Well I took what she said badly. If she gets flagged 5 times it goes to the higher ups and they can decide to ban her if they want to.
Maybe you should look into some new hobbies. Cross-stitch is coming back in a big way.
Can we cross-stitch your mouth shut (or fingers together away from a keyboard in this case). That would be a useful hobby. What is your problem anyways, if you didn't act like a white-knighting troll people wouldn't call you one. Go away.
Lucky- plenty of folks on TB do not have tickers.
"Do the best you can, until you know better. Then when you know better, do better."
Well I took what she said badly. If she gets flagged 5 times it goes to the higher ups and they can decide to ban her if they want to.
Maybe you should look into some new hobbies. Cross-stitch is coming back in a big way.
Wiggy - forgive me if I'm wrong but I think you mean you took it as in she was making light of one of our members tragedies. That's exactly how I took it as well. If that is the case, MH, you are not the silent-until-prompted-protester you like to claim to be. You are just cruel.
Replying with a second snarky comment is immature instead of clarifying what you meant, had you not intended on sounding like you were making light of someone else's heartache. Since you did not clarify and just typed another ridiculous response it appears your goal was to be disgusting and insensitive. That is not welcome here.
That is exactly how I took it @tudorrose11 and I asked for clarification in case I was wrong about it. Her snarky response to my concern just confirmed my suspicion. It is times like these I wish we had a mod.
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I didn't see a direct attack on anyone. Quit trying to stir things up. You're being pathetic and you're overreacting so please consider taking up a new hobby. Speaking of white knighting...
I didn't see a direct attack on anyone. Quit trying to stir things up. You're being pathetic and you're overreacting so please consider taking up a new hobby. Speaking of white knighting...
Somebody who just experienced a loss said mentioned no longer having a pregnancy ticker and you said that's too bad. Given your reputation around these parts it comes off as sarcastic and cruel. Thank you for understanding.
Congrats to my GP Sister from another mister Bruinsbabe!!
She wants to comment but can't because she doesn't want to come across like me... That's just too bad now isn't it?
She brought me into this. I made a snarky comment in response to her snarky comment. You people need to untwist your mom panties and get back to changing diapers. There are more important things in life. Seriously.
She wants to comment but can't because she doesn't want to come across like me... That's just too bad now isn't it?
She brought me into this. I made a snarky comment in response to her snarky comment. You people need to untwist your mom panties and get back to changing diapers. There are more important things in life. Seriously.
My mommy panties are a thong, so they don't twist well. Yeah, maybe she shouldnt have name dropped but she was implying she didnt want to be a troll. You call everyone else out for being b-words, you say people bully others, and you never contribute positively to a post, but those of us who are getting defensive of a woman who just had her pregnancy end too soon have NEVER bullied you and neither wiggy nor myself have a tendency to be super snarky so IDK why you are being so b-wordy to us.
Go take some midol....You sound like you are PMSing Ms. Overgeneralization...
"Do the best you can, until you know better. Then when you know better, do better."
You are an unknown person who randomly pops in to comment and it isn't usually taken well so she was saying she didn't want to be that random person who pops in to comment and isn't taken very well because nobody knows her. Makes perfect sense to me.
Your response was cruel, insensitive and downright wrong not just simply snarky.
You white knight people you don't know for what reason? I am sticking up for my friend because I know she is hurting and doesn't need some troll to bring her down (not that you would).
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You are an unknown person who randomly pops in to comment and it isn't usually taken well so she was saying she didn't want to be that random person who pops in to comment and isn't taken very well because nobody knows her. Makes perfect sense to me.
Your response was cruel, insensitive and downright wrong not just simply snarky.
You white knight people you don't know for what reason? I am sticking up for my friend because I know she is hurting and doesn't need some troll to bring her down (not that you would).
You are an unknown person who randomly pops in to comment and it isn't usually taken well so she was saying she didn't want to be that random person who pops in to comment and isn't taken very well because nobody knows her. Makes perfect sense to me.
Your response was cruel, insensitive and downright wrong not just simply snarky.
You white knight people you don't know for what reason? I am sticking up for my friend because I know she is hurting and doesn't need some troll to bring her down (not that you would).
Get. Over. Yourself.
You are seriously pissing me off now. If you truly weren't mocking her for her loss then why have you not apologized for coming across that way. You pretend to be holier than thou but yet I have never seen you do anything but be bitchy towards regulars that you deem unworthy.
ETA because DS made me post too soon, now please kindly go fly a kite.
Congrats to my GP Sister from another mister Bruinsbabe!!
I'm not going to apologize to her for something you took and some lady who wants to live with her mom took a certain way and blew out of proportion. I can't believe we're still going around and around on this. Get Over it. Be done with it. She called out under the bridge, I answered. I thought it was ironic that she so wanted to comment on a subject she had no personal experience on, on a board she did not "belong" to, when that's what I always get raked across the coals for. End of story. Get over yourselves!
You never once said I took it out of context or read it wrong...in fact you agreed with it being a snarky response. I have not said anything that would be considered an overreaction to your weird and exagerrated comments on here. I also see no point into bringing my wonderful relationship with my mom into this.
You being raked over the coals is exactly what Lucky was talking about not wanting to be like you. You should be able to relate to how she feels.
And if anyone should get a life maybe it should be you because we all have relationships and post on here and make friends while obviously you just sit around reading about us all day.
I just don't really understand the attitude and rude responses. SMH.
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And if anyone should get a life maybe it should be you because we all have relationships and post on here and make friends while obviously you just sit around reading about us all day.
I just don't really understand the attitude and rude responses. SMH.
This has become rather upsetting. @MH1006 you may not know what it's like to have a support group from the way you treat people, but when you hurt someone in a group like this then you hurt us all. Words are very powerful and you need to rethink how you talk. No need to be as nasty as you are, and it's not welcome here. Thanks for understanding.
Not even going to respond to the drama; you ladies understood where I was coming from and covered me while I was away from the board this evening. Thank you. ♥
TTC since July 2012
BFP #1: 11/9/13; spontaneous m/c at 6w2d, 11/25/13
What's sad is the fact that she didn't even put an @ symbol to tag you, and didn't put your correct screen name. So you weren't notified about this post. You just lurk around waiting for an opportunity to pop in and stir things up. AKA Troll.
But when you pop in to make a snide remark to hurt someone that is already hurting (to which you should know that because you read everything we post). Then please have half a soul to apologize or not post anything at all.
TTC since 1/13 DX:PCOS 5/13 (long, anovulatory cycles) Clomid 50mg 9/13 = BFP! EDD 6/7/14 M/C 5w6d Found 11/4/13 1/14 PCOS / Gluten Free Diet to hopefully regulate my system. Chemical Pregnancy 03/14 Surprise BFP 6/14, Beta #1: 126 Beta #2: 340 Stick baby, stick! EDD 2/17/15 Riley Elaine born 2/16/15
What's sad is the fact that she didn't even put an @ symbol to tag you, and didn't put your correct screen name. So you weren't notified about this post. You just lurk around waiting for an opportunity to pop in and stir things up. AKA Troll.
But when you pop in to make a snide remark to hurt someone that is already hurting (to which you should know that because you read everything we post). Then please have half a soul to apologize or not post anything at all.
What's sad is that you people are probably making her feel worse by implying that I was referring to her recent loss. I knew about it (what kind of troll would I be if I didn't?) but honestly didn't pay attention to the whole ticker thing ... I thought it was funny that she gave me a shout out (probably on purpose to start some drama) and wanted to go trolling. (It's hard not to say anything when you see people being ignorant/rude isn't it?!)
I felt sorry for you when you made your announcement and everyone jumped down your throat. Not anymore. You're just as pathetic as the rest of them, apparently.
@mh1006. I was trying to not write anything, but I gotta. I know you meant "that's too bad" about how she would be perceived as a troll like you, not about her loss. You love drama, but you're not outright cruel to someone hurting, haven't been yet anyway. You just pick strange fights to fight. In this case? I'm on team mh. LA snarked you, you snarked back. Wiggly blew it out of proportion because she wants to be a mod. Can we all move on now?
Married 05/05/2007, Off BCP Dec 2007
2 failed Clomid cycles in 2011.
RE in October 2012: IUI # 12&3 with meds: BFNs 12/12-2/13
IVF cycle: ER: 9/18/13, Lu came back to snuggle in: 9/23/13, EDD: 6/11/13
What's sad is the fact that she didn't even put an @ symbol to tag you, and didn't put your correct screen name. So you weren't notified about this post. You just lurk around waiting for an opportunity to pop in and stir things up. AKA Troll.
But when you pop in to make a snide remark to hurt someone that is already hurting (to which you should know that because you read everything we post). Then please have half a soul to apologize or not post anything at all.
What's sad is that you people are probably making her feel worse by implying that I was referring to her recent loss. I knew about it (what kind of troll would I be if I didn't?) but honestly didn't pay attention to the whole ticker thing ... I thought it was funny that she gave me a shout out (probably on purpose to start some drama) and wanted to go trolling. (It's hard not to say anything when you see people being ignorant/rude isn't it?!)
I felt sorry for you when you made your announcement and everyone jumped down your throat. Not anymore. You're just as pathetic as the rest of them, apparently.
If you truly were trying to compare her to you being a troll, then clarify that. What you posted was an attack on her, and of course we're going to attack back.
Why don't you actually post other times than just when there's a chance to start a bitch fest? If you disagree with what is posted, that's okay. There's nothing wrong with that. We're a community of women that have different views and opinions. So of course we aren't going to get along all the time. Your thoughts and opinions would be much better received if we knew you outside of those.
Also, I appreciated you backing me up on that post. But also I realized that the way I posted my BFP may have been hurtful to others struggling with MFI. That was in no way what I had meant by it (same with you trying to compare Lucky to yourself as a troll, and us not receiving it that way). So I later apologized for it hurting anyone, because that is not what I meant by it. If that truly isn't what you were trying to poke fun of Lukcy for, then apologize and explain. That's all we ask.
TTC since 1/13 DX:PCOS 5/13 (long, anovulatory cycles) Clomid 50mg 9/13 = BFP! EDD 6/7/14 M/C 5w6d Found 11/4/13 1/14 PCOS / Gluten Free Diet to hopefully regulate my system. Chemical Pregnancy 03/14 Surprise BFP 6/14, Beta #1: 126 Beta #2: 340 Stick baby, stick! EDD 2/17/15 Riley Elaine born 2/16/15
First, I want to clarify that I have no interest in being a mod. I have talked to nest Cayla about it but I am mainly mobile and can't make the commitment.
I thought I may have misinterpreted what she said so I asked for clarification. None was given.
I did not blow this out of proportion because I wanted to start drama or spread this around. I was genuinely concerned about a potentially malicious troll. I love this community and I hate seeing the ones I love getting hurt especially if it is preventable.
I am sorry if that was not the intention of the post and that is why I asked for clarification in the first place. I am not asking for an apology from MH if her post was misunderstood there is no reason for her apologize I was just asking for an explanation and after all this she finally said that isn't what she meant.
If that is not what you meant then I am sorry that I took it in the wrong way. It happens on internet sites but I am sorry it happened to you and was my fault. I think this all could have been over sooner had you said that wasn't your intention in the first place but again I am sorry for misinterpreting it and the ensuing drama.
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Replying with a second snarky comment is immature instead of clarifying what you meant, had you not intended on sounding like you were making light of someone else's heartache. Since you did not clarify and just typed another ridiculous response it appears your goal was to be disgusting and insensitive. That is not welcome here.
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She brought me into this. I made a snarky comment in response to her snarky comment. You people need to untwist your mom panties and get back to changing diapers. There are more important things in life. Seriously.
"Do the best you can, until you know better. Then when you know better, do better."
-Maya Angelou
Your response was cruel, insensitive and downright wrong not just simply snarky.
You white knight people you don't know for what reason? I am sticking up for my friend because I know she is hurting and doesn't need some troll to bring her down (not that you would).
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You being raked over the coals is exactly what Lucky was talking about not wanting to be like you. You should be able to relate to how she feels.
And if anyone should get a life maybe it should be you because we all have relationships and post on here and make friends while obviously you just sit around reading about us all day.
I just don't really understand the attitude and rude responses. SMH.
Our Little Raspberry-Born 3/27/12
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Our Little Raspberry-Born 3/27/12
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Waiting on my baby girl
EDD 2/5/14
B/w 1/8: betas 17,345, progesterone 25.6
TTC since 1/13 DX:PCOS 5/13 (long, anovulatory cycles)
Clomid 50mg 9/13 = BFP! EDD 6/7/14 M/C 5w6d Found 11/4/13
1/14 PCOS / Gluten Free Diet to hopefully regulate my system.
Chemical Pregnancy 03/14
Surprise BFP 6/14, Beta #1: 126 Beta #2: 340 Stick baby, stick! EDD 2/17/15
Riley Elaine born 2/16/15
TTC 2.0 6/15
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Chemical Pregnancy 6/16
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Beta #1: 145 Beta #2: 376 Beta #3: 2,225 Beta #4: 4,548
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I felt sorry for you when you made your announcement and everyone jumped down your throat. Not anymore. You're just as pathetic as the rest of them, apparently.
B/w 1/8: betas 17,345, progesterone 25.6
If you truly were trying to compare her to you being a troll, then clarify that. What you posted was an attack on her, and of course we're going to attack back.
Why don't you actually post other times than just when there's a chance to start a bitch fest? If you disagree with what is posted, that's okay. There's nothing wrong with that. We're a community of women that have different views and opinions. So of course we aren't going to get along all the time. Your thoughts and opinions would be much better received if we knew you outside of those.
Also, I appreciated you backing me up on that post. But also I realized that the way I posted my BFP may have been hurtful to others struggling with MFI. That was in no way what I had meant by it (same with you trying to compare Lucky to yourself as a troll, and us not receiving it that way). So I later apologized for it hurting anyone, because that is not what I meant by it. If that truly isn't what you were trying to poke fun of Lukcy for, then apologize and explain. That's all we ask.
TTC since 1/13 DX:PCOS 5/13 (long, anovulatory cycles)
Clomid 50mg 9/13 = BFP! EDD 6/7/14 M/C 5w6d Found 11/4/13
1/14 PCOS / Gluten Free Diet to hopefully regulate my system.
Chemical Pregnancy 03/14
Surprise BFP 6/14, Beta #1: 126 Beta #2: 340 Stick baby, stick! EDD 2/17/15
Riley Elaine born 2/16/15
TTC 2.0 6/15
Chemical Pregnancy 9/15
Chemical Pregnancy 6/16
BFP 9/16 EDD 6/3/17
Beta #1: 145 Beta #2: 376 Beta #3: 2,225 Beta #4: 4,548
www.5yearstonever.blogspot.com
I thought I may have misinterpreted what she said so I asked for clarification. None was given.
I did not blow this out of proportion because I wanted to start drama or spread this around. I was genuinely concerned about a potentially malicious troll. I love this community and I hate seeing the ones I love getting hurt especially if it is preventable.
I am sorry if that was not the intention of the post and that is why I asked for clarification in the first place. I am not asking for an apology from MH if her post was misunderstood there is no reason for her apologize I was just asking for an explanation and after all this she finally said that isn't what she meant.
If that is not what you meant then I am sorry that I took it in the wrong way. It happens on internet sites but I am sorry it happened to you and was my fault. I think this all could have been over sooner had you said that wasn't your intention in the first place but again I am sorry for misinterpreting it and the ensuing drama.
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