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Re: Quiet today?
I haven't been neither pro nor against ACA. It has its strong suits. But I'll just come out and say it. "Affordable healthcare" my ass. How is this affordable? Employers can only afford to offer their employees high deductible plans. My H's family max OOP is $16,000! Insane! After taxes, 401k, insurance, and other deductions, he brings home about $32k/year net. If both him and DD were to get hurt, we would be using HALF of his annual income just to pay the max OOP. Yet our cost for him and DD is $125/week. $6,500/year for them 2, and we have a $4,500 individual deductible and $9,000 individual max OOP. That's all the employer and the employees can afford to pay for. Yet he has guys under him who make $12-15/hour, with families. How the heck are they supposed to be able to afford to even pay for the deductible or max OOP if anything happens? I foresee a lot of bankruptcy's happening because families can not afford to pay for these high max OOP's. Heck, we're trying to figure out where to put #2 for health insurance. If anything happens with the birth, we pay anywhere from $4,500-9,000 just for the child! That's not including the $5k we'll pay for my care on my plan.
I'm curious as to whether or not the background intentions were that passing ACA would end up closing down all of the health insurance companies and us turning to a government provided healthcare system. The way it's going, there are only 2 companies left for any self-employed person to choose from, and the employers can't afford the premiums, which in turn is forcing deductibles to increase that the employees can't afford to pay.
I will say that I do find it funny that with H's physical therapy appointments, we've been on the hook for $140 for each appointment (after insurance pays). He needs it 3 days/week. So we asked what their cash price was each session. $120. If we pay in cash or check on the day of his appointment they discount it to $100. So we're paying for his 16 physical therapy appointments without insurance because it's cheaper than actually using insurance. It's going to save us $640 in just 1 month. That's insane!
Same thing when we were getting started with the RE. It was $750 after insurance for his sperm analysis. If we didn't go through insurance and they pay their piddle amount toward it, we would pay $450 if we paid in cash that day.
It's making me question why the heck we even have insurance.
Okay, I'll get off my soapbox now. As someone who works in the industry, I can't help but roll my eyes at this whole thing. I'm so thankful I don't directly handle the health insurance clients or companies, and the ones who do deserve a case of wine a week.
TTC since 1/13 DX:PCOS 5/13 (long, anovulatory cycles)

Clomid 50mg 9/13 = BFP! EDD 6/7/14 M/C 5w6d Found 11/4/13
1/14 PCOS / Gluten Free Diet to hopefully regulate my system.
Chemical Pregnancy 03/14
Surprise BFP 6/14, Beta #1: 126 Beta #2: 340 Stick baby, stick! EDD 2/17/15
Riley Elaine born 2/16/15
TTC 2.0 6/15
Chemical Pregnancy 9/15
Chemical Pregnancy 6/16
BFP 9/16 EDD 6/3/17
Beta #1: 145 Beta #2: 376 Beta #3: 2,225 Beta #4: 4,548
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He jokingly told H that he's better off quitting his job.
I seriously wish they would offer an HSA with this high of deductibles. It would at least help a little bit.
TTC since 1/13 DX:PCOS 5/13 (long, anovulatory cycles)

Clomid 50mg 9/13 = BFP! EDD 6/7/14 M/C 5w6d Found 11/4/13
1/14 PCOS / Gluten Free Diet to hopefully regulate my system.
Chemical Pregnancy 03/14
Surprise BFP 6/14, Beta #1: 126 Beta #2: 340 Stick baby, stick! EDD 2/17/15
Riley Elaine born 2/16/15
TTC 2.0 6/15
Chemical Pregnancy 9/15
Chemical Pregnancy 6/16
BFP 9/16 EDD 6/3/17
Beta #1: 145 Beta #2: 376 Beta #3: 2,225 Beta #4: 4,548
www.5yearstonever.blogspot.com
I'm on the soapbox with you all. Healthcare is an outrageous, ridiculously expensive mess. It was before the ACA and it still is.
I don't understand why there aren't better solutions. My job might be switching to part-time in the near future...or I might be losing it completely. Either way, I would need to go on one of the exchanges to buy insurance. So I was checking it out. Not counting subsidies (not sure I'd qualify), it would be around $850/month for my H and I. Though that isn't a high deductible plan. AND I'd still have my prescription copays which would be another $150+/month.
Why? Why is that monthly amount so much? I AM one of those "bad" people with an expensive, chronic medical condition that supposedly makes the rates so "high" for everyone. YET, I pay thousands out of pocket every year on my current high ded. plan for my medication/lab work/dr. visits. Other than my "free" annual check-up visit. My insurance does not pay one dime for anything because I'm always just under the high ded.
So? Where is all that money for premiums going? The vast majority of people cost far less than I do for their medical care...insurance or not. So, if even a "go die in the streets, you can't buy medical insurance (before the ACA)" person like me is not costing insurance companies any money, why such insane amounts for the monthly premium?
In comparison, my pre-ACA plan with Anthem was around $175/mo and didn't include maternity coverage, and had a $5,000 deductible.
Another big problem is that doctors have to carry insane levels of malpractice insurance. Doctors can get sued millions of dollars for something that really doesn't affect the outcome of the patient and because there are no restrictions the insurance has to pay out. Tort reform will go a long way. Malpractice suits should be saved for gross negligence (cutting off the wrong leg, removing the wrong organs, not payting attention to serious drug interactions, etc.) and not some of these crazy lawsuits that are sent through the courts.
Second bolded. Here in Massachusetts we require plaintiffs to obtain permission from a tribunal before filing in court to exclude frivolous cases. And even if your cases survives that hurdle the docs still win 95% of the time. I saw a few real, actual, gross negligence lawsuits that doctors still were able to win that made me really sad and angry.
Oh yes, 100%. I'm even in the industry and couldn't stand how health insurance was before.
You're definitely correct that there was no way to predict everything that was going to happen. But at this point it's obvious that this isn't working either. Now it's creeping to beyond unaffordable.
TTC since 1/13 DX:PCOS 5/13 (long, anovulatory cycles)

Clomid 50mg 9/13 = BFP! EDD 6/7/14 M/C 5w6d Found 11/4/13
1/14 PCOS / Gluten Free Diet to hopefully regulate my system.
Chemical Pregnancy 03/14
Surprise BFP 6/14, Beta #1: 126 Beta #2: 340 Stick baby, stick! EDD 2/17/15
Riley Elaine born 2/16/15
TTC 2.0 6/15
Chemical Pregnancy 9/15
Chemical Pregnancy 6/16
BFP 9/16 EDD 6/3/17
Beta #1: 145 Beta #2: 376 Beta #3: 2,225 Beta #4: 4,548
www.5yearstonever.blogspot.com
Oh yes, 100%. I'm even in the industry and couldn't stand how health insurance was before.
You're definitely correct that there was no way to predict everything that was going to happen. But at this point it's obvious that this isn't working either. Now it's creeping to beyond unaffordable.
TTC since 1/13 DX:PCOS 5/13 (long, anovulatory cycles)

Clomid 50mg 9/13 = BFP! EDD 6/7/14 M/C 5w6d Found 11/4/13
1/14 PCOS / Gluten Free Diet to hopefully regulate my system.
Chemical Pregnancy 03/14
Surprise BFP 6/14, Beta #1: 126 Beta #2: 340 Stick baby, stick! EDD 2/17/15
Riley Elaine born 2/16/15
TTC 2.0 6/15
Chemical Pregnancy 9/15
Chemical Pregnancy 6/16
BFP 9/16 EDD 6/3/17
Beta #1: 145 Beta #2: 376 Beta #3: 2,225 Beta #4: 4,548
www.5yearstonever.blogspot.com
Around the time ACA "yay and nay" discussions were going on, I read an interesting article that pointed out the biggest problem with healthcare was the skyrocketing costs of it. No matter which side of the debate you fall on.
It outlined some of the ways we, as a country, could reduce healthcare costs. Malpractice tort reform/limits on judgments was, by far, item No. 1.
Another fascinating fact I read (different article) was, over the course of a person's lifetime, there is almost no difference in medical care costs for individuals. Not just the "average" is the same. With few exceptions, every single individual costs about the same. In a nutshell, people with medium/serious medical conditions are more expensive to care for in their younger days. But then they aren't as likely to live as long as people who have no health problems. People who have no health problems, have low medical costs in their youth, but will live for 20-30 years as senior citizens and typically have increased health costs at that point in their life.