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For fun: what items do you keep beyond their prime?
Just a fun Sunday topic. What items do you have or tend to keep that are definitely beyond their prime and should probably be replaced, but you haven't done it yet.
For us, it's the following:
- Our personal laptops. My laptop is 5 1/2 years old, which doesn't seem old, but technology deteriorates crazy fast these days. It works fine, about 80% of the time. The other 20% it lags like crazy for loading everything, to the point I cannot do anything on it and have to let it sit for a few hours. It also intermittently turns off the wifi function and the battery doesn't last longer than 10 minutes without being plugged in. But I am holding onto it until it doesn't work anymore. I have a work laptop I could use if necessary and I just surf the internet at home. DH's 5 year old laptop will actually turn off immediately if it is unplugged and it overheats easily. He is looking to get a new one, but I encouraged him to wait until the holidays when they run deals.
- Work clothes and shoes. I keep them until they are thoroughly worn. I won't wear them to work if they look bad, but I don't actively replace anything until it's actually not presentable or usable. I will actually wear worn down clothes around the house to do chores or lounge around the house.
- Our washer and dryer. They are about 17 years old and are Maytags. They actually work really well, though they definitely aren't energy efficient. The dryer blew a fuse two years ago, but DH fixed it for $40. My parents gave them to use when they upgraded to new ones about 8 years ago. My mom is actually irritated that their new washer and dryer has been less reliable then the old ones they gave us.
- Our vehicles. We keep them until they don't run or cost too much to fix. I actually have a newer vehicle now because my 14 year old Dodge Neon was totaled in a car accident 2 years ago. Otherwise, I would still be driving it. DH drives a 2007 Mazda 3 and will continue to until it is economical feasible or doesn't run.
What are a few things you use past their prime?
Re: For fun: what items do you keep beyond their prime?
I keep clothes as long as they fit & are work with the styles. But considering my basic look is jeans, a plain colored t-shirt, that look never goes out of style. Once they become stained or worn out looking, I'll replace them.
My husband is a pack rat on electronics. We're working on getting rid of stuff. We recently got a new laptop, so now time to get rid of 3 old laptops. Yes 3, we each had one prior to marriage & shortly after dating I got a newer used one but never got rid of my original one. We've cleared them out and need to get rid of them. Sounds like a good project for this week.
Appliances for me too. We keep using them until they die. That being said...we have had to replace the majority of our major appliances in the 9 years we have owned our house because they've clunked out. Next year, we really need to replace our A/C, which I'm dreading.
H will typically drive a vehicle until it dies (I don't do this; bad, I know). His last truck was a 1992 that he bought in college, and he drove that thing right up until he totaled it 5 years ago. The truck he bought as a replacement will be paid off this month, and he plans on keeping it at least 10-15 more years, as long as it is still running.
Shoes, just because I have foot issues and have to buy really expensive shoes. I have every intention of wearing them out.
Furniture--we've bought very little furniture in the 13 years we've been together. We actually have one of those $40 pressed wood kids' dressers from Kmart that we've had for about 10 years. We really need to replace it with a grown-up dresser, but just haven't made it a priority yet. It's actually in decent shape because we haven't had to move it around or anything. The only new furniture we've bought was our couch (7ish years ago?) and our log bed (6ish years ago?). We just replaced our mattress set a year and a half ago, after 12 years. Our couch needs replaced soon, since the cushions have gotten saggy and its uncomfortable for H to sit on.
Clothes/shoes
Laptops
My cellphones
Make-up/Perfume
Furniture
My car
Pillows for me, although recently I've experimenting with different ones every few months to see what works best for my neck. Before that H and I were using pillows that were probably over 10 years old.
Also shoes, I still have a pair of flip flops I bought in 10th grade when I got a job at a shoe store. I love those things but they're starting to fall apart. For the most part I like wearing flip flops so I don't do a lot of shoe shopping and hating have stuff on my feet. It takes me a while to replace my shoes.
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I replace about every three years, but I recently found that Costco has a pair for $10 that are fabulous! I wouldn't feel bad about every six months at that price (which is for two!!)
Ummm...everything, lol! Electronics, cars, and appliances until they absolutely die. Furniture the same way...though my cat has sure hastened the death of a few pieces.
I keep clothes until they really look awful...though usually I horribly and permanently stain them before they get to that point.
My two worst stories. I kept a mattress in college for almost one year AFTER a spring popped through fabric.
I currently have a pair of black shoes that I thought were leather, but the "top coating" for lack of a better word is starting to wear away where they bend and now there are a few small lines/dots of grey. I colored them in with a black Sharpie, lol! They still look a bit worn, but at least look all black again. The Sharpie places actually can't be seen. I don't wear them that much, but they are my only semi-comfortable black heels and I would have to replace them if I threw them away.
I might need to try these out... I don't have a Costco membership or one near me, but I'm sure I can find someone that does that I can have buy them for me (ETA: And obviously pay them back lol)... I've been struggling to find a good pillow!
I've become really picky about my pillows in the last year and keep buying and trying them with no luck... I've probably tried 4 in the last year and I haven't liked any of them. Since we got a new mattress I've found that cheap pillows just aren't working for me. I think because we went with a firmer mattress versus the pillow top I used to have.
Here's our pretty purchase (please don't judge the basement:
@formerlyGDaisy09, Oh! I'm bad about that too. I have a lot of my stuffed animals and dolls from childhood. Thought most of them are in good condition and none of them are moldy.
I even have a stuffed cat from my infancy. That cat is in rough condition, but I am super sentimental about it. It brings me joy (to pull out a Kondoism).
Thanks! I wanted a top loader without an agitator that would fit a queen comforter, and a dryer with a steam option and rack that didn't require a water line. Hopefully I'll end up liking what we got!!