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Feel like crap

hamsterdance · 2012-10-16 08:23:44

H and I got married two months ago, but this is mainly about me. He has been depressed for months. He says that the better things get in his life the worse he feels, and he doesn't know why. He says he thinks about dying a lot. I pushed him to get medical help, and he finally had an appointment last week. He's going to see…

Re: Feel like crap

ReturnOfKuus member

October 2012

hamsterdance:
Oh yay! I finally figured out a workaround for posting from my phone! I will check out that board. I know I need to take care of it, it just seems very overwhelming to me.I think you are exactly right about H. I am against it both for the reason you said, and because of his problems with healing and infection.I think we are doing ok right now at least with being physically affectionate. We still hug and hold each other a lot, and we still talk a lot. We don't really ever fight. We watch movies together, and go out to eat. We do as much together as we can. I feel like we're both doing better already (even though he's not on any meds, I think just knowing you have help and don't have to go it alone makes a big difference in your outlook. Last night I kissed him and he kissed me back, and let's just say it ended well. And I wasn't at all just waiting for it to be over.

I am so happy for you!

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