Blueeyedblossom?

brij2006 · April 2014

nfp147 said:

brij2006 said:

Guess this is what I have to say about it.

This board is an amazing place where people can come and ask questions, have fun, meet people going through similar circumstances, and get some feedback and support. Of course there are going to be disagreements. We're all from different walks of life and different areas and upbringings. I'm very thankful for the support and friends I have made from here. Whether it is just through PM's, FB, or IRL.

There's a wonder why the board is dead. Well that post is why. Others watch the way regulars are treated on here and they don't want to post or be involved. She asked a simple question. Do I disagree that she could've done a little searching and seen an entire list of recommendations? No. But the remark on her post and all of the little jabs were like watching a kid being made fun of by a bully and all of their friends standing behind them poking fun and laughing while that kid is apologizing for their simple mistake and being backed into a corner.

If it bothered you so much, why didn't you say something then? It's easy for you to give us all shit for being "bullies" now that someone else has brought it up.

I wanted to bring it up when it was originally asked why she hasn't been around in a while. But I don't have a pack of people behind me to support the other side of the table. So I kept my mouth shut instead.

I love being involved on this board and I have nothing against anyone on here. I've found some of my closest friends through GP, but there's a reason why people don't post on here anymore.

BruinsBabe33 · April 2014

If you don't speak up no one knows there is a problem. You don't know if you have a pack behind you until you speak up. Furthermore, why do you need a pack to defend someone or something if you feel like something is out of line? Is this how you are in real life? If you felt like something was wrong would you just walk on by?

nfp147 · April 2014

brij2006 said:

nfp147 said:

brij2006 said:

Guess this is what I have to say about it.

This board is an amazing place where people can come and ask questions, have fun, meet people going through similar circumstances, and get some feedback and support. Of course there are going to be disagreements. We're all from different walks of life and different areas and upbringings. I'm very thankful for the support and friends I have made from here. Whether it is just through PM's, FB, or IRL.

There's a wonder why the board is dead. Well that post is why. Others watch the way regulars are treated on here and they don't want to post or be involved. She asked a simple question. Do I disagree that she could've done a little searching and seen an entire list of recommendations? No. But the remark on her post and all of the little jabs were like watching a kid being made fun of by a bully and all of their friends standing behind them poking fun and laughing while that kid is apologizing for their simple mistake and being backed into a corner.

If it bothered you so much, why didn't you say something then? It's easy for you to give us all shit for being "bullies" now that someone else has brought it up.

I wanted to bring it up when it was originally asked why she hasn't been around in a while. But I don't have a pack of people behind me to support the other side of the table. So I kept my mouth shut instead.

I love being involved on this board and I have nothing against anyone on here. I've found some of my closest friends through GP, but there's a reason why people don't post on here anymore.

I disagree. I suspect a lot of people don't post here anymore because we have very few debates or conversations.

lilliesandvino · April 2014

Bruins articulated why this board is dead and boring. Understand and internalize it. There is simply no other reason.

brij2006 · April 2014

BruinsBabe33 said:

If you don't speak up no one knows there is a problem. You don't know if you have a pack behind you until you speak up. Furthermore, why do you need a pack to defend someone or something if you feel like something is out of line? Is this how you are in real life? If you felt like something was wrong would you just walk on by?

No. I'm the type of person who will go out of my way to talk with them privately instead.

BruinsBabe33 · April 2014

Then certainly you could do the same here.

brij2006 · April 2014

BruinsBabe33 said:

Then certainly you could do the same here.

It was already done. Just thought I would get some courage to comment about it on here now.

BruinsBabe33 · April 2014

You should keep it up.

MH1006 · April 2014

lilliesandvino · April 2014

MH1006 said:
First eye roll of the week went to LuckyAngel. Second goes out to all ya'll bitches and hoes. It's been entertaining, but I'm tired of hearing everyone justify their need to be assholes. *yawn*

This has really been bothering me - what did @luckyangel07 do? I haven't seen anything that was even worth an eyebrow raise.

amandaf6383 · April 2014

Me either!!

amandaf6383 · April 2014

Hey lillies am I the bitch and you're the ho? Or am I the ho and you're the bitch? ;-)

MRads · April 2014

I think she rolled her eyes at lucky bc she gave the wrong pronounciation of bryony or however you spell the name bsd asked about.

amandaf6383 · April 2014

Yeah, sweet Lucky is a real dbag for not knowing how to pronounce a name. Sheesh!

lilliesandvino · April 2014

amandaf6383 said:
Hey lillies am I the bitch and you're the ho? Or am I the ho and you're the bitch? ;-)

At different times in my life I've earned both of those titles.

lilliesandvino · April 2014

MRads said:
I think she rolled her eyes at lucky bc she gave the wrong pronounciation of bryony or however you spell the name bsd asked about.

Thank you! That was driving me crazy.

Not eyeroll worthy.

LuckyAngel07 · April 2014

lilliesandvino said:

I think she rolled her eyes at lucky bc she gave the wrong pronounciation of bryony or however you spell the name bsd asked about.
Thank you! That was driving me crazy. Not eyeroll worthy.

Thanks ladies. This was pissing me off that she felt the need to be such a d-bag about correcting my pronunciation, but I didn't want to respond and fuel the shitshow.

MH1006 · April 2014

I rolled my eyes because she always presents things as if she knows everything, and often what she's presenting as fact is wrong. I find it funny that everyone hates me so much, but the board mysteriously gets busier when I'm around and threads I post on always get a ton of views. I also think it's funny that Brij told everyone the board was an unwelcome place full of snots and that's why it's slow, all the unwelcome snots told her she was wrong, and lo and behold in the lurker thread it comes out that people left due to unwelcoming snots. Brij and I don't generally see eye to eye, but that shit was funny. That's all for now.

seahorse01 · April 2014

MH1006 · April 2014

I also agree 100% w/ what the GPM girls had to say about you, Seahorse. Glad you took it to heart and put it in your siggy as a reminder.

seahorse01 · April 2014

lol! Okay then!

MRads · April 2014

MH1006 said:
I also agree 100% w/ what the GPM girls had to say about you, Seahorse. Glad you took it to heart and put it in your siggy as a reminder.

Awwww you agree with me

Also ftr, I don't hate you. And I might be a bitch but I am certainly not a ho.

MH1006 · April 2014

Bitches and hoes. All ya'll.

MH1006 · April 2014

Time to go back under my bridge. Until next time, ladies.

Venti29 · April 2014

Please, you'll be right back.

But I don't mind

LuckyAngel07 · April 2014

MH1006 said:

I rolled my eyes because she always presents things as if she knows everything, and often what she's presenting as fact is wrong.

No. I don't. I present what my experience has been. I don't expect anyone to take my word as gospel; I'm sharing my perspective and what knowledge I've happened across. Take it or leave. If you have a different perspective, then share it, but don't be an ass about it. If I've been misinformed, I can't know that until someone provides the correct/alternative information.

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