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• mrsvedo member

  

  March 2014

  I'm so sorry.

  

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• ecinereb member

  

  March 2014

  I'm sorry you are going through this again Brij.

  I hope you can get moved to the RE and at least get some answers soon. You're doing a great job with the changes you've made so far. Another thing to ask about is baby aspirin, it's a lot like progesterone where there is mixed thoughts on it but if it may be the difference for some.

  
  
  

  TTC since August 2011
  Cycle 8,9,10 - 50mg Clomid - BFN

  Cycle 11, 100 mg Clomid & IUI#1- BFP 2/23/13 - m/c 4/2/13 @ 9w2d
  

  Cycle 13, 100 mg Clomid & IUI#2 - BFP 6/27/13 - CP
  

  Met with an awesome new RE in September 2013 new plan: 5mg Femera & IUI #3

  Surprise Natural BFP 9/9/13 - Welcomed our baby boy 5/25/14

  
  

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• sgautschi member

  

  March 2014

  I'm so sorry. What a shitty situation all the way around. I really hope things turn around for you soon and you are able to get answers and your take home baby. Big ((hugs))!

  
  

  

  
  

  
  

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• poppies717 member

  

  March 2014

  I'm so sorry. I hate that you're going through this again. I am doubly angry and frustrated now - for both of us. 

  
  

  I would see if you can transfer to an RE. Jog my memory - you live in an area of the country where you don't have a local RE, right? If that's the case, I'd have a serious conversation with your OB about what testing he can do for you to give you some answers. 

  
  

  Sending you and DH so much love.

  TTC #1 since Feb. '12. dx: "unexplained" IF
  

  After 2 shitty IVF cycles and 1 loss at 6+2 (EDD 11/7/14), DH and I are pursuing DIA.

  11/17/2014 - ACTIVE AND WAITING!

  
  

  Pregnancy was never the end goal; being a mom was.

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• BeeLu member

  

  March 2014

  I'm so sorry, Brij. I hope that you can move to the RE soon. Insurance coverage changes are promising, I hope they pan out well.
  

  
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• mrshall1027 member

  

  March 2014

  I'm so sorry you are going through this.

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• Flamingo86 member

  

  March 2014

  I am so sorry:( I hate that you are going through this again. Hugs.

  Married August 2009

  3 years. 5 losses.

  Our rainbow baby boy born 11.16.15

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• Flamingo86 member

  

  March 2014

  Also, I might add, you might consider a diaphragm for BC. We liked it better than condoms.

  Married August 2009

  3 years. 5 losses.

  Our rainbow baby boy born 11.16.15

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• Xan921 member

  

  March 2014

  I'm so sorry Brij  I think moving onto an RE is definitely the way to go at this point.

  

  
  

  TTC since March 2012 w/irregular and anovulatory cycles.  

  Moved to an RE October 2013  HSG- All clear , S/A- Normal , Bloodwork -Normal

  Uterine polyp found-  Hysteroscopy and D&C 12/6/13  DX w/complex endometrial hyperplasia

  Endometrial Biopsy 3/21/14 - Hyperplasia still present  Endometrial Biopsy #2 6/24/14 - All clear!

  IUI #1  w/stims and trigger - Started stims 7/7/14 - IUI 7/24/14 = BFP 8/7/14

  Beta #1 8/8 - 47  Beta#2 -137  Beta#3 - 96 Beta#4 -287 Beta#5 -519 Beta#6 121 = early miscarriage 5w4d

  Nestie Besties with Nfp147 

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• botanicalbliss member

  

  March 2014

  I'm sorry Brij

  

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• brij2006 member

  

  March 2014

  @lindsayandjamie  I'm not sure.  There's one about an hour away from us that I've done some research about.  That would probably be a direction that H and I are more comfortable with, but we'll see.  

  
  

  @ecinereb Can you tell me more about baby aspirin?  What does it do, and what does it help?

  
  

  @poppies717 We live in a very rural area.  Our current OB is already an hour away.  The nearest RE is 2.5 hours, but he has a satellite campus near our current OB, and utilizes our OB to do some of the monitoring and testing.

  
  

  @flamingo86  I actually have a diaphragm that we were planning to use during my FW when doing FAM.  Let's just say that I need some more practice with it.  I would prefer to do FAM, but with not having a regular cycle, it's a bit hard to. 

  TTC since 1/13  DX:PCOS 5/13 (long, anovulatory cycles)
  Clomid 50mg 9/13 = BFP! EDD 6/7/14 M/C 5w6d Found 11/4/13
  1/14 PCOS / Gluten Free Diet to hopefully regulate my system. 
  Chemical Pregnancy 03/14
  Surprise BFP 6/14, Beta #1: 126 Beta #2: 340  Stick baby, stick! EDD 2/17/15
  Riley Elaine born 2/16/15
  
  TTC 2.0   6/15 
  Chemical Pregnancy 9/15 
  Chemical Pregnancy 6/16
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• ecinereb member

  

  March 2014

  brij2006 said:

  @lindsayandjamie  I'm not sure.  There's one about an hour away from us that I've done some research about.  That would probably be a direction that H and I are more comfortable with, but we'll see.  

  
  

  @ecinereb Can you tell me more about baby aspirin?  What does it do, and what does it help?

  
  

  @poppies717 We live in a very rural area.  Our current OB is already an hour away.  The nearest RE is 2.5 hours, but he has a satellite campus near our current OB, and utilizes our OB to do some of the monitoring and testing.

  
  

  @flamingo86  I actually have a diaphragm that we were planning to use during my FW when doing FAM.  Let's just say that I need some more practice with it.  I would prefer to do FAM, but with not having a regular cycle, it's a bit hard to. 

  Baby aspirin thins your blood. It helps prevents clots which can cause m/c by preventing blood flow through the placenta. Clotting disorders show up in RLP testing but it can help even if one doesn't show up for some people.

  
  It's not unsafe to take but I have read some things that say not to take it if you don't need it but I figure during TTC I'll do anything that might help. I took 1 baby aspirin ( the small low dose they give to heart patients) once a day.
  
  Hope that answers your questions.

  
  
  

  TTC since August 2011
  Cycle 8,9,10 - 50mg Clomid - BFN

  Cycle 11, 100 mg Clomid & IUI#1- BFP 2/23/13 - m/c 4/2/13 @ 9w2d
  

  Cycle 13, 100 mg Clomid & IUI#2 - BFP 6/27/13 - CP
  

  Met with an awesome new RE in September 2013 new plan: 5mg Femera & IUI #3

  Surprise Natural BFP 9/9/13 - Welcomed our baby boy 5/25/14

  
  

  TTC Buddies with *noelcallum* - Congratulations!

  Knottie Besties with *SparklingDiamond* - Congratulations!

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• FutureMrsWright2012 member

  

  March 2014

  I'm sorry that your going through this again, Brij I wish you and YH all the best as you decide what steps to take next. Thinking about you guys!

  
  

  
  

  TTC since 3/2012 

  DH - 36; nml swimmers; Me - 36; almost no AMH (last 0.081), low AFC, nml FSH/LH

  Clomid + IUI #1 (6/2013) - BFN; #2 (7/2013) - BFFN

  IVF 1.0 5R/5F/2T (ET 6/11/2014) - no frosties, but BFP 8dp5dt (EDD 3/1/2015) 

  Lost our sweet baby boy, Lincoln Alexander 10/3/2014 (19w)

  IVF 2.0 - ER 3/25/2015 - 3R ZERO mature.

  Ovaries are done...
  DE IVF ER - 12/2/2016 (17R/10F = 8 frosties); FET 1.0 (1/27/2017) - BFP 6dp5dt (EDD 10/16/2017)

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• DangerMuffin23 member

  

  March 2014

  Ugh! What an asshat of a doctor! I want to kick him. And I'm so sorry that this is what it turned out to be. Argh! I'm glad that when you're ready you'll move on to the re and that DH is behind it.

  
  

  

         Me: All Normal DH: .5% Morph

  Cycles 1-14 (Natural) all BFN

                                Starting IUI#1 procedures Nov '13

                        IUI Cxl'd due to surprise natural BFP 11/1/13

          Calvin born on June 19th, 2014 via emergency c-section at 3lbs7oz

       

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• Apollo11235 member

  

  March 2014

  I'm so sorry, Brij. I really hope that you can move to an RE with your new insurance and start moving forward,

  

  "You know you're in love when you don't want to fall asleep because reality is finally better than your dreams." - Dr. Seuss

  
  

  TTC #1 August 2014. BFP 9/26! EDD 6/9/15

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• ILoveRedVino member

  

  March 2014

  I'm sorry. This sucks.

  IUI - BFP! Baby boy born still - August 2012

  IVF - BFP - miscarriage June 2013

  FET - BFN

  FET - BFN

  Switched clinics

  IVF with PGD - three embryos created, all healthy - July 2014
  FET - transferred two embryos (boy and girl) - Nov 2014 - BFP!
  

  Baby Boy born July 2015
  
  

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• stephkf member

  

  March 2014

  I'm so sorry

    
  

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• Aimothy member

  

  March 2014

  I hope finding a new doctor will help. Holy hell, I would not be treated like that.  I do believe that doctors are more knowledgeable than I am, but my doctor BEST be listening to me when I bring up legit pieces of medical procedures. Best of luck in whatever BC you decide to use until you are ready to visit the RE. 

  
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• CincodeMayoLove member

  

  March 2014

  Brij, I'm so sorry you're not getting the answers you deserve . Continue to be your own advocate and push for what tests/treatments you need.

  Married 05/05/2007, Off BCP Dec 2007

  2 failed Clomid cycles in 2011.

  RE in October 2012: IUI # 12&3 with meds:  BFNs 12/12-2/13
  

  IVF cycle: ER: 9/18/13, Lu came back to snuggle in: 9/23/13, EDD: 6/11/13

  
  

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