • One month while I studied abroad in college during the summer while we were dating. He traveled for two months straight last fall for work but was on weekly trips, home on weekends. So since we have been married, 5 days apart max. I dont fall apart...I usually gave a dinner with BFF and watch lots of chick flix and eat frozen meals I dont have to cook. I DID act pretty childish the week he went to Alaska cause I wanted to go sooo bad.
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  • 8 days when his mother took me to Hawaii while he was back home working. It was an all girls trip and my sil had just graduated from high school.
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