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Did anyone else ever speak to or contact the OW?

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Re: Did anyone else ever speak to or contact the OW?

  • imagemarigoldgirl44:

    I did not call anyone when my XH was cheating as is was never anyone I knew and he NEVER came clean on it.

    My question is if he is lying to me about it why should I blame the other woman? I am sure he is lying to her also.  I wonder how many women are involved with men that are lying to them about the status of their marriages.

    Well it would have been difficult for him to lie to her as she knew we had a 1.5 year old baby and were engaged and lived together.  I'm not sure what he could say other than we broke up.  But we know a lot of people that work with her so I can't imagine that would have worked.  Well unless he told everyone we broke up.

    "How often does the other woman get a happy ending?" Chuck Bass, Gossip Girl
  • No, I never contacted the OWomen (because I know it was way more than one). But a funny story - shortly before my divorce was finalized, I went to happy hour with some of my coworkers. I handed the bartender my card to start a tab, and she looked at me quizzically and asked if I had an ex-husband named Bryan. I said no, I have a husband that I'm still married to, but we're separated and in the process of going through a divorce & if you see him, tell him his kids miss him since he hasn't seen them in months named Bryan. Her face turned beet red, she rushed to the back, pulled out her phone, and I'm 100% sure started to call him & biatch him out. My drinks were free that day!

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  • imageachase123:

    Which OW?  There were just too many to contact, in my situation. If I started trying to track them all down and look up everyone who slept with XH while we were married I'd need to quit my job and become a full-time PI.  And I probably still wouldn't be even 1/4 of the way through the list Stick out tongue

    This is the way it was with ex-fi, not worth my time & honestly I did not want to bring myself down to that high school level

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