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Re: Million Student March
I don't think I'm going to articulate this very well, but I'm going to try. I moved from a very affluent area (Orange County, CA) to a city with one of the highest poverty rates in the country (NOLA). Something I have found very striking and interesting is that both of these areas have "entitled" attitudes...but they're different. Keep in mind, I am making sweeping generalizations. Certainly there are lots of awesome people who live in both places.
In CA, it was an entitled attitude of the wealthy. Like, "I'm important and make a lot of money so the rest of the world needs to bow down to me". In NOLA, it's, "Woe is me. Everything bad about my life is everybody else's fault, not mine. So the rest of society has to provide me with everything I need and I will scheme to take and take and take and take, even things I don't deserve."
While on the one hand, I understand it is much harder for a person to pull themselves out of poverty when that is all they've known. For example, I don't remember the exact statistic, but there is a substantially better chance a student will go to college if even one of their parents did. But, on the other hand, while that is an obstacle for people in those situations...it is not a "be all and end all", like some of them like to pretend it is. There is a lot of opportunity in this country and most of it isn't a secret. But it can be hard and it definitely takes work.
From a personal note, I do realize I have been pretty privileged. Not nearly as privileged as most of the kids I went to school with, but still. I was privileged in that I had wonderful parents who watched their pennies without being too frugal. Who placed an emphasis on education. My mother was a college graduate, though my father was not. I was naturally gifted with a higher than average IQ and I have a crazy good memory. That last one made me a good test taker in school and, as an adult, helps me remember all kinds of info. That is useful in a myriad of ways.
But our family was a much lower average income as compared to our HCOL area. I wasn't born with a fully funded college fund, like a lot of my classmates. My parents helped with college, but weren't in a financial place to pay for the majority. I started working p/t jobs at 15 with most of my wages going toward my savings fund to start saving for college. I went to community college first, then to a state college...all to keep my costs for a college education as low as I could.
Looking back, while I was bummed (but understood) that I couldn't just waltz off to whatever college I wanted to with all my expenses paid, I think it made me a better and stronger person that I had to work for a lot of it myself.
Nutshell: Raised with strong fundamentals and intellect, but had to start young and work hard to financially get through college. Continually have to work hard, make good choices, and work multiple jobs for my bright present and brighter future.
As such, I find it hard to be very sympathetic to people born to difficult circumstances, even though I feel sometimes like I should be a little more sympathetic.
Such an excellent point!!! NOLA = high poverty rates, terrible public schools (far below national averages). I have seen first hand the huge correlation there is between those two. And now I'll sound like one of those crazy anti-government people, but I think ignoring the public school problem here is done on purpose. Our biggest industry is tourism. And what does tourism need to thrive? A lot of employees willing to work for minimum/very low wages.
Believe it or not, one of the huge silver linings of Hurricane Katrina was public education got a lot better. It's still bad, but not as nearly bad as it was. People briefly moved away and saw how much better the education was in other states. That it didn't have to be the horror show it was in NOLA. Plus, a lot of those derelict schools...most of which had no A/C or heating systems...were flooded and torn down or gutted/rehabbed. Replaced with new or redone buildings.
I know it is difficult to focus on education (for any area), because it is a lot of money spent IMMEDIATELY. But the rewards are not seen for a generation. That's a tough pill to swallow for the American attitude of "now, now, now" and the politician attitude of the next election, not the next generation.
Personally, I think it's disgusting how many people are hung up over the specific number of $15/hr. Regardless of your skillset, at the end of the day, a person putting in an honest days work should be able to afford a roof over their head, food in their belly, reliable transportation, and some basic comforts at a minimum. I'm not saying they should be living the good life, but minimum wage doesn't even keep up with inflation
The last minimum wage increase was in 2009. Before that, 10 years prior. How many things do you know today cost the same as they did in 2009? Or in 1999? Every time a minimum wage increase comes up for discussion, people complain about how it isn't fair for business or how it hurts them. Since the establishment of the federal minimum wage in 1938, it has been increased 22 times! But every time it comes up, you hear how the world is going to collapse. The economy marches on. Yes, some businesses may go under, but that would happen even if wages never went up. Most businesses don't make it to the 5 yr mark.
We let businesses scare us by telling us that the price of a hamburger will go up, that gas will cost more, that buying our strawberries will cost more. But you know what, those prices were going to go up anyway. Why? Because they can. Because it looks good to the shareholders who only care about the next quarter. The wage increases just make a convenient excuse.