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Re: Advice needed on serious issue
Baker Act.
(Hopefully for everyone in that family of yours).
And maybe sterilization. For everyone in that family of yours.
Some genes don't need to be passed on.
This. OP, you seriously need to get OUT of the situation and once you're safely away, get the kid committed. He's a threat to himself and society.
People are being way too nice to you. The fact that you post on several other websites and have been posting about this for months makes you an idiot.
If your SS does something to your baby, it is your fault. You know exactly what this kid is and what he has the potential to do. As the mother, it is your job to protect your child. You clearly have no real interest in doing that, otherwise you would have taken action months ago. So, again, if that kids does something, it is on YOU.
Personally, I think that you like the incredulous responses and the sympathy that you get on these baords. See, I need to believe that is true, because it gives me faith in the human race. Otherwise, we are doomed. Not because there are sociopaths out there like your SS, but because there are idiots out there (such as yourself) that are too selfish to buck up and be a parent.
I have never even been to the Nest before, so how do I know about your story? It is making the rounds on all the other boards, people are so disgusted. But, of course, you do nothing about your situation except write to internet strangers for sympathy and advice.
If this is a real situation, and I am 99% sure it is not, you may well be the most unfit mother on the planet to not have hightailed it out of there months ago. I am not sorry if that sounds harsh because people have been blowing rainbows up your a$$ for months trying to give you good advice that you refuse to take.
Married since 06/19/2004|Anna born 11/19/2006|Charles born 11/1/11
Double undergrad graduation May 2011| Me: Psychology, DH: Communication| A long journey!
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Uh, hello, exactly! just curious, what other boards is this on and are there links?
OMG - it's a complete nightmare...you need to document document document. and call Children?s Aid immediately if you haven't done so already. You will have to build up your case before you can get a court-order to keep your daughter full time out of protection. And it takes years / or / until something major and tragic happens. Sadly, your therapist/lawyers are correct that if you leave and ex-DH gets the daughter on weekends, 100% SS will be harming your daughter. It's great and all that you love your DH, but you have a responsibility as a mother to protect your child - that comes first.
I'm going to pray for you.
I don't know how to link cause I am a computer idiot, but she is on September 2011 and 9-12 months on the bump and she is on babycenter too.
ahhhh thanks.
See, there was this poster when I still posted on the month boards... and her name was dina. And she had like sixty different screennames each with a ridiculously unbelievable story- and I am wondering if this is her.
I couldn't even read it all. I stopped at "he said she can suck on his weiner like a baby bottle"
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I'm sure you don't want to hear this. But I would divorce DH and fight for custody. That DH gets none unless SS goes away to a hospital or something... cuz that's what he needs.
Everything you stated is just straight up WRONG
I'm so sorry. You will be in my prayers
YESYESYESYESYES!!!!! Please!!!!! For LOs sake at least
THIS... before I got to go home I was asked if I have a safe home to go to and if I'm scared of DH... if your scared and not safe they won't let you go home.
When your neighbors get home and call the police for what your SS did to their dog and the police in turn call CPS-don't be surprised if someone deems you unfit to be a mother for sitting idly by and letting this all continue.
if your h is really gone for 70 hours a week that leaves you with a big chunk of time on your hands.
A- call cps and inform them your h has abandoned his child, and you are not willing or able to care for him. they will come get him. this will cause considerable disruption and further complications to your ss.
b- find the nearest child psych ward and take ss there. If you are left alone for that long with him and you don't feel safe you have every right to take him to the hospital where they can provide the kind of supervision he needs. They should also be able to do testing and see whats going on.
Have you talked to teachers/ other grown ups that interact with ss that also see this crap??