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Re: Go read this thread, then come back and tell me what you think
I couldn't get this far. I was annoyed after the first few comments. This comment is horrible. Regardless of how people feel about the name or family, that is completely insensitive to people who are experiencing a rough time. I wouldn't wish that upon anyone. I wonder if these people would be commenting this way if they or their close friends or family experienced a m/c. I can't bring myself to read the rest.
Celles, I disagree with swimbike's assessment. I have never seen those people neglect their children. THey are loved, fed, educated, clothed and housed. I don't get the hatred for these people at all. I don't love them, but I don't get hating them because they are different from the mainstream.
A miscarriage, especially a 2nd tri one, is horrible no matter who it happens to. Who cares what they named the baby? Its dead now. So not only are people making fun of an actual baby's name, they are making fun of a dead baby's name. I think that's just plain tacky and mean spirited. It disgusts me.
With this, it's almost beyond that. They're mocking the very existence of that baby in the first place and mocking the death. There's so much "told you so" and "that's what they get for trying to have ANOTHER kid." It sickens me.
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Well said. Team Sarah!
That thread is horrible.
However am I the only one who is shocked that the N word was tossed out and Mery left it alone? I was certain she would have had a friggin coronary over it. Either that or made a long dissertation on why them giving her a Jewish MN (or people having and issue with it) makes them RACIST.
DX: PCOS/Recurrent losses/MTHFR mutation (compound hetero)
5 hysteroscopies/2 surgical
3 Inject IUIs = 2 m/c's and 1 BFN
IVF #1= BFP. m/c at 7w6d. Needed 2 D&C's and scar tissue removal. Mild OHSS
IVF #2 = BFP. Severe OHSS. 4 Drainings. TWINS!
First of all, lolz. So true.
Second, about the n word. I think people weren't making a huge deal out of it since it was a quote taken from a thread on TB? I guess Mery was reserving her dissenting opinions for the baby name.
I dont know, she was pretty laid back in that thread for her.
DX: PCOS/Recurrent losses/MTHFR mutation (compound hetero)
5 hysteroscopies/2 surgical
3 Inject IUIs = 2 m/c's and 1 BFN
IVF #1= BFP. m/c at 7w6d. Needed 2 D&C's and scar tissue removal. Mild OHSS
IVF #2 = BFP. Severe OHSS. 4 Drainings. TWINS!
What Steph said. I am sick of hearing all the "told you sos." That thread was disgusting.
Miscarriage is terrible, and I have seen too many people hurt by it to even wish it on my enemies. I could not imagine going to find out the sex of your baby and then finding out that my baby hadn't made it. That day was one of the most exciting days of my life. It's *** sad for them, and people are assholes.
While I don't agree with their religion, it's what they believe, and who am I to tell another person what to believe or how they choose to live within those beliefs.
ETA- Huh, asterisks. Thanks TN, I had no idea you felt the need to sensor that way.
ETA2- Censor.