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Re: FFFC
Sorry Mint. After tonight's Megamillions drawing i will be a gazillionaire and will hire you to give me legal advice. Deal?
Hahaha I can't help it! I am unstoppably bold lately. And I hate that b!tch.
Wow - sorry to hear that.. but sounds like it might be for the best!
HAAA! OMG I think I love you...LOL
I actually have something lined up (score for fam business!) but I'm waiting to get the financing in order. Hoping they fire me so I can get some unemployment until then. Azzzholes!
This is seriously awesome! You're two for two with your stories today, Kipper! Keep 'em coming!!!!
You can hire me to be your personal shopper--I'm better at that than legal advice!
Fine, just go easy on all the cowboy attire. LOL
Hugs to you. Sending positive vibes your way.
((hugs)) to you nyg&p. Please keep us posted...you're in my thoughts!
My FFFC? All the wedding planning has me so stressed out, that I'm seriously toying with the idea of saying screwitall and getting married when we go to Vegas...in 2 months. FF is completely on board with the idea as well.
Do it! That's totally my plan for the second time around (if it happens) as well. But then again I LOVE me some Vegas!
I have a friend that did this. The pictures turned out great and I think it looked even more awesome than it would have had she thrown the big wedding with family.
So sorry about the possible m/c
I want children badly, too and I know it would be devistating to me. Best wishes 
My FFFC is that I'm entertaining the idea of hanging out with said boy who was clinging to my hip because I really liked all of his friends. We've been texting on and off the past week and I do like him as a person, I just think he's slightly agressive and I told him I wasn't ready. So in the case that I will go see him tomorrow, I bought a new outfit. CUTE skirt and top and I'm totally thrilled because the skirt is a size 11, and I haven't been in that size in over 12 years. Yay.
I'm not making it a serious thing, but to go down and drink with the boys and my bff, and get my mind off of the crap at home with XBF, it's not so bad. Friends. Not lovers.
nyg&p....so sorry! Hugs coming your way!
And kipper, the cupcake story kills me!
My fffc? I was inwardly judgy while I was at the animal shelter. The people who adopted the puppy I wanted were very poorly dressed, had a baby with them and obviously didn't know anything about pit bulls or puppies in general. I wanted to scream at them "don't adopt the damnn puppy because he is "cute" when you don't know how to raise it! I could do a better job than you!". I obviously didn't do this but it makes me sad.
3/12 5 mi -- 49:22 Pace: 9:52
5/1 Half Marathon -- 2:11:22 Pace: 10:01
5/22 10k -- 56:29 Pace: 9:00
5/24 3.6 -- 29:03 Pace: 8:18
7/10 15k -- 1:44:46 injured Pace: 11:14
10/29 5k -- 28:24 Pace: 9:04
Sorry to hear that, nyg&p.
XFI paid for everything for me, too (and had the $ to do so), and I got spoiled with it...I get a little unreasonably upset that BF is more of a 50/50-type guy.
My FFFC...I misjudged and f'ed up big-time posting on TIP the other day...I realize now that what I posted was not a good idea (and I didn't state it clearly in the first place, which just made it worse), and I tried to apologize for it, but I still feel like the whole interwebz is mad at me. Boo.
Awwww hugs to you scooby!!! I haven't been on TN much lately so I didn't see it but I'm sure it wasn't that bad. And either way, things blow over quick on the interwebz
Oh, trust me. It was that bad. It was a major error in judgement on my part. I do hope it blows over eventually.
Do it!!!!!!
My FFFC is that I want to flame some of you for your confessions! lol
And also I haven't had sex in 6 weeks and I think that is the longest I've gone in like at least 10 years
I'm going on 11 weeks and have resorted to the explicit emails/video clips for any sort of action. I'm also subjected to another 9 weeks before I'll get any sort of action.
It's been over 4 months for me. I used to think it wouldn't bother me at all to not be getting it regularly and now I can't get over how badly I want it. I feel like a teenage boy, it's kind of embarrassing, lol.
If it is me, feel free. I can take it
3/12 5 mi -- 49:22 Pace: 9:52
5/1 Half Marathon -- 2:11:22 Pace: 10:01
5/22 10k -- 56:29 Pace: 9:00
5/24 3.6 -- 29:03 Pace: 8:18
7/10 15k -- 1:44:46 injured Pace: 11:14
10/29 5k -- 28:24 Pace: 9:04
I've been saying -- for weeks -- that this whole "flame free" thing is a total snoozefest!
So we beat on, boats against the current, borne back ceaselessly into the past.
So let's do a FFC then too!
3/12 5 mi -- 49:22 Pace: 9:52
5/1 Half Marathon -- 2:11:22 Pace: 10:01
5/22 10k -- 56:29 Pace: 9:00
5/24 3.6 -- 29:03 Pace: 8:18
7/10 15k -- 1:44:46 injured Pace: 11:14
10/29 5k -- 28:24 Pace: 9:04
ha ha, not you
Ditto!! I think a part of me actually enjoys it!!
Oh, I am sure that I am thinking the same thing. There is someone in particular that I want to call out, not to flame, but because I am genuinely concerned. Not sure how it would be received so I keep my mouth shut.
3/12 5 mi -- 49:22 Pace: 9:52
5/1 Half Marathon -- 2:11:22 Pace: 10:01
5/22 10k -- 56:29 Pace: 9:00
5/24 3.6 -- 29:03 Pace: 8:18
7/10 15k -- 1:44:46 injured Pace: 11:14
10/29 5k -- 28:24 Pace: 9:04
LOL, not you either.. I know you can handle a good flamin'
Dude, I am very judgey about how people talk to victims of DV. I think most people have no clue what its like and say really damaging things without realizing. However, I felt like what you said could have been taken more than one way and it was interpreted poorly by people on the board. I didn't think you were saying it was her fault, I felt like you were pointing out how overall dysfunctional their relationship is and why she needs to walk away. It's easy to misinterpret or explain yourself poorly on the interwebs.