So do you, um, let him do it in your mouth?

MarissaY

Kimbus22:

No one should do anything in bed that makes them uncomfortable.  If you want to give it a try, do it.  If you're not okay with the idea, he'll live.

 

This exactly! I personally enjoy finishing my husband off, but it's not for everyone. Only do what you're comfortable with. I'm sure he'll enjoy it either way.

saberswife

i do not let my hubby *** in my mouth like you i threw up so he will either let me stuck him till he is about to *** and he cums on my stomach or i will stuck him and he will on my boobs or i get him going and we have sex 

kibskix

It really depends. Different partners have different tastes, and not all of them are good! If you dont want to swallow, you can close off the back of your mouth with your tongue, just hold it in your mouth until he's finished, then spit it out. That requires communication though and knowing when he's close. 

If you absolutely can't think of doing it without gagging, don't do it. I think partners should be open to trying to make the other happy, but if it doesnt jive, it doesnt jive, and yes, he WILL live if you don't let him finish

letzgoracing81

You might want to start slowly...maybe work you way to the point where you let him finish in your mouth...but keep a towel nearby that you can immediately spit it into.  Some guys like to see a girl open her mouth and see it run back down your chin on to your chest.  It depends on the guy.  Some guys find that too messy (or they get a little turned off at the thought of kissing you while it is still on your face) if that is the case, let him finish...bury your face in the towel laying next to you and spit it out. (The key is to not make a big production about spitting it out....which might hurt their ego a little.)  Either way...Dudes LOVE to 'finish' in our mouths....I know they find it REALLY  hot.

It took me some time to work up to the point that I can swallow.  Don't push yourself to do it over-night...take baby steps.

When you reach a point where you think you are ready to swallow...try to do it all in one gulp...literally.  Let him finish (might take a few seconds) then try to swallow it without letting is swish around your mouth too much.  This will help, since semen doesn't have much of a taste anyway.   I agree with what others said, even if you decide to swallow...still have him give you a signal to warn you before it happens.

I think eventually you will warm up to the idea and it will get easier over time.