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Re: You dropped something, Taaka25, Esq.
Can you please translate that into English? Comprehention? LMAO
No, I didn't think you could and it looks like I was right, your fuktardness keeps you coming back for more.
i feel very sorry for you if you do not see how telling someone that they should or should not reproduce is wrong.. i feel even worse for you that you dont see how someone calling into question how you chose to spend your money, or what you chose to do for entertainment, is out of line and EXTREMELY offensive. people have died for those rights... for you to have those rights.
i guess you wouldnt be offended if someone characterized you as a criminal and liar, either?
furthermore, i believe i did state earlier that i was wrong for reacting with anger and i did delete this post.. i'm not the person who has kept this going.. however i, too, have been equally amused at the great lengths of small people to keep a moot point alive, just so they can tell someone to go away... yet they continue to post. i think thats the definition of irony.
i have had a most wonderful time calling out those who speak with no evidence or logic.. i've still not seen anyone make a rational, germane and persuasive argument. still waiting..
as far as my, "recommend someone suffer domestic violence for any reason is absurd!" LOL i find this funny.. obvisouly.. #2's H will not follow my "advice".. its no more a recommendation or as a threat, than it is comedic satire. yet, far less offensive then another disgusting display, wise cracking about a missing family member- that was not bothersome to you? seems to me like some people who comment have their principals of descency askewed.
i'm glad to see that you have taken the time to advice me that i look stupid for continuing to comment, yet you have done the same... i'll take that with a grain of salt. (ps, is the polite way to say, "whatever")
thats NOT what i said at all, everyone is entitled to their opinion and you asked people for it. even if you say "just venting" before you rant. its like saying "with all due respect you're an ***" that doesnt change that ive just called someone an ***. i agree that ur offended about the criminal stuff etc but thats all just words, you had no logical adult reason to fire back in the manner that you did. saying "i hope you get hit in the face" vs "hope your time at the fair was worth ramen noodles for a month" totally out there...
im not being a jerk, just trying to help you see that you did bring this on yourself. next time make sure the amount and type of emotion matches the extent of the issue.
good luck!
"as far as my, "recommend someone suffer domestic violence for any reason is absurd!" LOL i find this funny.. obvisouly.. #2's H will not follow my "advice".. its no more a recommendation or as a threat, than it is comedic satire"
it doesnt matter what you meant. when people tell teenagers to go kill themselves on the internet bc they are "losers" even if they "didnt mean it" they still get put on trial if/when that kid takes his own life. im just adviSing you to watch what you say in that department.
you are saying that bc i posted something that that opened me up to comments, even if i didnt ask for it? isnt that in affect the same as Mb#2?
if they are just words, than that is what they are, be it "you should get slapped" or "you are a liar" "your husband is a criminal"
its all germane, thats the point. if the commentors are entitled to their reactions and right to reply to what i say, why am i not? bc some see what i said more offensive then what she said to me? that is a matter of perspective.
i also, did not tell Mb#2's H to go slap her i told her that i think he should. to that respect, they are completely different actions. i appreciate you advicing me in that department, however i feel that it is more of a danger to tell impressionable "rookie wives" that they have serious problems based on little to no evidence or telling someone to seek "therapy because they are not normal" or that something dark and sinaster is going on... as you said, everything should be taken with a grain of salt, based on that, what do you think is more plausable and more irresponsible? telling someone they deserves to be slapped, or feeding an already upset person negativety and misinformation?
i'm really not trying to be a *** with you, incase that is what you think.. i'm enjoying this and i'de like to point out that i've already stated that 've learned from this little experience, though i dont believe very many can say the same.
not when it comes to violence thats a horrible thing to hope for anyone for any reason, bottom line.
im glad you've learned from the experience, shows ur not completely nuts lol im off to do dinner with FI. have a good night ladies!
Taaka25, you really don't understand how saying you think someone's husband should slap them is different then someone saying they hope you're using birth control? Really? Wow.
ETA: It's advising not advicing.
Ladies, there really is no point. She thanked me for my advice because I phrased things carefully (anyone more outspoken obviously doesn't have anything worthwhile to say), but she still doesn't truly see the huge, in-your-face problems with her and her husband's behaviour. I really think it's screaming into the wind by now.
P.S. A moot point is an arguable point. One of my biggest pet peeves is when people use it to mean an insignificant point. (I sure said point a lot in this post!)
Lol! I knew the moment she wrote she was a law student that it was of the community college criminal justice variety. Aw.
That fact that she doesn't know how to spell the word "argument" was really the decisive factor for me.