Thank you - my husband

Re: Thank you - my husband

• abt8113 member

  

  October 2014

  Oh Xan, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. While I have not experienced anything like this in my personal life, I have worked with adults and families for over 4 years that were diagnosed with bipolar disorder and often has substance abuse issues. If you ever need to talk, just let me know. I pray for the best outcome for your family and that he is able to get the right treatment team as well as meds for him to get better, and be the husband that you know he is. I also pray for strength for you and know that you have all of us here for you! Thank you for being so open about your situation.

  
  
  
  Cinnabun and Junebug say, "Go Wildcats!"
  
  

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• BeeLu member

  

  October 2014

  My heart hurts for you, Xan. I'm so sorry, and I'm keeping you and your husband in my thoughts. Please please please tell us if there's anything you need.
  

  
   ~ S & L 8-25-12  ~
  

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• islandmonkey8 member

  

  October 2014

  ((hugs))

  
  

  I'm so sorry you are going through all of this. I hope your husband recovers quickly and is out of the ICU very soon. I hope that he also is able to move forward and recover from the the emotional issues he is dealing with. I am here if you need anything at all.

  

  TTC 24 months, IUI #3 BFP 6/4/14 Beta 6/5 58, 6/9 508, 6/11 1227 TWINS! EDD 2/15/15

  With heavy hearts, we said goodbye to our precious angels on 8/12 at 13 weeks 2 days.

  
  

  IVF #1 Lup/Brav/Meno, ER 11/28 10R/10F, ET "Rudolph" 4AA embryo 12/3, 7 frosties.

  BFP! Betas: 12/12 225, 12/15 706, 12/17 1512. EDD 8.21.15

  12/29 hb 120. 1/5 perfect, GRAD DAY! 1/15 perfect at OB. NT 2/6 PERFECT, HB 158!

  
  

  Baby Girl born 8.9.15 at 38.2 due to IUGR 4lb7.8oz 17" 

  Our princess is being watched over by her older siblings every day

   
  

  
  

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• amccul20 mod

  

  October 2014

  I'm so sorry Xan! many prayers for you and your husband.

  The Rowdy Roberts

  

   

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• LooneyLife member

  

  October 2014

  Continued T&Ps, Xan
  Please take care of yourself.

  
  
  
  
  dx:  Unexplained IF (mild MFI)

   TTC since May 2011, 1 year trying, and then 3 TI, 2 IUI = BFN

  IVF #1 (May 2013):  Antagonist Protocol: 
  24R, 18M, 15F w/ICSI; 5dt of 2 early blasts, no frosties = BFN
  IVF #2 (August 2013):  Lupron Stop Protocol: 
  28R, 23M, 15F w/ICSI; 5dt of 1 partially hatched blast, 7 frosties = BFP
  EDD 5/23/14, blighted ovum (6w6d), D&C (8w6d)
  FET #1 (April 2014):  transferred 2 5d blasts = BFP
  
  C.J. born 01/09/15

  
  

  
  

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• poppies717 member

  

  October 2014

  I'm so sorry, Xan. I hope he makes a full physical, emotional, and mental recovery. We are always here to listen. Let us know if we can do anything. It sounds so glib, but we really will do what we can. Sending my love to you guys. 

  TTC #1 since Feb. '12. dx: "unexplained" IF
  

  After 2 shitty IVF cycles and 1 loss at 6+2 (EDD 11/7/14), DH and I are pursuing DIA.

  11/17/2014 - ACTIVE AND WAITING!

  
  

  Pregnancy was never the end goal; being a mom was.

  I've been holding out on GP: I got drunk once and started a blog: Here it is (11/7 update)

  3T<3

  
  

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• FutureMrsWright2012 member

  

  October 2014

  Oh Xan, I am so so sorry that you and YH are going through this. Please know that you are in my thoughts. I am hoping so hard that you both are able to recover mentally and physically and move forward. Hugs to you.

  
  

  
  

  TTC since 3/2012 

  DH - 36; nml swimmers; Me - 36; almost no AMH (last 0.081), low AFC, nml FSH/LH

  Clomid + IUI #1 (6/2013) - BFN; #2 (7/2013) - BFFN

  IVF 1.0 5R/5F/2T (ET 6/11/2014) - no frosties, but BFP 8dp5dt (EDD 3/1/2015) 

  Lost our sweet baby boy, Lincoln Alexander 10/3/2014 (19w)

  IVF 2.0 - ER 3/25/2015 - 3R ZERO mature.

  Ovaries are done...
  DE IVF ER - 12/2/2016 (17R/10F = 8 frosties); FET 1.0 (1/27/2017) - BFP 6dp5dt (EDD 10/16/2017)

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• HoneyBee973 member

  

  October 2014

  Continued thoughts and prayers coming your way.

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• mandac033 member

  

  October 2014

  I'm so so sorry your having to go through this. Lots and lots of T&Ps for you and your husband. ((HUGS))

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• MRads member

  

  October 2014

  you and your DH are in my thoughts

  
  B Born 6.27.13

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• GABride2010 member

  

  October 2014

  Xan, I am so sorry! You and your DH are still in my thoughts, and I am praying for a complete recovery for you both! Please let us know if you need anything. Hugs!

  Married 2-20-10        Dx PCOS 1-2013         Metformin 500mg 3x/day  Will Start TTC Aug. 2015

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• caseyandlizzie member

  

  October 2014

  I'm so sorry you two are going through this. I hope that he's able to get out of the ICU and that his doctors are able to come up with a dosage that works for him. I'll be keeping you in my thoughts.

  
  My new bff Gayle Forman!
  
  “You can have your wishes, your plans, but at the end of the day, it's out of your control"
  - Gayle Forman
  "People talk about escapism as if it's a bad thing... Once you've escaped, once you come back, the world is not the same as when you left it. You come back to it with skills, weapons, knowledge you didn't have before. Then you are better equipped to deal with your current reality."
  - Neil Gaiman
  
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• aggiebug member

  

  October 2014

  Oh xan. You are a strong and brave woman. You, your husband and your families are in my continued prayers on this journey.

  

  DD born 1.25.15

  
  

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• ecinereb member

  

  October 2014

  Thank you for sharing such personal info. I'm sorry and thinking of you and your H.
  Remember You haven't failed. It's a disease. Hope he gets the help he needs.

  
  
  

  TTC since August 2011
  Cycle 8,9,10 - 50mg Clomid - BFN

  Cycle 11, 100 mg Clomid & IUI#1- BFP 2/23/13 - m/c 4/2/13 @ 9w2d
  

  Cycle 13, 100 mg Clomid & IUI#2 - BFP 6/27/13 - CP
  

  Met with an awesome new RE in September 2013 new plan: 5mg Femera & IUI #3

  Surprise Natural BFP 9/9/13 - Welcomed our baby boy 5/25/14

  
  

  TTC Buddies with *noelcallum* - Congratulations!

  Knottie Besties with *SparklingDiamond* - Congratulations!

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• rccola1981 member

  

  October 2014

  I'm so sorry you are having to deal with all of this right now. I haven't been on much since our loss but I have popped in to check on you a few times. I hope your husband gets the help he needs to recover and you can move forward from this to be even stronger.

  "I said what I meant and I meant what I said, an elephant's faithful 100%" Dr. Seuss, Horton Hatches The Egg. My Ovulation Chart Ttc buddies with LexiMS!

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• jt305 member

  

  October 2014

  Sending you lots of thoughts and prayers.  

  
  

  
  

  TTC since Jan 2014

  BFP: 1/14; spontaneous m/c at 6w

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• mandac033 member

  

  October 2014

  I'm so so sorry your having to go through this. Lots and lots of T&Ps for you and your husband. ((HUGS))

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• nfp147 member

  

  October 2014

  You know I love you and am thinking about you and Jason.  Like others have said, please let us know if there's anything we can do.

  
  

  

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  TTC Since January 2011 - We have bad sperm 

  February 2013: IUI #1 = BFN 

  October 2013: We made the decision to stop TTC and live without children.

  
  

  Nestie Besties with Xan921 

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