FFFC

Re: FFFC

• turtle1120

  March 2012

  dmarie979:

  pdx18:

  Agreed! I want to flame people and I want to see the flames. We need to spice it up over here. Honestly there have been too many puppies and rainbows these days when I think some people really need a bit of a kick in the pants. But because everyone is being so nice I feel like I'll totally be the "mean" one even though I know some of you are thinking the same thing

  Oh, I am sure that I am thinking the same thing. There is someone in particular that I want to call out, not to flame, but because I am genuinely concerned. Not sure how it would be received so I keep my mouth shut.

  I doubt it's me since my life is so lame that I don't even have a confession!

  Do it!!!!  It's Friday and I'm bored!  LOL

  ***Gets out the marshmallows in anticipation of the big flames***

  

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• UDscoobychick member

  

  March 2012

  kellbell1919:

  UDscoobychick:

  DakotaDangerDog:

  UDscoobychick:

  Sorry to hear that, nyg&p.

  XFI paid for everything for me, too (and had the $ to do so), and I got spoiled with it...I get a little unreasonably upset that BF is more of a 50/50-type guy.

  My FFFC...I misjudged and f'ed up big-time posting on TIP the other day...I realize now that what I posted was not a good idea (and I didn't state it clearly in the first place, which just made it worse), and I tried to apologize for it, but I still feel like the whole interwebz is mad at me.  Boo.

   Awwww hugs to you scooby!!! I haven't been on TN much lately so I didn't see it but I'm sure it wasn't that bad.  And either way, things blow over quick on the interwebz  
  

  Oh, trust me.  It was that bad.  It was a major error in judgement on my part.  I do hope it blows over eventually.

  Dude, I am very judgey about how people talk to victims of DV.  I think most people have no clue what its like and say really damaging things without realizing.  However, I felt like what you said could have been taken more than one way and it was interpreted poorly by people on the board.  I didn't think you were saying it was her fault, I felt like you were pointing out how overall dysfunctional their relationship is and why she needs to walk away.  It's easy to misinterpret or explain yourself poorly on the interwebs.
  

  Thanks, Kellbell, I do appreciate that.

  Brownies and Blondies
  

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• JellymanKelly

  March 2012

  Met up with old friend/new FWB/guy I'm sort of seeing (I have no idea how to define it) tonight. XH came into town and after I took DS to an event and made sure everyone was safe and sound at XH's hotel, I texted "the guy" to see if I could drop by. Last weekend when we went out, there were NO sparks. Tonight? Freaking fireworks. I have no idea what this is. Are we FWB? Fine with me. Is this going to be "something"? I might be ok with that too. I am just REALLY enjoying myself right now, no matter what it is. I'm feeling all sparkly right now. It has been tooooooo long.

  She's crafty - and she's just my type.

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• JellymanKelly

  March 2012

  PrettyInPearls23:

   My FFFC? All the wedding planning has me so stressed out, that I'm seriously toying with the idea of saying screwitall and getting married when we go to Vegas...in 2 months. FF is completely on board with the idea as well.

   

  This is precisely why I got married in Vegas the first time around. Highly recommend it. 

  She's crafty - and she's just my type.

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