Nope, not talking about an e-fund. I am talking about emergencies in your locale (city/state/county), but could also be national.
Just following the current events coming out of SC with the floods. But, you can use any natural disaster like tornado, hurricane, earthquake, blizzard, etc.. Or even a terror attack, etc..
In 2012, DH and I began to take very seriously the idea of "prepping." Now, I know what you're thinking because that show "Extreme Preppers" probably comes to mind. That's not what I mean. I mean, just setting money (cash) and resources (water, food, shelter/warmth, first-aid, and misc. materials/supplies) aside in the event of a emergency...just what the Federal Government already asks citizens to do on their own.
Since 2012, DH and I have probably put a few thousand dollars into it. I actually cannot recall the exact amount but I know it's over $3k. But, for us it also involved buying basic camping gear (cold rated sleeping bags and a family-size tent) that we wanted to buy anyways for our family outings.
When I started looking into it and researching the what to buy and WHY to buy it, it was very overwhelming. Now, we have emergency stuff we carry in the diaper bag, in both vehicles, in our home, and we also have 72-hour bags packed for each member of our family. The 72-Hour bag is a pre-packed backpack that stays put and always ready to go in case you have to leave your home. The idea is to be able to sustain yourself with its contents for 72-hours.
Looking at us, you'd never guess we were "preppers," but we are. And, the thing is, we just look at it as a form of PHYSICAL insurance to help our kids, my parents, and any neighbors.
Anybody do this too? Curious about it?
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Bolded. It's so not how we live our lives either. Our thought is simply this: Better to have and not need, than need and not have. In addition, we have 3 kids to look after. What would we do with them for 3 days snowed-in inside our minivan? They count on us for their basics AND to have enough knowledge and skill to not let the family suffer.
Actually, it's very little about storing up stuff/materials and mostly about knowledge and how-to do things. Knowledge dispels fear and stress.
For example, how many ways do you know to get to your home? Not using major roads and highways (which could be closed in an emergency)? Now, not using your GPS, which could also be down or dysfunctional in an emergency? Do you have a paper detailed street map of your area in your vehicle?
In 2007 there was a massive snow storm that hit Denver, CO. I was over an hour from our apartment in my Toyota Camry with a coat, fleece headband, and thin gloves. Nothing else. I barely made it home and by the time I made it, the snow in the lot was over 2' deep and I got stuck there. We were snowed in for 3 days. Many people got stranded in their cars, though, and it was 3-4 days before they could be reached. A handful of people died in their cars.
Now, each of our vehicles enables us to live in or near them for 3-4 days.
Really, a whole lot doesn't have to happen for you to lose all of your basic necessities.
Your local grocery store will take less than 12 hours to empty of food. And, you know how violent people get when they want to buy the best and latest gadgets for Christmas - multiply that by everybody in your town trying to stock up on food and water, salt, bleach, etc. at the same time. Violence? Yep. When/if that happens we won't be near the store because we will have what we need already.
Public water can become contaminated very quickly. And, even if you aren't in an area of contamination all it takes for someone who HAS been in contact with contaminated water to get other people sick.
How about toilet use? Without public water, you have NO toilets to refill and therefore flush. At college when Hurricane Isabel hit, we had no water for personal hygiene use. What then? A week of pee and poop piled up in your toilet?
What's your heat source in your home without electricity and even without natural gas?
What's your cooking source? Or source to boil water?
My BFF, dad's is with the State Department. After 9/11 their family (near D.C.) picked an emergency location/town to meet in their state if there were ever another national emergency. We also have a location to get to in the event we have to leave our major city.
I don't really see the point of stating, "I don't live in fear." Neither do I. But, I feel a great sense of responsibility to my family, and kids for our safety and well-being. Plus, I want to be self-reliant. Everything here on MM is about self-reliance.
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If you want, PM me and I will send you what I made up for the presentation on 2014 for the mom's group. It is based on our own research into the needs of materials and supplies from a variety of websites that focus on the topic. Anything rec we make is on Amazon and is at least rated 4 stars.
It's entitled the 345 plan. 3 months, to cover 4 scenarios (on-the-go, on-the-road, staying put, getting out), in 5 categories (food, water, first-aid, shelter/warmth, and misc. supplies). I have put it into 3 months/12 weeks so people can do like a hard push to accomplish it. But, obviously it can be completed over a longer period of time.
We have a live for the moment culture. So, all this is very opposite to fast-paced, keep your nose in your Smart Phone, "normal." But, if you talk to your grandparents, none of this would sound too strange.
The blanket in the car idea is great! I'll implement that ASAP, as we are right in the blizzard zone.
I'm horrible about keeping cash on hand. I'm always that jerk who even forgets when going for group dinners. Keeping a couple of hundred around sounds wise. I could also keep more canned goods/dry goods handy. Honestly though, the severe weather in our area generally comes with plenty of warning, so if we went too far it would be in preparation for very unlikely societal breakdown scenarios.
We're not overly prepared as far as stashing stuff but I feel that we'd be okay. I mean, we live in a small town in Wyoming, so the chance of any large-scale disaster other than a blizzard or the rare tornado is small.
I keep a blanket, flashlight, granola bars and first aid kit in the trunk of my car at all times, and a coat, boots, and gloves whenever I am going to be on the road. Even in the summer. This is the kind of thing you do when you live in Wyoming
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We own tons of camping gear, warm weather gear, and H is an avid hunter, and we own a truck with 4-wheel drive. Those are the best ways to be prepared around here. I think the only thing that I might want to consider is throwing a case of water in the basement.
We do keep the stuff that is not in our safe deposit box, locked in a fire-proof safe at home.
Edited to add: growing up around here, you're just kind of raised to learn basic survival skills. H actually spends several weeks at a time during hunting season living in the wilderness w/ no electricity, phone service, roads, etc. I feel confident that he could easily take care of us in an emergency situation. I might be screwed if he wasn't there though. LOL.
I 100% agree with your last statement. Not completely realistic or related, but H and I just started watching The Walking Dead and after the first episode I said that I'd just kill myself immediately. I know it sounds crazy but I truly think not living would be much better than living like that.
As for the question at hand: H and I are completely unprepared and would be screwed. We have no guns, we don't camp so no camping gear, we grocery shop week to week so not a lot of food storage... Yeah, we would be done within 48 hours. We do have a 4WD truck and kerosene heater so if we went without power for a while in the winter we would be ok with heat. We also have a boat so if things got extremely bad (like apocalyptic with people trying to eat each other) I imagine we'd hop on the boat and set anchor in the middle of the bay to distance ourselves from the crazies. I really have no idea.
This post makes me want to prepare for such events better... thank you for the inspiration, although H is going to think I'm nuts when I talk to him about this tonight.
Being better prepared has been in the back of my mind for a while, but I haven't acted on it yet. In our area the events we need to prepare for are blizzards and wind storms/tornadoes. This post is a good reminder that I should make it a higher priority.
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The only real threat where we're at is hurricanes and honestly, we're not on the main tracks for them so usually we get passed by and the worst we get is like a week of rain out of the deal. However, the nice thing about hurricanes is that you can see them coming and have time to prepare. The most we do is just to make sure that cars have gas in them and we don't let the pantry get down to bare minimum during hurricane season.
One year we got hit by Isabel as a cat 1. Lost power for a few days, but still had a gas feed to the house.
Yes! Thank you! That's all I mean when I say being "self-reliant."
You wouldn't believe the number of commercial pilots (many are active or retired military) who prep. Many didn't go the military route to learn to fly, but even the civilian pilots do prep. I think it falls into their need to plan and estimate future events (both in the military and while flying). If they have the basics down and done, then they can focus on the tasks at hand to mitigate other situations that arise.
Some PPs mentioned it above - if people have no desire to try and be as comfortable as possible and make an attempt to do "well" in an emergency, then by all means, go belly up. But, most people have some desire to help themselves and others too and all they need is a plan in place, knowledge and some basic supplies. LOL to Zombie Apocalypse...because that is clearly not what we're discussing here.
It seems like the world's weather is getting crazier and crazier. Plus, there are increasing world-wide threats. Think about the scale to which the US was "frozen" after 9/11. The US government is thwarting terror plots all the time. All the time. But, according to some intel experts, they don't have the man power to focus on all the threats. So, that means there are loops in the security in which a terror plot could be a reality. There is a big difference between living and fear and having a healthy dose of reality based on facts. FACTS: weather is crazy and sometimes unpredictable. AND, a portion of the world's Muslim population hates the USA and the West and is set on killing.
95% of the time I don't think about this stuff. But, 95% of the time I don't think about my life insurance, my e-fund, or my auto/home insurance. Why is THIS type of insurance acceptable to the "norm" but having a store of physical goods and resources, with plans in place, is considered "living in fear?" Under that line of thinking I should cancel all my policies and spend the e-fund and live day-to-day and pay-check, to pay-check.
I totally get what you're saying and I agree that it's better to prepared. The zombie reference was more in a joking way (which is why I said not realistic or relatable)...
I think for the most part we have time to prepare for natural disasters in our country. At least in my region we know when a hurricane or blizzard will hit and we'll likely be without power and need to stock up on candles, batteries, kerosene, food, etc. Generally I'm within walking distance of my house, work or someone I knows house at all times unless I'm on travel so as far as being stranded in a car goes I don't think that would last long. But I also think this is why we take our need to be prepared for granted because the majority of the time we know when it's coming, we may not always have that luxury so you're right we (as a country) should prepare better.
We have a decent amount of $ on hand at all times and my pantry/ deep freezer would probably feed my block for a week. We have a gas stove and have never been without that before so we can cook as long as we have matches to start it.
The only thing I ever go buy when we hear a hurricane is moving into the gulf is a couple extra flats of water, and maybe some pop tarts or easy ready to eat food. We don't have a generator, but I know several neighbors who do so if it was too ungodly hot out we could crash with them for a couple hours.
I have suffered power outages for various reasons. The longest one was probably 12 hours. As a result I made sure to have more candles and keep them accessible. I always have cereal and canned food anyway. I used to have a gas fireplace and hope to install one in this house sometime. It was great when my furnace went out one year.
I have a blanket and reflective triangle/safety kit in my car.
When we were dating and getting serious I made an effort to memorize H's phone number. I actually have very few phone numbers memorized and should probably do a couple more.
That is a really excellent point and a lesson I also learned. We had a car to leave, we didn't have a lot of money...but we had enough to stay in hotels instead of shelters. Ironically, I had renter's insurance which would cover my hotel stay for the first two weeks. Except, it was two months before they would return my incessant calls and two months longer before I received my check. Money I could have really used at the time! Not one month after I had already come back, lol.
And just like the churches who offered cash work to your H, I still strongly remember the companies and people who were so kind and caring during our journey. Just to name few,
--The Winfrey Hotel in Birmingham who charged NOLA/MS residents half the normal rate, plus threw together an impromptu afternoon reception with free food and drinks for us.
--The family that bought us breakfast at Waffle House when they found out we were from NOLA. We thanked them and insisted it wasn't necessary, but they insisted it would give them pleasure to be able to do something for us.
--Payless Shoe Source...of all weird things...who was the ONLY store (or felt like it) that had trained their employees on how to remove the sales tax for purchases made with a Red Cross credit card. Plus 30% off for LA/MS residents. I know it sounds minor, but after giving up on asking to have taxes removed because everywhere else either couldn't do it or it was a long drawn out process...to have a store just do what they were supposed to automatically without my even having to ask was glorious.
--Miami Healthcare clinic that allowed me to see a doctor and have lab work done for free and then sold me my sorely needed medication at a very discounted rate.
OOOHHHH!!! And this reminds me. Another "must grab" important papers are your mortgage (the main pages) or rental agreement and a couple utility bills. Basically, proof of your residence/where you live. There were a few times I needed that documentation while we were displaced. And, if we had returned to the city before it had been opened back up, we also would have needed to prove we lived there.