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To the poster re:sexting

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Re: To the poster re:sexting

  • Make it stop. Please. Christmas Miracle?
  • I can't believe the sexting thread just rose from the dead. Wtf.

     

  • Do we need ESD to lock this thread too?
  • My favorite part of that is the first eye casually flying out.

     

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  • imageMotzie:

    I can't believe the sexting thread just rose from the dead. Wtf.

     

    I can't believe someone was STUPID enough to make a new damn thread BECAUSE SHE COULDN'T REPLY IN THAT ONE!!! Wouldn't that be a big damn hint that you aren't meant to??

    I swear I think I'm going to have an aneurysm because of that POS.

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  • imageSweetCuppinCakes:
    imageMotzie:

    I can't believe the sexting thread just rose from the dead. Wtf.

     

    I can't believe someone was STUPID enough to make a new damn thread BECAUSE SHE COULDN'T REPLY IN THAT ONE!!! Wouldn't that be a big damn hint that you aren't meant to??

    I swear I think I'm going to have an aneurysm because of that POS.

    I don't know that the amount of stupid needed to repost this is any greater than the amount of stupid needed to tell someone that if their asstastic husband is sexting then it's obviously your own daamn fault.  

    Also, I do not believe in either God or sending dirty messages to people besides my husband, but maybe that's just a coincidence. 

  • imageimoan:

    So not only are these people too dumb to realize 1) how old this post is and 2) that it's locked...

    The advice given is so ludicrous that I'm actually stupider for having read it.

    QFT. Go read the Bible together and he won't cheat on you?

    Um. Yeah, pretty sure that's not going to work.

    The stupid. It burns.

    Oh, FFS.
  • imageHappy_happy_joy_joy:

    OP:  Since you are posting this on the Bump, I'll assume you are pregnant.  What you have to understand is that 68% of people cheat at some point in their relationship.  Whether it is physical or not!  Try reading the bible together and bringing God back into your relationship.  He won't cheat on you if he knows God is watching.

    This + Bliss = BEST TIPMAS EVAR.

     

  • Can ESD lock this one so we can have another spin off of this thread?? please???

     

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  • No. NO. NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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  • I'm totally holding you responsible, ESD.

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  • imageTarponMonoxide:
    Enough is enough.

    He needs to go.

    There is nothing here for you. An affair is an affair -- and no decent happily married man has a "friend" that he sexts. Period.

    WOW!  I feel sorry for your husband.  Hope he never makes a MISTAKE!  Haven't you ever heard of "TIL DEATH DO YOU PART"???

  • image+Black Kitty+:

    imageTarponMonoxide:
    Enough is enough.

    He needs to go.

    There is nothing here for you. An affair is an affair -- and no decent happily married man has a "friend" that he sexts. Period.

    WOW!  I feel sorry for your husband.  Hope he never makes a MISTAKE!  Haven't you ever heard of "TIL DEATH DO YOU PART"???

    Oh FFS. Go away.

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  • And there it is, folks. "I feel sorry for your husband!" Where's the part calling everyone bitter old hags? I feel so cheated.

     

    Oh, FFS.
  • image+Black Kitty+:

    imageTarponMonoxide:
    Enough is enough.

    He needs to go.

    There is nothing here for you. An affair is an affair -- and no decent happily married man has a "friend" that he sexts. Period.

    WOW!  I feel sorry for your husband.  Hope he never makes a MISTAKE!  Haven't you ever heard of "TIL DEATH DO YOU PART"???

    Don't worry. My husband will be just fine with his not fvvcking around on me and all. 

  • imageLadyLissame:

    imageInterrobang:
    Head, meet desk. 
    Agreed.

    Its not her job to keep her husband faithful. He needs to be faithful or end the marriage. Cheating is the same as being a coward. Worse even.

     

    Yeah my thoughts exactly. She shouldn't have to change to make him stay faithful, he should be doing that on his own. The decision to cheat is one that he made himself consciously, and no amount of changing would ever get him to stop if that's what he wanted to do. If someone is being cheated on the only change they need to make is to stop being a doormat, stand up for themselves, and tell their "partner" that they will not stand to be made a fool out of. Then they can either give the other person the chance to stop their behaviour and put in the work to rebuild trust and respect that they obviously never had or had lost for their SO. Or they can walk away from the person and find someone who is worthy of having their love, admiration, and presence in their life.

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  • imageaeroprincess87:
    imageLadyLissame:

    imageInterrobang:
    Head, meet desk. 
    Agreed.

    Its not her job to keep her husband faithful. He needs to be faithful or end the marriage. Cheating is the same as being a coward. Worse even.

     

    Yeah my thoughts exactly. She shouldn't have to change to make him stay faithful, he should be doing that on his own. The decision to cheat is one that he made himself consciously, and no amount of changing would ever get him to stop if that's what he wanted to do. If someone is being cheated on the only change they need to make is to stop being a doormat, stand up for themselves, and tell their "partner" that they will not stand to be made a fool out of. Then they can either give the other person the chance to stop their behaviour and put in the work to rebuild trust and respect that they obviously never had or had lost for their SO. Or they can walk away from the person and find someone who is worthy of having their love, admiration, and presence in their life.

    Y'all the thread in question was from 2010. Let it die!

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  • imageaeroprincess87:
    imageLadyLissame:

    imageInterrobang:
    Head, meet desk. 
    Agreed.

    Its not her job to keep her husband faithful. He needs to be faithful or end the marriage. Cheating is the same as being a coward. Worse even.

     

    Yeah my thoughts exactly. She shouldn't have to change to make him stay faithful, he should be doing that on his own. The decision to cheat is one that he made himself consciously, and no amount of changing would ever get him to stop if that's what he wanted to do. If someone is being cheated on the only change they need to make is to stop being a doormat, stand up for themselves, and tell their "partner" that they will not stand to be made a fool out of. Then they can either give the other person the chance to stop their behaviour and put in the work to rebuild trust and respect that they obviously never had or had lost for their SO. Or they can walk away from the person and find someone who is worthy of having their love, admiration, and presence in their life.

    I'm rather disappointed to have been quoted by people who missed the point so completely. Sigh.  

  • imageInterrobang:
    imageaeroprincess87:
    imageLadyLissame:

    imageInterrobang:
    Head, meet desk. 
    Agreed.

    Its not her job to keep her husband faithful. He needs to be faithful or end the marriage. Cheating is the same as being a coward. Worse even.

     

    Yeah my thoughts exactly. She shouldn't have to change to make him stay faithful, he should be doing that on his own. The decision to cheat is one that he made himself consciously, and no amount of changing would ever get him to stop if that's what he wanted to do. If someone is being cheated on the only change they need to make is to stop being a doormat, stand up for themselves, and tell their "partner" that they will not stand to be made a fool out of. Then they can either give the other person the chance to stop their behaviour and put in the work to rebuild trust and respect that they obviously never had or had lost for their SO. Or they can walk away from the person and find someone who is worthy of having their love, admiration, and presence in their life.

    I'm rather disappointed to have been quoted by people who missed the point so completely. Sigh.  

    I saw that and was like not... what... she... oh fvvck it.

  • *Sits in the corner rocking back and forth while crying*

    MAKE IT DON'T!!!!

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  • image+Black Kitty+:

    imageTarponMonoxide:
    Enough is enough.

    He needs to go.

    There is nothing here for you. An affair is an affair -- and no decent happily married man has a "friend" that he sexts. Period.

    WOW!  I feel sorry for your husband.  Hope he never makes a MISTAKE!  Haven't you ever heard of "TIL DEATH DO YOU PART"???

    Indifferent

    Okay...time to 'fess up. You're a regular who's just fuucking with us, right?

    ...RIGHT? 

  • imageimoan:

    So not only are these people too dumb to realize 1) how old this post is and 2) that it's locked...

    The advice given is so ludicrous that I'm actually stupider for having read it.

    It's the trifecta of stupid. Why be too dumb to read the date or understand the post is locked when you could also give the worlds stupidest shittiest advice? Clearly a lack of common sense permeates many aspects of her life....
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  • imageSweetCuppinCakes:

    *Sits in the corner rocking back and forth while crying*

    MAKE IT DON'T!!!!

    Do it, SCC. DO IT!!! DO IT!!!!!!!

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