Has your BF/SO/H ever asked for a BJ?

bluebirdphoto · November 2011

Totally forgot to reply to the question... yes, I've had one guy ask and it did turn me off a bit, but then I also found it kind of hot. But I like to be dominated along with rough sex sometimes so maybe that's why I liked it?

DakotaDangerDog · November 2011

The only time I think it's not OK for a guy to ask you to do something is if it's something you have done before, didn't like, have NO interest in doing, and yet he still asks. If he wants to talk about trying it again sometime or something that's one thing, but just straight being like LET ME PUT MY *** IN YOUR BUTT RIGHT NOW is not ok. Can you tell I've had experience with this? haha.

If you DO give BJ's from time to time, why would it be an issue for him to ask for that? He likes it when you do it enough to WANT it, so that's really a compliment.

abear2 · November 2011

Usually my man doesn't need to ask. Its one of my favorite things to do. Huge turn on for me.

OnlyaFool · November 2011

DakotaDangerDog:
but just straight being like LET ME PUT MY *** IN YOUR BUTT RIGHT NOW is not ok. Can you tell I've had experience with this? haha.

lol, and Indifferent

BowiesInSpace · November 2011

My XH would joke about BJ Week whenever I was on my period. I just rolled my eyes at him most of the time.

I ask for it from BF occassionally, but he usually takes the initiative. He's never asked me for a BJ, but then, he doesn't really need to.

dmarie979 · November 2011

OnlyaFool:

(I did get and give it this morning though, haha. maybe that's why I'm thinking about it...)

Go Only! Haha!

kjewell · November 2011

OnlyaFool:

kjewell:
Yes, H asks for them ( I am much more apt to give them when he doesn't ask)

Right?

Why do you think this is?

Because I like doing thoughtful considerate things for him that he isn't expecting.

ButternutSquash · November 2011

I think it's something you want to do, too. Asking would turn me off.

In other news, my husband didn't like them so I never did that to him. I haven't had a dyck in my mouth in YEARS.

jm5855 · November 2011

Was really trying to stay out of the BJ talk, but that seems to be dominating this board today so here is my question to the ladies that give BJ's:

Do you ever put Mr Johnson in your mouth immediatley after Mr Johnson has been inside you? Honestly that is one of the hottest moves and intense sensations known to man. Ask your S/O and he will likely confirm that with you. Men have been known to propose after such an act. HAHAHAHAHA

VaaaJeana · November 2011

jm5855:

Do you ever put Mr Johnson in your mouth immediatley after Mr Johnson has been inside you? Honestly that is one of the hottest moves and intense sensations known to man. Ask your S/O and he will likely confirm that with you. Men have been known to propose after such an act. HAHAHAHAHA

Sure. People have hangups over this? Guess I've never really asked around. Haha.

jm5855 · November 2011

Apparently some do....I have had women that would and would not.....so was just curious.

gioia di vivere · November 2011

OnlyaFool:

My point is that if you're not in the mood to give oral, it can be pretty not fun. So I don't want to put my partner in that position, and I appreciate that he doesn't put me in that position either.

asking your partner for oral doesn't mean he/she is obligated to give it.

when we want something, we ask. it works for us.

OnlyaFool · November 2011

gioia di vivere · November 2011

jm5855:

Do you ever put Mr Johnson in your mouth immediatley after Mr Johnson has been inside you? Honestly that is one of the hottest moves and intense sensations known to man. Ask your S/O and he will likely confirm that with you. Men have been known to propose after such an act. HAHAHAHAHA

it gives me the hibbie jibbies that you, as a man, find it appropriate to ask a board full of women this.

OnlyaFool · November 2011

gioia di vivere:
jm5855:

Do you ever put Mr Johnson in your mouth immediatley after Mr Johnson has been inside you? Honestly that is one of the hottest moves and intense sensations known to man. Ask your S/O and he will likely confirm that with you. Men have been known to propose after such an act. HAHAHAHAHA
it gives me the hibbie jibbies that you, as a man, find it appropriate to ask a board full of women this.

god, who cares? There are probably 958,231 things on the internet that would give you the "hibbie jibbies" (sic).

jm5855 · November 2011

gioia di vivere:
jm5855:

Do you ever put Mr Johnson in your mouth immediatley after Mr Johnson has been inside you? Honestly that is one of the hottest moves and intense sensations known to man. Ask your S/O and he will likely confirm that with you. Men have been known to propose after such an act. HAHAHAHAHA

it gives me the hibbie jibbies that you, as a man, find it appropriate to ask a board full of women this.

Fun hating comments always seem to make their way into posts like this...why am I not surprised??? Last time I checked I did not create any of the 3 posts related to BJ's yesterday...and pretty sure all that did create those are women. I am also sure I found the posts to be a nice change of pace and fun.

gioia di vivere · November 2011

OnlyaFool:
gioia di vivere:
jm5855:

Do you ever put Mr Johnson in your mouth immediatley after Mr Johnson has been inside you? Honestly that is one of the hottest moves and intense sensations known to man. Ask your S/O and he will likely confirm that with you. Men have been known to propose after such an act. HAHAHAHAHA
it gives me the hibbie jibbies that you, as a man, find it appropriate to ask a board full of women this.
god, who cares? There are probably 958,231 things on the internet that would give you the "hibbie jibbies" (sic).

of course there are creeptastic things on the internet.

but the nest was traditionally created for women to connect over common experiences in their lives.

SO was created to help women move on from broken relationships. many of the women here are still healing from terrible relationships with addicts, abusers and cheaters; and many of these women are quite vulnerable as a result. This is a safe place for them.

I am all for light-hearted questions woman to woman re: shared experiences, whether those shared experiences are sexual or not. But I am NOT comfortable with some creep searching for masturbation material and asking some of these vulnerable women whether they would be willing to suckadick immediately after it was in theirvag because it is one of the "hottest and most intense sensations known to man."

Ick!

jm5855 · November 2011

gioia di vivere:
OnlyaFool:
gioia di vivere:
jm5855:

Do you ever put Mr Johnson in your mouth immediatley after Mr Johnson has been inside you? Honestly that is one of the hottest moves and intense sensations known to man. Ask your S/O and he will likely confirm that with you. Men have been known to propose after such an act. HAHAHAHAHA

it gives me the hibbie jibbies that you, as a man, find it appropriate to ask a board full of women this.

god, who cares? There are probably 958,231 things on the internet that would give you the "hibbie jibbies" (sic).

of course there are creeptastic things on the internet.

but the nest was traditionally created for women to connect over common experiences in their lives.

SO was created to help women move on from broken relationships. many of the women here are still healing from terrible relationships with addicts, abusers and cheaters; and many of these women are quite vulnerable as a result. This is a safe place for them.

I am all for light-hearted questions woman to woman re: shared experiences, whether those shared experiences are sexual or not. But I am NOT comfortable with some creep searching for masturbation material and asking some of these vulnerable women whether they would be willing to suckadick immediately after it was in theirvag because it is one of the "hottest and most intense sensations known to man."

Flare for the dramatic?

Ok so I can mark you down as a "no" for my original question. Damn I was really hoping to add to my "masturbation material" I really have the urge to run to the men's restroom and jack it to some anonymous person's response to a sexual question I answered on a sexually charged post.

Seriously I would tell you to crawl back to your cave but you are just too much fun and it is slow at work today...so a good debate is what I need. What else ya got?

OnlyaFool · November 2011

gioia di vivere:
OnlyaFool:
gioia di vivere:
jm5855:

Do you ever put Mr Johnson in your mouth immediatley after Mr Johnson has been inside you? Honestly that is one of the hottest moves and intense sensations known to man. Ask your S/O and he will likely confirm that with you. Men have been known to propose after such an act. HAHAHAHAHA
it gives me the hibbie jibbies that you, as a man, find it appropriate to ask a board full of women this.
god, who cares? There are probably 958,231 things on the internet that would give you the "hibbie jibbies" (sic).
of course there are creeptastic things on the internet.
but the nest was traditionally created for women to connect over common experiences in their lives.
SO was created to help women move on from broken relationships. many of the women here are still healing from terrible relationships with addicts, abusers and cheaters; and many of these women are quite vulnerable as a result. This is a safe place for them.

The Nest should hire you to do their advertising Wink

BowiesInSpace · November 2011

gioia di vivere:

of course there are creeptastic things on the internet.

but the nest was traditionally created for women to connect over common experiences in their lives.

SO was created to help women move on from broken relationships. many of the women here are still healing from terrible relationships with addicts, abusers and cheaters; and many of these women are quite vulnerable as a result. This is a safe place for them.

I am all for light-hearted questions woman to woman re: shared experiences, whether those shared experiences are sexual or not. But I am NOT comfortable with some creep searching for masturbation material and asking some of these vulnerable women whether they would be willing to suckadick immediately after it was in theirvag because it is one of the "hottest and most intense sensations known to man."

There are a fair number of men on TN. It was created for couples, not just women (or at least that's how it was marketed back when I first joined). PCE, S&R, and TIP host quite a few men in fact. Sex is even discussed on these boards, though, granted, more probable on S&R than PCE. I think most of the male Nesties are married to other Nesties, but some are engaged and some are single (if I remember correctly). Their presence doesn't creep me out. But, then, I can openly and freely discuss numerous subjects (including *gasp* s-e-x) with my IRL friends regardless of marital status or gender, so the idea of also doing so on a message board doesn't give me the heebie jeebies.

You know, even after coming out of my bad marriage I managed not to sit around and clutch my pearls over things posted on a public forum. But, thanks for speaking for me and assuming I, and others here, are deserving of the delicate-china-doll treatment.

JustTheWayYouAre · November 2011

gioia di vivere:

but the nest was traditionally created for women to connect over common experiences in their lives.

SO was created to help women move on from broken relationships. many of the women here are still healing from terrible relationships with addicts, abusers and cheaters; and many of these women are quite vulnerable as a result. This is a safe place for them.

I am all for light-hearted questions woman to woman re: shared experiences, whether those shared experiences are sexual or not. But I am NOT comfortable with some creep searching for masturbation material and asking some of these vulnerable women whether they would be willing to suckadick immediately after it was in theirvag because it is one of the "hottest and most intense sensations known to man."

As a regular lurker/occasional poster (when I can't keep my mouth shut like right now) you should probably get a better feel for this board before you start posting things like what you just said.

1. You sound completely sexist. Like women are the only ones who could have been abused or have horrible marriages? I know plenty of guys whose wives cheated on them and they were the broken hearted ones who had to get over a bad marriage..

2. JM is a regular on this board and is accepted by everyone as a member of this board. He is not some creeper looking for masturbation material as you put it. Maybe you should ask JM what his story is and why he is on this board before making such harsh judgemental statements.

3. If you do not like what is posted here don't read it. It's simple as that. It's a public internet forum, open to men and women, of all backgrounds and experiences. If you are personally offended by his statements I'm sorry for that but I think you are really taking it in a way that he did not intend it.

OnlyaFool · November 2011

BowiesInSpace:
gioia di vivere:

of course there are creeptastic things on the internet.

but the nest was traditionally created for women to connect over common experiences in their lives.

SO was created to help women move on from broken relationships. many of the women here are still healing from terrible relationships with addicts, abusers and cheaters; and many of these women are quite vulnerable as a result. This is a safe place for them.

I am all for light-hearted questions woman to woman re: shared experiences, whether those shared experiences are sexual or not. But I am NOT comfortable with some creep searching for masturbation material and asking some of these vulnerable women whether they would be willing to suckadick immediately after it was in theirvag because it is one of the "hottest and most intense sensations known to man."

There are a fair number of men on TN. It was created for couples, not just women (or at least that's how it was marketed back when I first joined). PCE, S&R, and TIP host quite a few men in fact. Sex is even discussed on these boards, though, granted, more probable on S&R than PCE. I think most of the male Nesties are married to other Nesties, but some are engaged and some are single (if I remember correctly). Their presence doesn't creep me out. But, then, I can openly and freely discuss numerous subjects (including *gasp* s-e-x) with my IRL friends regardless of marital status or gender, so the idea of also doing so on a message board doesn't give me the heebie jeebies.

You know, even after coming out of my bad marriage I managed not to sit around and clutch my pearls over things posted on a public forum. But, thanks for speaking for me and assuming I, and others here, are deserving of the delicate-china-doll treatment.

As usual, Bowies is more eloquent than I am.

dmarie979 · November 2011

OnlyaFool:
BowiesInSpace:
gioia di vivere:

of course there are creeptastic things on the internet.

but the nest was traditionally created for women to connect over common experiences in their lives.

SO was created to help women move on from broken relationships. many of the women here are still healing from terrible relationships with addicts, abusers and cheaters; and many of these women are quite vulnerable as a result. This is a safe place for them.

I am all for light-hearted questions woman to woman re: shared experiences, whether those shared experiences are sexual or not. But I am NOT comfortable with some creep searching for masturbation material and asking some of these vulnerable women whether they would be willing to suckadick immediately after it was in theirvag because it is one of the "hottest and most intense sensations known to man."

There are a fair number of men on TN. It was created for couples, not just women (or at least that's how it was marketed back when I first joined). PCE, S&R, and TIP host quite a few men in fact. Sex is even discussed on these boards, though, granted, more probable on S&R than PCE. I think most of the male Nesties are married to other Nesties, but some are engaged and some are single (if I remember correctly). Their presence doesn't creep me out. But, then, I can openly and freely discuss numerous subjects (including *gasp* s-e-x) with my IRL friends regardless of marital status or gender, so the idea of also doing so on a message board doesn't give me the heebie jeebies.

You know, even after coming out of my bad marriage I managed not to sit around and clutch my pearls over things posted on a public forum. But, thanks for speaking for me and assuming I, and others here, are deserving of the delicate-china-doll treatment.

As usual, Bowies is more eloquent than I am.

And me as well! Also what JustTheWay added as well. JM is a regular on this board and has actually given me support and advice on NUMEROUS topics including when I was injured from running, a job search, etc. I can honestly say that the only posters I have ever seen have an issue with what JM says is Nesties who don't normally post on SO. And if I did have an issue with what he said, I would say so. Thanks for trying to speak for me, but I don't really need you to.

pbear · November 2011

jm5855:

Was really trying to stay out of the BJ talk, but that seems to be dominating this board today so here is my question to the ladies that give BJ's:

Do you ever put Mr Johnson in your mouth immediatley after Mr Johnson has been inside you? Honestly that is one of the hottest moves and intense sensations known to man. Ask your S/O and he will likely confirm that with you. Men have been known to propose after such an act. HAHAHAHAHA

propose? Oh man I'm doing that tonight!! jk lol

becwheat · November 2011

jm5855:
Was really trying to stay out of the BJ talk, but that seems to be dominating this board today so here is my question to the ladies that give BJ's:

Do you ever put Mr Johnson in your mouth immediatley after Mr Johnson has been inside you? Honestly that is one of the hottest moves and intense sensations known to man. Ask your S/O and he will likely confirm that with you. Men have been known to propose after such an act. HAHAHAHAHA

First off, please ignore the haters!

To answer your question yes, I do this and most of my girlfriends do too. Men love it and it doesnt bother me.

achase123 · November 2011

beccaga16:
jm5855:

Was really trying to stay out of the BJ talk, but that seems to be dominating this board today so here is my question to the ladies that give BJ's:

Do you ever put Mr Johnson in your mouth immediatley after Mr Johnson has been inside you? Honestly that is one of the hottest moves and intense sensations known to man. Ask your S/O and he will likely confirm that with you. Men have been known to propose after such an act. HAHAHAHAHA

First off, please ignore the haters!

To answer your question yes, I do this and most of my girlfriends do too. Men love it and it doesnt bother me.

Yup, been there, done that.

Has your BF/SO/H ever asked for a BJ?

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