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What do all of you prefer to use? cash, debit card, or credit cards? Why
Re: What do you prefer?
on payday, I transfer money to emegency fund, pay bills, and write a check to get cash for groceries and gas and whatever else maay come up. i hate using the debit card. When all of the cash is gone, we have to wait until next payday
I like to use cash (which we mainly use for fun money) because once it's gone, it's gone.
But I like credit cards for groceries and vet apts that we don't feel like paying for at the time- we just pay off at the end of the month
I'm a very cash person. I even pay my mortgage, HELOC, and car payments in cash. However, what can be charged, I put on a credit card to get the points.
And then pay my credit cards off (or at least try to) every month with...you guessed it...cash.
I keep very little money in my checking accounts. I don't trust it there. I won't go into the long stories, but I've twice had an issue where my account was wiped out without notice or authorization, my husband had it happen once, and I had a coworker have it happen once.
As an aside, I strongly recommend that everyone keep at least some cash handy and hidden somewhere in your house. Enough to buy food and gas for a few days if something crazy happens like your bank account is wiped out by identity theft or your area is without power for a few days. Because nobody takes credit cards if there is no power and/or phone/cable lines are down!
I'm especially talking to my fellow peeps who live in Hurricane Alley
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Credit cards. For the cash back programs and the security from fraud. If cash gets lost of stolen, its just gone. With CCs you aren't responsible for any purchase you didn't make. Also, "safer" than debit cards because CCs aren't giving direct access to a checking account like DCs do.
ETA: CCs rewards programs are only worth it if you pay them off in full each month and on time, which we do.
The other 1% is cash, but only when needing to pay someone for something (like our parents grabbing something at the store for us).
We do not have any credit cards anymore and never will again.
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Another credit card user here! I like to think of our cashback as an extra little savings account. Right now, I'm saving up my Amazon cashback to get a GPS unit for my car. H is saving his Cabela's points for some new hunting gear this fall.
I usually make a payment every paycheck to make sure I am on budget and don't end up overspending by the end of the month.
It's a rare occasion to have cash in my wallet. It's too tempting to spend and I usually can't remember where or when I spent it. I have some cash in the house in case of emergency and I made it a little difficult to get to, so it's not tempting.
We use our credit cards for everything possible to collect rewards, and pay off full balance every month.
We keep some cash at home, just in case something comes up. And I like to have cash on me when we go out, so we can pay tips in cash.
We don't use credit cards anymore. It stresses me out now to charge anything. I tried to go back to the points game but Im so anti debt now that I felt like I was cheating on myself. Plus I'm freaked out I'm gonna forget to pay it or end up paying interest. Its not worth it. I keep it in my car as a backup if I forget my debit card.
A lot of our bills are direct debit from our accounts (mainly reoccurring bills such as cable and cell phones).
I very rarely have any plastic in my wallet because of issues in the past. I do have our YMCA going to my credit card.
MW does use her debit card a lot more than I do but she doesn't have the issues that I have.
Right now, our primary is Barclay Arrival Plus, which nets 2 point per dollar spent, and redemption of 1.1 dollars for every 100 points. The catch for that good rate is that it's only on travel redemption, and not straigh cash back. But I've noticed that travel is defined very loosely and things like train tickets and cabs count in addition to cuise, hotel and flight purchases. Annual fee is waived the first year and signup bonus currently equates to $400.
We also have a Chase Southwest, which H uses for his business travel. H travels on average once every two months. This card has an annual fee, but nets double points on hotel stays in addition to Southwest flights.
I spend quite a bit for work and use a Chase United. It has an annual fee, but comes with two business class lounge passes a year and free checked bags. We usually take one big international vacation a year and fly a United partner (we're trying Lufhansa for the first time in May) so this makes the fee worth it.
We also maintain a fee free Capital One for longevity, which has a decent earn rate for a fee free card. We put all our wedding expenses here and ended up making well over $1,000 before we even got into the strategy of points and miles.