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What is your mortgage rate?
Re: What is your mortgage rate?
Since most of the discussion seems to be renting vs owning, perhaps another way to look at it. When you rent and move out, you get absolutely nothing back. When owning, even with a 30 yr mortgage, you are still paying something toward principal. Assuming you did your homework moving in and didn't have a catastrophic economic event like the bubble bursting and you have made enough payments, you should get something back when you move out (sale price - fees - mortgage).
So yes, a lot of the first years of a loan go to interest, but when you rent, it all goes to your landlord. And yes, I'm simplifying a bit.
I started off with a 30 yr. Refinanced to a 20yr and a 15yr as the rates dropped at my last home.
This is a very good point. H had hardly paid anything down on the principal of his house... maybe something like 5k, he refinanced a couple times to get the rate down. But when we decided to sell the house, he walked away with around $50,000 (after commissions and closing costs) due to the appreciation. If we had been renting, we would have walked away with nothing.
Honestly, sometimes I wonder if we bought too early. We were super inexperienced in financial matters and bought more house than we originally planned on because it was a good deal with everything we needed & wanted. But, housing prices have increased in our area and in the last 2 years there haven't been any houses on the market within our price range that we would actually want. So I know we bought at the right time, but still, we were so inexperienced. Live and learn.
TTC since 1/13 DX:PCOS 5/13 (long, anovulatory cycles)

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I think a difference also...and other PPs mentioned it...is just because a person takes a 30-year mortgage, doesn't mean they aren't going to pay on it like it is a 15-year. Sure, you might pay slightly more interest on a 30, but then there is always the option to drop it back down to the normal mortgage payment if times get tough.
A 15-year is perhaps a great option for a couple where one or both of them is in a very stable job. But when I bought my house, although I was living with my current H, we weren't married. I bought it with the plan that I would never need his help to pay the mortgage (though he did pay me rent). And, unfortunately, I don't work in a very stable industry. I've been laid off 4 times in the last 10 years. So, while I can easily afford a 15-year mortgage payment and that's what I pay, I went with the 30-year option for the flexibility.
And thank God I did! The last time I was laid off was only four months after I bought my house. And it was my most disastrous layoff. The economy was at its worst and it took me almost one year to find another job (my current one). I had never in my adult life gone more than two months without a job. Every dollar counted, so I was definitely thankful to have a lower mortgage to pay.
We split the difference. We pay extra on the loan, but we also invest heavily (401k, ira, other investments).
We also have a slightly different view on debt due to looking at it this way. We don't have any student loans or credit card debt (we do use our cards though paid in full every month), but we do use car/house loans where they make sense.
So yeah, we've been on the other end of the spectrum. That is the norm and we know that, and we are not normal. The fact that my brother left me something, has nothing to do with our mindset about money. Even when we were pro debt-leveraging, we still made the sacrifices and decisions that made the most sense. Yeah, we could have bought a $150k house on a 30 year mortgage that was updated and move in ready, in the MCOL area that's only 20 minutes away. But instead we bought in the LCOL town of 800 and we both commute, so our mortgage payment was very small. And thank God we did, because H lost his job a year after we bought the home and he was on unemployment for 9 months.
TTC since 1/13 DX:PCOS 5/13 (long, anovulatory cycles)

Clomid 50mg 9/13 = BFP! EDD 6/7/14 M/C 5w6d Found 11/4/13
1/14 PCOS / Gluten Free Diet to hopefully regulate my system.
Chemical Pregnancy 03/14
Surprise BFP 6/14, Beta #1: 126 Beta #2: 340 Stick baby, stick! EDD 2/17/15
Riley Elaine born 2/16/15
TTC 2.0 6/15
Chemical Pregnancy 9/15
Chemical Pregnancy 6/16
BFP 9/16 EDD 6/3/17
Beta #1: 145 Beta #2: 376 Beta #3: 2,225 Beta #4: 4,548
www.5yearstonever.blogspot.com
Living in a low COL area definitely allows for those options, but employment can be a challenge. Most either have to commute quite far (which we are not interested in doing) or there aren't many options. Neither of our jobs or salaries would be an option in a LCOL area. We have a pretty good balance between high salaries and a MCOL area.
I'm not surprised, because 30-yr terms are way more common than shorter terms, at least in my area. I don't know any of our friends that have a 15-yr. term. As pps said, it really depends on each person's situation. We are not debt-averse at all, and we were fine with having a 30-yr loan. However, when interest rates dropped almost 2% and we refinanced, we took advantage of that to get a 15-year loan simply because we like the idea of paying it off earlier. H is in his late 40s, so it's really important to us to have the house paid off before he wants to retire. With the lower interest rate, we barely noticed the higher payment amount. It' hasn't put us in a bind. This is also thanks to the fact that we bought at the bottom of our price range/budget so we spend way less on our 15-yr. loan than a lot of my friends spend on their 30-yr.
ETA: I think it's great for those of you that can pay your 30-yr terms early; however, in our case, we knew that we would not be disciplined enough to make those extra payments unless we had to by way of the shorter term.