C'mon!!! Plus Clicky Poll

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• LarkNow

  September 2009

  What's the bat symbol?? (other than metaphorically).  How do people find out about these things?

  
  
  
  
  
  
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• britab

  September 2009

  There would be no question in my mind to keep it. DH and I are both 22. He's in law school and I am a first year teacher. Would it be ideal, no. I believe if you are having sex then you are accepting the possible outcomes (including pregnancy).  Would it be hard, yes. When is life easy? We are a family and we would work together to make it work.
  

  

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• Savy _05

  September 2009

  There would absolutely be no choice for us what so ever on whether we would keep a baby or not.. abortion is not an option for us by any means! I can't think of a single situation that we wouldn't want to have a child that we had conceived! I know that we would have to make adjustments to our lives, spending, going-out etc, if we were to have a baby right now but I know we could do it, and quite honestly would be over joyed even though it is definitely not the right timing, or when we want it to happen. I think you need to suck it up and go and pay for the test to be done, and not take it so lightly for that matter... an abortion is a HUGE thing... not something that should be randomly decided upon by one person... or referred to as "flushing"... it is a BABY!
  

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• kyl33t

  September 2009

  It would be awfully inconvenient right now since we're still paycheck to paycheck (though SO close to being past that and getting more stable). There is so much we need to do before I feel like we'd be at a good place and could enjoy the process - settle somewhere, get a house, get H back to school and get him a good job, me a masters degree, and most importantly, I need a DSLR camera.

  That being said, we'd have it and make it work. I feel like - and I'm pro-choice - abortion is completely out the window once you are in a committed relationship, let alone a marriage. Unless of course it's for medical reasons...You got married. You're a grown up. You deal with it.
  

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• sarajoy12345 member

  

  September 2009

  LarkNow:

  What's the bat symbol?? (other than metaphorically).  How do people find out about these things?

   Its usually just people trolling/lurking on other boards.  Or it happens when people post on multiple boards. For example, I post on the MM (Money Matters) board and the Chicago board as well. So I'd go on one of those, and say "OMG, I can't believe what a girl on my club board said....." and then they all invade telling the OP how crazy she is.  One could easily see that happening on this thread especially with some of the more baby-centered or sensitive boards (such as Getting Pregnant or anything on the bump)

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