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What the heck happened? Please ignore prev. posts!!!
Re: What the heck happened? Please ignore prev. posts!!!
Oh, my! Sara, you always do and say the stuff that I don't have the guts for.
I've only met one of Matt's exes. We were at a wedding almost a year and a half ago, a couple of months before we got engaged. The ex was a bridesmaid and was making the rounds. Matt said hi to her, and they made small talk for a couple of minutes, but both of them and everybody else at the table acted like I was completely invisible. It was awkward. Adding to the awkwardness was the fact that she looked so much like me that we could have been sisters...
HAHA WOW!
I'm sure they were probably trying to make it LESS awkward by kinda ignoring you since it's a weird situation, but in actuality, made it MORE awkward. They probably just weren't sure how to act. And even if she looked like you, you'd be the way hotter sister!!
LOL Thanks! Yeah, I think they were trying to make it less weird but weren't succeeding at all. It was just a rotten day for me all-around, and that didn't help.
Matt was similarly scarred by meeting one of my exes, but Andy was really kind of a jerk to him. I felt bad. I'm glad that we're not likely to "just run into" exes on either side!
I'm still friends with one of my exes and I see him occasionally but not that often. Ben hates running into him though.
Adam saw one of his exes at Target while we were grocery shopping a few months ago. He wanted to avoid her the best he could b/c I guess at some point he was supposed to call her and he never did...it's some joke with him and his best friend too.
I love the name Elena, but one of his exes was named that.
He said no right away. 

You've heard what I've done, not what I've been through.
If you were in my shoes, you'd fall the first step."