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How right are EPT tests???

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  • I'm so sorry. ((Hugs)) This was not your fault, like everyone else said it can happen to anyone whether they drank or not before knowing they were pregnant.
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  • Repeat: I did not cause this because I got drunk.

    I'm sorry for your loss.

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    Baby Boy born 5.3.15


  • I'm so sorry <3
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    B Born 6.27.13
  • I am so sorry.

    Unfortunately m/c is very common. I believe it is about 30% of pregnancies end in m/c (someone correct me if I am wrong).

    Take care of yourself. Please don't blame yourself for this.
    "How long till my soul gets it right? Can any human being ever reach the highest light? Except for Galileo, god rest his soul, king of night vision, king of insight." ~ Indigo Girls Anniversary
    When you've been married this long, you need a ticker to remind you.

    Baby Boy M - 08/01/2013
  • I'm so sorry Cloudy! Do NOT best yourself up about this! You did nothing to cause this; it just happens! Keeping you and your DH in my prayers.
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    Cinnabun and Junebug say, "Go Wildcats!"

  • I am sorry for your loss. Drinking had nothing to do with it. Don't listen to stupid trolls or anyone else that tells you otherwise. Take care of yourself dear.

    Married August 2009

    3 years. 5 losses.

    Our rainbow baby boy born 11.16.15

  • Flamingo86Flamingo86 member
    Seventh Anniversary 2500 Comments 500 Love Its Name Dropper
    edited January 2014
    quote fail.

    Married August 2009

    3 years. 5 losses.

    Our rainbow baby boy born 11.16.15

  • Thanks a lot ladies. Hopefully I'll be back again soon with good news.

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  • I'm so sorry, cloudy :( Please know nothing you did caused this and it's not your fault ((hugs))
    Congrats to my TTC buddy Madeline! Cheering for all the strong 3T ladies! 

    TTC since March 2012; DX: PCOS 4/2013 
    BFP 7/6/2013; EDD 3/6/2014 
    Diagnosed with Pre-E: 2/15/201
    Emergency induction: 2/16/2014
    Baby E born: 2/16/2014 at 12:56pm. 5lb 15oz



  • I am SO SORRY!!!!  Big hugs to you.  And don't listen to MH.  Nothing you did is to blame.
    Anniversary
    Married: 10/13/2013
    TTC #1: Mirena removed 5/26/2015; DH - normal SA, me - diagnosed with PCOS 8/4/2016 - on Metformin;
    BFP - 10/29/2016!!!, EDD - 7/8/2017
  • Lots of hugs, I am so sorry for your loss. Nothing you did caused it, sometimes these things happen. I know it's hard not to blame yourself. What I read about 24% of pregnancies end in miscarriage. 

    Take some time for yourself. We are all here for you. 
    DX: 6/2012 PCOS  TTC: 6/2013  BFP: 9/6/2013  Attempt Natural m/c: 10/29/2013 D&C: 2/20/2014
    BFP 2: 7/7/2014 Beta 7/8: 115, Beta 7/12: 638, Beta 7/16: 3793, Beta 7/21: 21,625

    Pregnancy Ticker
  • Don't listen to me. I don't know anything. 8-|

    You'll never know what really happened. As others have said it may have been out of your hands. Either way, I'm really very sorry for your loss. Best of luck to you moving forward.
  • MH1006 said:

    Don't listen to me. I don't know anything. 8-|

    You'll never know what really happened. As others have said it may have been out of your hands. Either way, I'm really very sorry for your loss. Best of luck to you moving forward.

    Really? You came back and posted again on this post? Really?!
    "How long till my soul gets it right? Can any human being ever reach the highest light? Except for Galileo, god rest his soul, king of night vision, king of insight." ~ Indigo Girls Anniversary
    When you've been married this long, you need a ticker to remind you.

    Baby Boy M - 08/01/2013
  • Really.

    It would have been weird not to post my condolences since I was brought into the whole "not pregnant anymore" thing with "looks like MH was right, blah blah." Obviously she was fishing for more "MH doesn't know anything, you didn't do anything wrong" comments, but I at least wanted to put it out there that we'll never know what happened, just because there's evidence that drinking in early pregnancy puts you at higher risk for miscarriage doesn't mean it's for sure what happened in her case, and I mm sorry for her loss. Now kindly STFU ok thanks.
  • MH1006 said:

    Really.

    It would have been weird not to post my condolences since I was brought into the whole "not pregnant anymore" thing with "looks like MH was right, blah blah." Obviously she was fishing for more "MH doesn't know anything, you didn't do anything wrong" comments, but I at least wanted to put it out there that we'll never know what happened, just because there's evidence that drinking in early pregnancy puts you at higher risk for miscarriage doesn't mean it's for sure what happened in her case, and I mm sorry for her loss. Now kindly STFU ok thanks.

    Bless your heart.
    "How long till my soul gets it right? Can any human being ever reach the highest light? Except for Galileo, god rest his soul, king of night vision, king of insight." ~ Indigo Girls Anniversary
    When you've been married this long, you need a ticker to remind you.

    Baby Boy M - 08/01/2013
  • MH1006 said:
    Really. It would have been weird not to post my condolences since I was brought into the whole "not pregnant anymore" thing with "looks like MH was right, blah blah." Obviously she was fishing for more "MH doesn't know anything, you didn't do anything wrong" comments, but I at least wanted to put it out there that we'll never know what happened, just because there's evidence that drinking in early pregnancy puts you at higher risk for miscarriage doesn't mean it's for sure what happened in her case, and I mm sorry for her loss. Now kindly STFU ok thanks.

    I was going to say thanks at first, but I was not fishing for anything. I was already concerned about my weekend before, and I was just saying. We all get it is not too smart to drink while TTC, but really throwing that in ones face and saying I was fishing for sympathy, go away!

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  • Going away is a good idea. I'm sick of your drama. Take care of yourself.
  • MH1006 said:

    Going away is a good idea. I'm sick of your drama. Take care of yourself.

    They always say you should follow the advice you give.

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    Baby Boy born 5.3.15


  • Aimothy said:
    Going away is a good idea. I'm sick of your drama. Take care of yourself.
    They always say you should follow the advice you give.
    It's so hard to refrain from using 4 letter language when you have trolls like this on the board....really so hard.....can't someone ban this person from posting here?
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