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GO GATORS!!!!!!!

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  • imageblondeG8Rbride:

    imageGator_Bride08:
    Kendra, JFC. You are blowing this way out of proportion. And the "Did you learn that at fox news" comment was childish and ridiculous. C'mon.

    Apparently she thinks insulting Fox News is the same as insulting me?  That or my ears will start bleeding if I hear anything negative re: Fox News.  Not sure which. 

    I'm having a hard time feeling guilty about making a TIC shot at Fox News as a knee jerk reaction to being egregiously misquoted.  Whether or not you're a fan of Fox, you handily used one of their tried and true tactics by creating a straw man out of what I said.  I'm calling you out for your tactics, not your loyalty or lack thereof to Fox News.

  • Again, my intent was not to "misquote" you, my intent was to establish exactly the points of your comment to which I was referring.  Instead of bolding the sentences like many posters do, I c&p'd the relevant portions of your comment.  My choice, really.  No need to flame me for my message board style preference.  I wouldn't call you out for overreacting if indeed, you were not doing so.  However, you are as you often do.
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  • imageblondeG8Rbride:
    Again, my intent was not to "misquote" you, my intent was to establish exactly the points of your comment to which I was referring.  Instead of bolding the sentences like many posters do, I c&p'd the relevant portions of your comment.  My choice, really.  No need to flame me for my message board style preference.  I wouldn't call you out for overreacting if indeed, you were not doing so.  However, you are as you often do.

    You stated that you selected the parts that you "agreed" with which, when taken out of context, misrepresent my point.  So really, you didn't agree with my point at all, just the selection of words you chose to cut out from it.  That being the case, in the future it would be more sincere and truthful to restate the part you liked in your own words.  I'm still curious why you don't agree with the other parts of my comment.  If you want to discuss something substantively with me, I'm all ears.  If all you want is to ignore my substantive point and instead marginalize my perspective by once again telling me that I'm "overreacting" to something simply because you disagree with me, well then it's clear that respectful and mature discussion is not what you're interested in today.

  • WOW, I am pretty impressed by the reaction some of you had to my post. I didn't realize I had such a pull on your emotions. I was mocking the way Janelle worded her post, that she would "take a loss" or however she said it. I am sorry if all Gator fans felt that I was calling you out. I wasn't even really trying to be rude to Janelle. Of course all FSU fans are excited for the win, Janelle's witty comeback ruined my temporary high Sad But she is right. It is the first win after 6 years in a row of losses. Maybe 6 years from now planets will have been eliminated and more social netowrking sites will exist. Then I can brag. I guess it was a little premature. Oh well.

  • imageblossomtg85:

    WOW, I am pretty impressed by the reaction some of you had to my post. I didn't realize I had such a pull on your emotions. I was mocking the way Janelle worded her post, that she would "take a loss" or however she said it. I am sorry if all Gator fans felt that I was calling you out. I wasn't even really trying to be rude to Janelle. Of course all FSU fans are excited for the win, Janelle's witty comeback ruined my temporary high Sad But she is right. It is the first win after 6 years in a row of losses. Maybe 6 years from now planets will have been eliminated and more social netowrking sites will exist. Then I can brag. I guess it was a little premature. Oh well.

    You didn't have a pull on my emotions. Anyone who said that would have fired me up. But thanks for the clarification. 

  • imageFLVintageBride:

    imageGator_Bride08:
    Kendra, JFC. You are blowing this way out of proportion. And the "Did you learn that at fox news" comment was childish and ridiculous. C'mon.

    What does "JFC" mean?  I keep seeing this and I have no clue what it stands for. 

    FWIW, I take it pretty seriously when people use cut and paste to twist and distort the full meaning of someone's statement.  I understand that this is just a message board, but if one think it's ok here then where does one draw the line?  As a lawyer I am certain that Janelle has been well educated on the appropriate methods for quoting someone. Creating a straw man out of my argument disrespects my position and is childish in my opinion.

    The fall back argument whenever certain people disagree with me is to say that I am "overreacting".  Attack the substance of what I say, not whether or not I have a right or reason for saying it. 

    "Jesus Fvcking Christ."

    I can see where people do use C&P for that reason, but I don't think Janelle was trying to do that at all. I would have done the same thing, but bolded it. Sometimes it's easier to just delete it to get the point across. /shrug

    I say you were overreacting not because I disagree with you, but because (again) you didn't even ask Janelle what she meant. No one misconstrued it but you. I didn't even think twice about her quoting just that until you mentioned it. And one little thing got turned into a zillion posts back and forth between you and her, which could have been avoided had you just said "Hey, wtf!" And she would have said "My bad." The end! Stick out tongue

    So, we're both guilty of overreacting. Let's go get ice cream. I'm grumpy today. 

  • imageGator_Bride08:
    imageFLVintageBride:

    imageGator_Bride08:
    Kendra, JFC. You are blowing this way out of proportion. And the "Did you learn that at fox news" comment was childish and ridiculous. C'mon.

    What does "JFC" mean?  I keep seeing this and I have no clue what it stands for. 

    FWIW, I take it pretty seriously when people use cut and paste to twist and distort the full meaning of someone's statement.  I understand that this is just a message board, but if one think it's ok here then where does one draw the line?  As a lawyer I am certain that Janelle has been well educated on the appropriate methods for quoting someone. Creating a straw man out of my argument disrespects my position and is childish in my opinion.

    The fall back argument whenever certain people disagree with me is to say that I am "overreacting".  Attack the substance of what I say, not whether or not I have a right or reason for saying it. 

    I say you were overreacting not because I disagree with you, but because (again) you didn't even ask Janelle what she meant. No one misconstrued it but you. I didn't even think twice about her quoting just that until you mentioned it. And one little thing got turned into a zillion posts back and forth between you and her, which could have been avoided had you just said "Hey, wtf!" And she would have said "My bad." The end! Stick out tongue


    Ah, Laura, you are so wise and yet so naive.  Stick out tongue  The day that Janelle responds to anything I say with "my bad", hell will have truly frozen over. Devil  It's fine though because I've become accustomed to what our exchanges are likely to be like.  It's funny because I think it causes the rest of the board more anxiety than it causes either Janelle or me.  We are known quantities to each other.  I guess most people would like to think we could all end things with puppies and rainbows and ice cream cones.  I've learned to accept the fact that it will probably never be like that between me and some people in the world.  NBD.  AngelDrinks

  • I like how I'm portrayed as one who thinks I'm holier than thou.  I have "my bad" moments all the time, Kendra.  I am very familiar with humility, no worries.  However, I also will not bow down to Kendra and her opinion of message board rules.  This is also not a "my bad" worthy moment.  I have posted many times where I quote and edit a pp.  No one has ever said anything negative about it in the past.  Just not a fan of the bolding.  End of the story.  If an internet stranger wants to get all fussy over my style of posting, I don't care.  What I care about is how a disagreement with my style of posting turns into a character attack as it does every single time with Kendra.  She always asks for me to argue substantively yet it is always preceded/proceeded with an attack on my character as a person (of which I am still baffled at how this is possible considering we've never met and she knows no one who knows me IRL), so it's really not worth my time anymore and I'm done with dealing with it.  And it's basically the reason I'm on here so much less now, as Laura is aware.  That and I don't know how those of you that work can keep up with all that goes on here.
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  • imageblondeG8Rbride:
    I like how I'm portrayed as one who thinks I'm holier than thou.  I have "my bad" moments all the time, Kendra.  I am very familiar with humility, no worries.  However, I also will not bow down to Kendra and her opinion of message board rules.  This is also not a "my bad" worthy moment.  I have posted many times where I quote and edit a pp.  No one has ever said anything negative about it in the past.  Just not a fan of the bolding.  End of the story.  If an internet stranger wants to get all fussy over my style of posting, I don't care.  What I care about is how a disagreement with my style of posting turns into a character attack as it does every single time with Kendra.  She always asks for me to argue substantively yet it is always preceded/proceeded with an attack on my character as a person (of which I am still baffled at how this is possible considering we've never met and she knows no one who knows me IRL), so it's really not worth my time anymore and I'm done with dealing with it.  And it's basically the reason I'm on here so much less now, as Laura is aware.  That and I don't know how those of you that work can keep up with all that goes on here.

    If you don't think you're never wrong, I've never seen you admit as much in any capacity here.  Give me break, where exactly does this "bowing down to Kendra" bit come from?  All I was looking for was acknowledgment that your conveniently selective C&P of my comment took my comments out of context and, thus, misconstrued my point.  I was actually defending your team and yet you managed to turn my own quote into looking like an attack on FSU.  I think that's pretty classless.  If it's taught me anything, it's that you can handily undermine even my most sincere attempts at trying to find middle ground and common understanding with you. 

    I really think it is sad if I have in any way caused you to visit the board less often.  Nothing in the world says you have to engage me.  You could at any time drop these discussions if they bug you so much.  Yet, you never do.  I assumed that was because you enjoyed the banter in some way.  Seeing as you are making it clear that that is not the case, I will happily see if I can make get the stupid block function to work and henceforth pretend like you don't exist.  I'm not going to lose any sleep over it either way.

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