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if you are reading this because you want it to be entertaining or not but I need to put this out there.
I am getting really worried.
DH left at 1215. last time have talked to him was 230. It is now 930.
Anxiety is going up a little bit.
Re: I dont care
He is going on a senior trip.
He is a teach so he is going as a chaperone. They are going to somewhere in VA close to West VA
He will be gone til Friday
Havent been apart for more than 2 days since we have been married.
I would like to atleast know he made it there.
I havent heard from him in 7 hours I dont even know if he made it there. It is our relationship. He calls. That is what he does. He calls when he gets somewhere and he calls to say goodnight.
Yes.
he is on the senior trip
He's on a road trip with a bunch of high schoolers and you are wondering why he has not had a chance to chat?
I'd call him around 11pm or later. You have to be realistic. I'm sure he has his hands full.
He said he would call or text when he got there and before bed.
there are only 12. he only had to take are of the 5 boys. They are all great kids. Not crazy. Am I not allowed to worry a lttle?
I think this is it.
It just sucks.
Ohhhhh . . .Now I am worried. Have you seen Deliverance?
Kidding
Cell service sucks in the mountains. He is fine. You on the other hand are in bad need of a glass of wine . . . or six.
This.
I always tell DH I'm going to call him when I get somewhere and it's inevitable that I get busy with other things and don't have time to call.
i mean this in the nicest way possible, but you need to unclench. traveling with kids is safe, but exhausting.
chaperones arent on a fun vacation. they answer questions, worry about room assignments and are constantly saying things like we dont pee on our friends and no hoes are not an appropriate conversation topic for a school trip.
hes busy. hes working. he will call when he gets a moment.
Because I have an anxiety disorder and that is what happens when I start worrying.
couples who can't be apart for more than 2 days without having a panic attack freak me out.
weirdos.
This sounds nice. To bad I have already been to the store.
I understand but its a quick "here. love ya" text
these aren't like middle schoolers. They are highschool seniors. Well behaved seniors. But I know he is working.
Are you on medication for your anxiety disorder? Did you and your H come to any agreement before he left regarding how often you would be in contact with one another?
I know. I just wanted to put out the worry.
this is me. I always worry about the worst possible thing that could happen.
Not being snarky, but do you take any meds for your anxiety? Is there anything you can do to calm down until you know something? Glass of wine helps me.
I'm positive that he is OK and I think you know that the chances of something actually happening to him a slim and that your worry is feeding itself.
Breathe.