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Tax Return: Have you filed yet?

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Re: Tax Return: Have you filed yet?

  • Just be careful with tax preparers who get a little too creative by "finding" things.  I have several clients who used preparers that "found" tens of thousands of things that were "business expenses," deducted them, and  then they got audited and the IRS disallowed those deductions.  Now my clients are paying out the nose in back taxes, fees, and penalties.   One case was so bad that the preparer himself got nailed with penalties.  Obviously I'm talking about extreme cases, but I'm wary of creative accounting.

    Also those late-night "We'll fight the IRS for you!" ads are often scams.  I had one case where a client used one of those companies initially, but then came to us after the original company ended up being investigated by the FBI.

    Paying for an accountant to help you consolidate lots of info, unusual tax situations, or prepare for future years can be worth it IMO, especially if you aren't super familiar with how the tax system works.  A good accountant should also help you with an audit, though if the stakes are high - which to me means over $25K or so - it's best to call an attorney to help.

    I doubt I will ever use an accountant personally.  I've done a casual poll of my practice group, and I don't think a single one of us uses an accountant.  Most of us use TurboTax or HR Block, even for more complicated tax situations (for example, I have to report back-door Roth contributions, which involves reporting a nontaxable distribution from a retirement account.).  The older crowd tends to use pen and paper, exhausts their extensions, and then mails the IRS a check on October 15 each year.
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  • als1982 said:
    @als1982 we use a CPA mainly because we have to file in two states. They have a reciprocal arrangement that keeps you from being double taxed, but the last few times we tried software for it it worked very poorly. I have a 1099 for one of my jobs that also seems to over complicate things to annoying level considering I only makes around $1500 a year at it. H also had some code ("Z") on his tax form related to his state pension that TurboTax outright rejected a couple of years ago. Finally, I've been audited, and the convenience of having used a pro that year was worth every penny for the worry it saved me. 
    We file in two states too and I've never had an issue (work in MO and live in KS).  I did find H&R Block to be better about this than TurboTax.
    I think it is likely RI's fault. A lot of things in our little state don't work as well online as they did in other places where I've lived. It did work ok when I was single, but once I got married and had to deal with the fact that we each work in a different state we started having trouble. 
  • I have an independent accountant that I use.  In the past when I had fairly straightforward returns I did them myself.  Since getting married we have used him every year.  This year might be a little less complicated but still we will have a combined seven W2s to deal with and our first time having mystery shopping on our return. 
    I think he is about $180 and at that price I may use him going forward even if we do become a little more simple.  Taxes are something I do not enjoy (like cleaning) and it is worth the price to me to outsource and not do them (much like having a cleaning person).  He does Federal and State...might do local too, IRC.
  • We use a CPA because we are both self employed and I don't want to deal with it.
  • edited February 2017
    Just did ours with our tax guy last night. We've been using him for a while and pay ~$250 for married filing jointly tax preparation. Come to find out, we are getting $9k back. Clearly I did something wrong when I filled out my W4 for my new job! Need to make an adjustment, but not mad about getting a surprise $9k "bonus"! 
  • @hoffse: Thanks for the response...we use Turbo Tax as our situation isn't very complicated. Out of curiosity, do you purchase the audit defense add on?

    Our risk was rated pretty low and the only thing I may be concerned about is claiming the "Lifetime Learning Credit" since I can't remember if I used it the first time I went to grad school 5 years ago. 
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  • So DH submitted the return and then a tax form came via snail mail we had forgotten about...so now he has to file an amendment to the return.



  • bmo88 said:
    @hoffse: Thanks for the response...we use Turbo Tax as our situation isn't very complicated. Out of curiosity, do you purchase the audit defense add on?

    Our risk was rated pretty low and the only thing I may be concerned about is claiming the "Lifetime Learning Credit" since I can't remember if I used it the first time I went to grad school 5 years ago. 
    Nah I handle my own audits.  If the tax return is fairly simple, the vast majority of the time audits can be resolved by sending the IRS additional documentation with a single letter.  Remember, an audit is not an accusation that you did something wrong.  It's simply a check to make sure you were being honest.   

    For example, I was audited a couple years ago over the education credit I took for my final semester in law school.  My school only sends out 1098-T's for the years in which they bill the student (which in my case was December 2011), but you are actually entitled to take that credit for the year in which you pay.  I intentionally paid my final semester in January 2012 to get the credit for that year because I had already exhausted 2011's credit.

    They audited me since my school never sent a 1098-T for 2012.    I sent back a letter explaining that I was a student, I had paid my tuition in January of that year, and I backed it up with bank statements, a transcript of my grades to show I was enrolled, etc.  And because the audit pissed me off, I got a little snarky and quoted their own regs back to them and sent it in on legal letterhead.

    They sent a letter back to me a few months later basically saying, "Thanks, we're good.  You owe $0."  From start to finish, I probably spent 2 hours on it.

    I'm fully expecting H to get audited for 2014 for exactly the same reason.  I have his documentation ready to go lol.

    Audits really aren't that big of a deal if you can substantiate everything you report and write back promptly.  If you get creative on your taxes and play audit roulette with the IRS, you will probably not get caught for a very long time, but eventually you will need to pony up.   On the other hand, if you are audited and honest, they tend to leave you alone for awhile after that.  
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  • I will also add that the #1 mistake I see when clients get audited is they bury their head in the sand about it or they leave it up to their accountant and assume it's being handled.  

    Up until about an hour ago I had never met an accountant who intentionally let an audit sit (yes I literally just encountered one who did), but they understandably get very busy during certain times of the year, and things occasionally fall through the cracks.  Nobody will care about your audit as much as you do, so that's why I just handle ours myself.

    People seem to be really intimidated by the IRS.  In reality they are not that scary, and they are not out to get you.  If you get an audit letter, the first thing to do is call them, sit on hold for a couple hours, and then talk to somebody in the audit department about what sort of documentation they would like to see.  Then you mail it all in and wait for a response.  It takes about 60 days for them to write back.  They will either accept it or they won't, in which case they usually give you an opportunity to send additional info.  It's all quite fair.

    You go back and forth until you reach a resolution.  The whole process can take months.  You don't owe them any money while it's pending, so you have plenty of time to get your finances in order if need be.  

    The worst thing about it is they haven't changed the music on the hold line for at least 5 years.
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  • I had a horrible experience with them when I graduated compounded by a legitimate mistake on my part.  I forgot to include a W-2 which I'm sure is what triggered the audit.  Then on top of that I legitimately deducted my student loan/tuition or whatever it was.  Went back and forth with them a couple times.  Even sent in my copy of the form I was sent, but was told because the sender hadn't sent it into the IRS it didn't matter what I had.  Ended up just giving up and paying it to make it go away. :(
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  • On the IRS not being scary and being fair (sometimes), my friend/coworker has a side business.  He got audited two years in a row.  He met in person each time.

    The first year, he was able to back everything up and his audit was fine.  The second year, the IRS auditor looked at him and said, "Weren't you here last year?"  My friend said yeah and gave him a brief recount of what happened and that all had been good.  The auditor started laughing and said, "We're not even going to do this, you're fine, get outta here."

  • My goal is to spend as little time possible talking to/sitting on hold with the IRS.  When I have had to deal with them to set up payment plans etc., the wait times on the phone were hours... sorry but I have things to do, like my job, so I can pay my taxes! :) 
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    I charge $275/hour to sit on hold for my clients.  Some feel it's worth it.  Personally, I would not pay that.

    EDIT: No snark intended.  It's just really expensive.
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  • My goal is to spend as little time possible talking to/sitting on hold with the IRS.  When I have had to deal with them to set up payment plans etc., the wait times on the phone were hours... sorry but I have things to do, like my job, so I can pay my taxes! :) 


    Yes!  And, of course, the majority of their phone lines are open are during the weekday when most people work.

    While I understand that, still.  There has to be a better way.  I suspect they'd have a better response putting people on payment plans...so the IRS gets their money...if it didn't take hours to get in touch with them.

    @hoffse, If I were fairly wealthy, paying an attorney $275/hour to sit on hold and talk to the IRS for me, would be worth every penny.  I can totally understand why some of your clients go that route.

  • We filed on January 24th and got our refund back February 8th.  So that was much quicker than I expected. 
    We still haven't gotten our state refund back, but it's Illinois.....

    My H also adjusted his withholdings so hopefully we can stop getting a refund. Our accountant did a rough run of the numbers for next year since I'll be coming home, and we would get even more back.  No thank you.  I'd much rather have that in our monthly budget instead. 

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  • that's my exact thought as well @brij2006 - why let them have it when it should be in your pocket anyways.
  • abrewer5 said:
    jtmh2012 said:
    abrewer5 said:
    We filed and actually received our refund already. We got $6200 back, yikes! I'd like to lower our refund but H is not on board.
    Holy crap!  The highest I ever saw was $2000......
    I know it's not MM at all... I'm scared to change my withholding and end up owing thou, currently we both claim 0 and then have the mortgage, student loan and charitable deductions. H is a huge fan of getting a lot back. He thinks if we had the extra money in our pay check we'd spend it versus getting the chunk back and saving it.
    This is exactly us. We typically get back $6k+. Throw it in the savings. Otherwise we'd end up using it on crap throughout the year. It just works for us.
  • abrewer5 said:
    jtmh2012 said:
    abrewer5 said:
    We filed and actually received our refund already. We got $6200 back, yikes! I'd like to lower our refund but H is not on board.
    Holy crap!  The highest I ever saw was $2000......
    I know it's not MM at all... I'm scared to change my withholding and end up owing thou, currently we both claim 0 and then have the mortgage, student loan and charitable deductions. H is a huge fan of getting a lot back. He thinks if we had the extra money in our pay check we'd spend it versus getting the chunk back and saving it.
    This is exactly us. We typically get back $6k+. Throw it in the savings. Otherwise we'd end up using it on crap throughout the year. It just works for us.
    Add us to the list of people that prefer to get a large tax return. We could change and keep more in our paychecks, but we wouldn't be as responsible with it as we are when we get one lump sum. Every year since we've owned our home, 90% of our tax return has gone to making home improvements, with 10% taken for fun expenses. This year we got about $5k back (but have to pay back $1700 due to an error from 2014) and all of that is being put towards a new furnace to replace the 31 year old unit that we have now and getting our stairwell painted.
  • For the big refunders - why don't you feel tempted to be irresponsible with the refund, but you would with money throughout the year? Have you considered splitting your direct deposits so that you have forced savings all year rather than a refund? 
  • I feel like some years we're more irresponsible with having a refund than if we had it in our monthly budget.

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  • @Brij I just realized it was your daughter's birthday yesterday from your siggy.  Happy birthday to her!  Such a fun age :)
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  • Well, did the taxes. :(

    Owe $901 to the feds.  Getting $247 from state.

    I give up.....*sighs*
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  • Ugh - same. We did ours this weekend. $3,051 to federal and getting $219 from the state. Womp womp. 
  • Ugh - same. We did ours this weekend. $3,051 to federal and getting $219 from the state. Womp womp. 
    OUCH! What happened? That looks a lot like our tax bill last year....
  • We owed last year too so my husband adjusted his withholding and we thought that should cover the shortage. I ended up making more than expected and we were wrong hahaha. I also do a Roth 401(k) so we don't get a tax savings for my retirement contributions - I'm banking that I'll make more and tax rates will be higher when I retire so I'd rather pay taxes now. Plus, I'd still rather owe than get a refund any day! I just need to have my payroll adjusted so we don't have such a big bill again next year. My husband and I have both had a bunch of overtime at our jobs lately so I'm hoping we can cash-flow the tax bill (or at least most of it). 

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