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Re: Sex advice...and TMI
Don't worry; you're not alone. Now, I'm not saying the OP is totally wrong; if she truly doesn't like something, then he should drop it. Anal, however, CAN be very enjoyable. But to get to that enjoyable stage, you have to pretty much train your body, and train it gently--with fingers, with toys, and with LOTS and LOTS of lube. From the sound of the OP's post, dh isn't quite understanding enough to realize that.
OP, I would suggest that you sit down with your husband and have a serious talk about what he wants, what you want, and what the two of you DON'T want. Then, figure out where you can compromise a little bit. Maybe with anal or something else you're not so big on, you can look up tips online for prepping yourself for anal sex (or whatever), so that you can do something for him, but he can ease you into it in a respectful, loving way.