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  • imagebsn1752:

    RE:  FB Status... and also a vent.

    So, I know this girl that is about to have her 3rd child.  She is single, so I understand that money is not the easiest to come by, but she openly talks about the child support that she receives for the children.

    Today, she goes on FB asking people for "cheap daycare/nanny recommendations".  That phrase already irks me.  As I go reading through her comments, she states that won't pay more than $25/day.  That's $125/week for FULL TIME infant care... I have NEVER heard of anything that cheap!  We pay $150/week and my child (in pre-k) only goes three days!!  People are literally trying to beat each other for their claim to the lowest priced daycare... one girl keeps saying "well, again, I only pay $85 for two kids."

    Don't get me wrong, if you can find someone that you depend, have respect for and absolutely has a safe and trust worth estyablishment... then awesome.  But to me, if I'm paying $85/week (or even $25/day)... what kind of turn over do you have?  Can you retain good people?  Are you doing your due diligence in hiring people and are you paying them appropriately?  The whole thing bugs me.  I already think that they don't make enough as it is... but then throw in bargain shopping daycares?!?!

    I AM ANNOYED. Bargain shopping for toilet paper is one thing.  Bargain shopping for child care is a huge no-no to me.

    Ah, wow!    I saw your status and was racking my brain thinking of things that would be inappropriate to bargain shop for.   I was thinking of goods though, not services... and certainly not childrens services!

    Yeesh.

     

  • imagebsn1752:

    RE:  FB Status... and also a vent.

    So, I know this girl that is about to have her 3rd child.  She is single, so I understand that money is not the easiest to come by, but she openly talks about the child support that she receives for the children.

    Today, she goes on FB asking people for "cheap daycare/nanny recommendations".  That phrase already irks me.  As I go reading through her comments, she states that won't pay more than $25/day.  That's $125/week for FULL TIME infant care... I have NEVER heard of anything that cheap!  We pay $150/week and my child (in pre-k) only goes three days!!  People are literally trying to beat each other for their claim to the lowest priced daycare... one girl keeps saying "well, again, I only pay $85 for two kids."

    Don't get me wrong, if you can find someone that you depend, have respect for and absolutely has a safe and trust worth estyablishment... then awesome.  But to me, if I'm paying $85/week (or even $25/day)... what kind of turn over do you have?  Can you retain good people?  Are you doing your due diligence in hiring people and are you paying them appropriately?  The whole thing bugs me.  I already think that they don't make enough as it is... but then throw in bargain shopping daycares?!?!

    I AM ANNOYED. Bargain shopping for toilet paper is one thing.  Bargain shopping for child care is a huge no-no to me.

    I have a FB friend who is just as bad. She is a single mom to 3. The first two she had while married, and this third one was fathered by a guy I gather she never really actually dated. She posts ALL THE TIME about trying to track this guy down to pay child support. She quotes the texts he sends her where he denies the child is his. She also doesn't work and I assume she lives off the child support her ex gives her and whatever she earns cutting hair out of her house.

    It's like a FB soap opera. I'd hide her, but I can't turn away from the trainwreck that is her wall!

  • imageMarieSD:

    Dear Realtor,

    Please get in touch with me! I emailed you Sunday night. While I know the listings we expressed interest in weren't exactly million-dollar sales for you, I was still hoping to hear back from you by now. We've been online shopping for houses for a while now ... we're finally ready to see some in person!

    ---Impatient potentional home-buyer who doesn't have a clue how this process works, but assumed the easiest way to do it would be to contact the realtor selling the 2 houses we're interested in.

    Typically the listing agent has to refer you to someone else in their office.  The agent generally can't represent both the buyer and seller because it is a conflict of interest.

    Any agent can show you the properties, so if you don't have an agent.. I'd call the listing office and speak with someone who is available to show them to you.  I'm sure they would be more than happy to do it ASAP.

  • imageTiffany618:
    imageMarieSD:

    Dear Realtor,

    Please get in touch with me! I emailed you Sunday night. While I know the listings we expressed interest in weren't exactly million-dollar sales for you, I was still hoping to hear back from you by now. We've been online shopping for houses for a while now ... we're finally ready to see some in person!

    ---Impatient potentional home-buyer who doesn't have a clue how this process works, but assumed the easiest way to do it would be to contact the realtor selling the 2 houses we're interested in.

    Typically the listing agent has to refer you to someone else in their office.  The agent generally can't represent both the buyer and seller because it is a conflict of interest.

    Any agent can show you the properties, so if you don't have an agent.. I'd call the listing office and speak with someone who is available to show them to you.  I'm sure they would be more than happy to do it ASAP.

    This exactly. You have to get your own realtor.

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  • Dear Angela, 

    1, I loooove your siggy picture, and 2, I can't believe your wedding is 2.5 weeks away!!!

    ~Angie

  • imagebsn1752:

    RE:  FB Status... and also a vent.

    So, I know this girl that is about to have her 3rd child.  She is single, so I understand that money is not the easiest to come by, but she openly talks about the child support that she receives for the children.

    Today, she goes on FB asking people for "cheap daycare/nanny recommendations".  That phrase already irks me.  As I go reading through her comments, she states that won't pay more than $25/day.  That's $125/week for FULL TIME infant care... I have NEVER heard of anything that cheap!  We pay $150/week and my child (in pre-k) only goes three days!!  People are literally trying to beat each other for their claim to the lowest priced daycare... one girl keeps saying "well, again, I only pay $85 for two kids."

    Don't get me wrong, if you can find someone that you depend, have respect for and absolutely has a safe and trust worth estyablishment... then awesome.  But to me, if I'm paying $85/week (or even $25/day)... what kind of turn over do you have?  Can you retain good people?  Are you doing your due diligence in hiring people and are you paying them appropriately?  The whole thing bugs me.  I already think that they don't make enough as it is... but then throw in bargain shopping daycares?!?!

    I AM ANNOYED. Bargain shopping for toilet paper is one thing.  Bargain shopping for child care is a huge no-no to me.

    Child care is expensive, plain and simple.  And as you said, daycare workers are underpaid as it is too.  I worked at Primrose (one of the more expensive schools) on and off for 3 years.  I left making $9/hour.  I made nothing.  If someone had offered to pay me $25/day to watch their infant I would have laughed at them and told them good luck.  And the girl that pays $85 for 2 kids.  Are you dropping them at an actual licensed facility or just some random place and pray they don't get hurt?

    We are shopping for daycares now.  I knew it would be expensive.  Most places I called in the Bedford area are anywhere from $250-280/week.  We got very lucky and our neighbor works at a church in the area in the infant room and told us there is an opening.  It's still $200/week but I know the lady, I'm comfortable with her and it is a church environment which I wanted too.  Anything less than that for an infant and honestly I'd be wondering what I was sacrificing for the too good to be ture price.

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  • imagebsn1752:

    RE:  FB Status... and also a vent.

    So, I know this girl that is about to have her 3rd child.  She is single, so I understand that money is not the easiest to come by, but she openly talks about the child support that she receives for the children.

    Today, she goes on FB asking people for "cheap daycare/nanny recommendations".  That phrase already irks me.  As I go reading through her comments, she states that won't pay more than $25/day.  That's $125/week for FULL TIME infant care... I have NEVER heard of anything that cheap!  We pay $150/week and my child (in pre-k) only goes three days!!  People are literally trying to beat each other for their claim to the lowest priced daycare... one girl keeps saying "well, again, I only pay $85 for two kids."

    Don't get me wrong, if you can find someone that you depend, have respect for and absolutely has a safe and trust worth estyablishment... then awesome.  But to me, if I'm paying $85/week (or even $25/day)... what kind of turn over do you have?  Can you retain good people?  Are you doing your due diligence in hiring people and are you paying them appropriately?  The whole thing bugs me.  I already think that they don't make enough as it is... but then throw in bargain shopping daycares?!?!

    I AM ANNOYED. Bargain shopping for toilet paper is one thing.  Bargain shopping for child care is a huge no-no to me.

    Someone recently was asking why Mack and I don't live in DFW, since we drive in to work there 3-5 times a week. I explained that we'd have to hike our prices WAY up to compensate for childcare, and that living out here in the country, we're near my parents and grandparents. Free, reliable, super trustworthy babysitting. No brainer.

    This person said, "Oh, you can get really cheap babysitting if you aren't too picky."

    Um... well, I'm gonna be picky. They're my kids! I wouldn't trust a place that charged $125 a week for an infant, honestly. They're not going to attract quality employees for that. Yeesh, scary.

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  • Tiffany and TexanTreasure,

    Thank you! I did not know that Embarrassed. Technically I did email the owner of the realty company that the listing agent works for, not the listing agent directly ... so maybe they'll think that's what I meant all along. But probably not. I admitted in the email I didn't know much about the process.

    ---Girl who doesn't like being so clueless and needs to do some more research on all this, ASAP.

  • imagesuperMcG:

    Someone recently was asking why Mack and I don't live in DFW, since we drive in to work there 3-5 times a week. I explained that we'd have to hike our prices WAY up to compensate for childcare, and that living out here in the country, we're near my parents and grandparents. Free, reliable, super trustworthy babysitting. No brainer.

    This person said, "Oh, you can get really cheap babysitting if you aren't too picky."

    Um... well, I'm gonna be picky. They're my kids! I wouldn't trust a place that charged $125 a week for an infant, honestly. They're not going to attract quality employees for that. Yeesh, scary.

    That would be my concern.  My main concern.  And are they paying to upkeep the building?  Am I sure that they're all up to date in their licensing and insurance?  There's so many variables and when it comes to my child, it's not something I would ever chance.  The lowest for an infant I have EVER seen is $200... like Dana said and it was a church daycare.

  • imageMarieSD:

    Tiffany and TexanTreasure,

    Thank you! I did not know that Embarrassed. Technically I did email the owner of the realty company that the listing agent works for, not the listing agent directly ... so maybe they'll think that's what I meant all along. But probably not. I admitted in the email I didn't know much about the process.

    ---Girl who doesn't like being so clueless and needs to do some more research on all this, ASAP.

    Your fine!  My Mom is a realtor a few hours away or else I probably would not have known that when we went to buy.   

    Honestly, if someone in their office hasn't responded to you by now, I would call someone else.  Anyone from any office can definitely help you. 

    It is good to find someone you trust and work exclusively with them in your search.  They can help you find homes similar to your tastes and budget that you may not have found on your own.  

    ETA:  I don't know where your looking but I have a friend who is an agent in Dallas who says he would be happy to help you.  Just let me know if you want his info.

  • Dear Nesties,

    This is a strange OL for me but I need some feedback.  I am writing a letter of recommendation for a student who started a quidditch league here at the school.  When I mention that in his letter, do I need to describe it since it is highly possible that the person reading the letter has no idea about quidditch or Harry Potter (maybe they lived under a rock....  Wink )  ?

  • imagejuliebug1997:

    Dear Nesties,

    This is a strange OL for me but I need some feedback.  I am writing a letter of recommendation for a student who started a quidditch league here at the school.  When I mention that in his letter, do I need to describe it since it is highly possible that the person reading the letter has no idea about quidditch or Harry Potter (maybe they lived under a rock....  Wink )  ?

    Dear Julie,

    I would provide some context for it seeing as how I have no idea what quidditch is and I don't live under a rock.

    -Me

  • imagejuliebug1997:

    Dear Nesties,

    This is a strange OL for me but I need some feedback.  I am writing a letter of recommendation for a student who started a quidditch league here at the school.  When I mention that in his letter, do I need to describe it since it is highly possible that the person reading the letter has no idea about quidditch or Harry Potter (maybe they lived under a rock....  Wink )  ?

    Could you generalize it and say that he started a sports league? That way, he isn't "that Harry Potter kid."

  • imagealmoyo:
    imagejuliebug1997:

    Dear Nesties,

    This is a strange OL for me but I need some feedback.  I am writing a letter of recommendation for a student who started a quidditch league here at the school.  When I mention that in his letter, do I need to describe it since it is highly possible that the person reading the letter has no idea about quidditch or Harry Potter (maybe they lived under a rock....  Wink )  ?

    Could you generalize it and say that he started a sports league? That way, he isn't "that Harry Potter kid."

    This... I love HP, and I think a quidditch league where you can't fly is a little, um, interesting.  Did they gallop around on brooms like stick horses?

  • imagealmoyo:
    imagejuliebug1997:

    Dear Nesties,

    This is a strange OL for me but I need some feedback.  I am writing a letter of recommendation for a student who started a quidditch league here at the school.  When I mention that in his letter, do I need to describe it since it is highly possible that the person reading the letter has no idea about quidditch or Harry Potter (maybe they lived under a rock....  Wink )  ?

    Could you generalize it and say that he started a sports league? That way, he isn't "that Harry Potter kid."

    Yes definitely!

  • Dear Life,

    We need a break from the bad. Stat.

    Dear Potential Job,

    F YOU. Seriously. 2 days before the interview you call to indefinitely postpone. I don't care that you really like me, and once there is a new opening you will call. That does me no good right now. UGH.

    Dear Money,

    If you could magically just appear in my bank account, I would be eternally grateful. 

    me:pcos & hypothyroid
    started ttc 02/2010
    07/11 clomid,ovidrel,t.i = bfn
    08/11 clomid, ovidrel, iui = bfn
    blog
  • imageangieandjames:

    Dear Angela, 

    1, I loooove your siggy picture, and 2, I can't believe your wedding is 2.5 weeks away!!!

    ~Angie

    1. Thank you!!

    2. I know, right?! It doesn't feel like I've been planning for a year & a half!

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  • I didn't want to just call it a sports league because that just sounds like they're playing rec league basketball.  I put that they started a Quidditch Club (a game from Harry Potter).  BTW, they developed this league, raised money through t-shirt sales, entry fees and ticket sales and donated it all to St. Jude's!  I have some awesome students. 
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