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Re: Virgin and a Vibrator
davessamantha1990 I can't believe you posted this BS. Really there is only one definition for virgin when you are talking about a woman. Here check this out you might learn something.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Virginity &
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Virgin_(disambiguation)
Time to put on your big girl panties
I've got your rainbows and ponies right here
Do you feel sorry for my husband?
davessamantha is right the deffinition of virgin means diffrent things to each person, and area of the world so back off of her shes was trying to be nice and appologize to all of you for being rude. and look at you all you are no better then a piec of sand!
hope you have fun with all my spelling and grammar
[L. virgo, -inis: cf. OF. virgine, virgene, virge, vierge, F. vierge.]
1. A woman who has had no carnal knowledge of man; a maid.
Wow...this is funny. See...carnal knowledge of a MAN not a piece of plactic,latex,vibrator, tampon, finger, lip,tongue,horse or bicycle.
You can use a vibrator to stimulate externally, it does not have to penetrate if you want to leave that experiance to you & FH. I think that what will help is making sure that on that first time you actually do lots of foreplay and he does use lube and his fingers on and in you to get you used to the sensation and relaxed for penetration by him. What ever a virgin means to anyone is besides the point. You asked a question about vibrators not virginity. Some people just are very sheltered and do not have knowledge of such things. Good Luck and the gals here on the nest are great girls so I hope this doesnt detour form coming back!!
So her mom insists on throwing her a housewarming gift and demanding canned goods as an entrance fee. AND her mom also registered for her without her knowledge.
Also - if I ever have kids, they are SOOOOoo not going to private school. Clearly they don't have any curriculum standards when it comes to spelling or basic grammar.
74 books read in 2011
LMAO and what I meant to spell was COME...hahaha see everyone makes mistakes.
OMG! Both your siggies say "Sami" !! You both make the same grammatical errors!
And OMG! You're both getting married in Central Florida...on...
OMG! March 12, 2011!
You guys should totally have a double wedding.
thanks! and let me say that my mom isn't demanding food she was thinking of having a house warming party for me ( in my town you family or friends throw it for you.) here a housewarming party people buy them things like pots and pans, vacuums, etc. so instead of that she thought that it would be cheaper for them to just bring food its not on the invitation or anything and but everyone knows whats going on. it was going to be a surprise but she thought it was best to let me know!
I'm actually not getting married in central FL that's just where I'm from and didn't want to put all my info on this website. But this is all I have to say to you all. I didn't even notice she was getting married! Good luck!
You obviously haven't spent much time on the Nest if you think we're not supposed to judge or be judged on here. I don't recall pinky-swearing to be nice when I signed up . . .
No worries, You enjoys your wedding planning and your new home. Take all these replies with a grain of salt. Maybe you got some good advice out of some of this. You can alwasy personal message me if you have questions. Good Luck!
Thanks!! will do!
actually MEN do have these too. I agree more with this deffinition then the other moron who said you loose your virginity when your hymen is penetrated.lol.
Worst use of an AE ever.
ok so I wasn't going to post I after reading several very rude comments about 18 year olds I want to.
First... I think that people should make up their own minds about what a virgin is and isn't and respect the fact that not everyone has the same opinion.
Second... While I do not necessarily agree with "davessamantha" I can not believe how everyone is treating her! So she is 18! who cares. I am 18. I will be 19 in August and I got married June 5. I have put up with so many people commenting on my age and I am sick of it! I would not have guessed that I would get married when I was 18 but guess what? I fell in love. (yes, I understand what love is and I don't expect my marriage to be a fairy tale.) I graduated early from high school. I went to college for a year as a public relations major. During that year I was a rep for a company called TOMS shoes. I organized style your sole parties, barefoot walks, and concerts. At the end of that year I decided to enroll in cosmetology school. I love my life right now. I work in an amazing upscale salon/ art gallery and I am married to my best friend. Most people that meet me are amazed when they find out how old I am, and thats just it, I am more mature than many people 10 years older than I am. There are 30 year old out there who have no business being married! My marriage counselor told us that of all the couples she was counseling Seth and I were the ones that she was the LEAST worried about. So please think before you criticize people for their age because that sounds like you should be back in high school.
Hey i would just ignore anything about your age... really who cares what someones age is that doesnt mean they don't know anything.... I was 17 (a month away from being 18) when I got married!!! so dont feel bad. also for the record i have no children and i was out of high school... i graduated when i was 16...
OP I think that it would help you loosen up. I dont think it would mean your not a virgin anymore. But only do it if it is something you'd be comfortable with doing and wouldnt feel bad about later... good luck
Some people have to be either kidding here or they have no clue.
How how exactly are you being holy by only wearing a diaper 1/4 of your life during your teens/20's?
Heaven forbid, my daughter turned into a whore at age 11 with a piece of absorbent cotton.
What is an 18yr old child getting married for? Get out and see the world and do some interesting things before getting tied down.
You don't need to "stretch things out" before the honeymoon. Just make certain everything is lubed then take it slow and easy.
I think it's a very positive thing that you are looking forward to your wedding night, and are looking for ways to get yourself used to sexual sensations beforehand, so as to reduce any possible anxiety. Don't let anyone tell you to feel bad/guilty about using a vibrator. As many have already pointed out, a vibrator does NOT take away your virginity. The posters who think it does are seriously uneducated and quite possibly 11 years old. Generally a virgin is defined as someone who has not had sexual intercourse, although some people consider oral or manual sex to count as well. But all of those things involve sex with an actual other human being; inanimate objects such as vibrators or tampons may tamper with the hymen, but virginity relates to sexual experience, not intactness of one's hymen.
Anyway, it is your body, and if the idea of a vibrator sounds pleasant to you, then by all means try it. There are so many kinds out there; Amazon has some of the best prices (many at least $25 models have free shipping as well
) I think you would know better than anyone, just by looking, which one tempts your own eyes. It is your body so I don't think that, as someone else suggested, you should feel obliged to get a green-light from your fiance before trying out something very personal and private, such as a vibrator, that could potentially enhance your future sex life. No, using a vibe is not the same as sex with a human; but it can at least get you used to some of the sensations of sex: clitoral stimulation, penetration, whatever you're comfortable with. And you are completely in control so you can obviously go at your own pace. It can help a lot if you fantasize while using it rather than simply reacting to the physical sensations. Think about whatever turns you on; fantasizing about your husband-to-be might be good practice. Just don't become too reliant on one because the real thing doesn't literally vibrate!