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Re: Let's talk childbirth...
Landon turned at 35 weeks & I know plenty of people who had babies turn later than that.
With the IUGR, get a second opinion if you can. They took Landon early because they said he was IUGR and only 5.5 lbs/16-17 inches long....And he was 6 lbs 4 oz & 19.25 inches long so he did not need to be taken early! Just an fyi!
What I've been told/understand is that an epidural (spinal) for c-section is a lot "stronger" than a regular epidural. Considering they are doing surgery, obviously you wouldn't want to be feeling them make the incision etc. I literally couldn't feel anything from mid-chest down. When they were taking her out and working down at the incision you just feel pressure. It's a weird sensation, knowing that they are doing all that and you don't really feel any of it. Hope that makes sense..
#1-BFP 08-22-09 ~ M/C 08-31-09 at 5 weeks 6 days
#2-BFP 08-6-11 ~ Due 04/18 ~ born via c-section April 22, 2012
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Sorry, late to the game, but had to comment.
I had an epi. I went into labor at 8:09 in the morning, saw my doctor for my 39 week appt at 10:30, went back into my doctor at 4:45 after laboring at home. Checked into the hospital a 5:30, Got my epi at 6:30-ish, KR came at 8:45.
It. was. heaven. I internalize a lot of things-so when I was having contractions, I would hold my breath, which is NOT good for the babe. My contractions were less than a minute apart, so I wasn't really resting. Right after I had my epi I threw up, but after that I was golden.
My doctor was the one that gave me the epi, he literally gave me a perfect amount, I knew the moment I needed to push-no problems there.
I was walking about 20 minutes after KR was born.
Where he stuck the needle in was sore for about 3 weeks-It bothered me, like a really bad bruise. I don't feel anything now though.
All in all, after KR was born, I was ready to have another baby immediately, birth wasn't that bad.
That parenting stuff, that's the hard part.
I say go into it with an open mind. I communicated with my doctor what I wanted. I didn't have a birth plan beyond "Hells yeah I want that large needle in my back if it means that I can relax!"
If anything, my life is the picture perfect example of the quote "the best laid plans of mice and men often go astray"