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Re: DH being unsupportive
When you've been married this long, you need a ticker to remind you.
Baby Boy M - 08/01/2013
I get that my husband may not be comfortable with the thought of watching a young child for several hours a day alone. Guess what? I'm not totally comfortable with it myself yet. But, being an adult means facing your fears and steppin
Call me cynical, but based on the OP, i don't think that this is a case of the husband not feeling "comfortable" taking care of an infant alone. This is a case of him just being lazy. Look, I get that some men don't take easily to childcare. Some women
Gender roles do vary by the couple. I would NEVER have kids with a man afraid of watching his own child. We both expect a balance of working and parenting from both of us. f I can swing it financially, he'd like to be a stay at home dad. II know all o
TTC since September 2012
TTC since September 2012
TTC since September 2012
One more thing..... To all you lovely ladies saying to not take advice from me:
I can say the same thing about you at times but I would never say that because even if I disagree with you now, sometimes I don't and the same thing goes with me.
TTC since September 2012
TTC since September 2012
I'm more than willing to start validating people's ideas when they start having ideas worth validating
OP - first, I'm sorry you're in this situation. There seems to be a number of issues but, to keep it short, I agree that you'd be wise to see a divorce attorney. I'm really sorry. Your H is a chronic liar, refuses to parent his children and is trying t
Tell me why you INTENTIONALLY had TWO babies with a man who is a selfish child. And why would you intentionally have a SECOND child knowing that he was a bad father to your first child?
Your judgment doesn't seem too sound to me...<br
When you've been married this long, you need a ticker to remind you.
Baby Boy M - 08/01/2013
Most of the time the woman is the stay at home parent when there is one because there is still a wage inequality. It's a matter of finances and how they tie to continuing oppression, not a matter of who is most comfortable and best equipped to st
TTC since September 2012