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Re: UO Thursday
I think she is talking about primaries. Also, I'm lost on the whole drunk driving metaphor too.
TTC since 1/13 DX:PCOS 5/13 (long, anovulatory cycles)

Clomid 50mg 9/13 = BFP! EDD 6/7/14 M/C 5w6d Found 11/4/13
1/14 PCOS / Gluten Free Diet to hopefully regulate my system.
Chemical Pregnancy 03/14
Surprise BFP 6/14, Beta #1: 126 Beta #2: 340 Stick baby, stick! EDD 2/17/15
Riley Elaine born 2/16/15
TTC 2.0 6/15
Chemical Pregnancy 9/15
Chemical Pregnancy 6/16
BFP 9/16 EDD 6/3/17
Beta #1: 145 Beta #2: 376 Beta #3: 2,225 Beta #4: 4,548
www.5yearstonever.blogspot.com
DE IVF ER - 12/2/2016 (17R/10F = 8 frosties); FET 1.0 (1/27/2017) - BFP 6dp5dt (EDD 10/16/2017)
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TTC since 1/13 DX:PCOS 5/13 (long, anovulatory cycles)

Clomid 50mg 9/13 = BFP! EDD 6/7/14 M/C 5w6d Found 11/4/13
1/14 PCOS / Gluten Free Diet to hopefully regulate my system.
Chemical Pregnancy 03/14
Surprise BFP 6/14, Beta #1: 126 Beta #2: 340 Stick baby, stick! EDD 2/17/15
Riley Elaine born 2/16/15
TTC 2.0 6/15
Chemical Pregnancy 9/15
Chemical Pregnancy 6/16
BFP 9/16 EDD 6/3/17
Beta #1: 145 Beta #2: 376 Beta #3: 2,225 Beta #4: 4,548
www.5yearstonever.blogspot.com
To make you feel my love.
"I DO NOT love that you think so many things revolve around you. I know you're bitter. I get it. But I'm over your feelings." The best person on the internet ever!
TTC since 1/13 DX:PCOS 5/13 (long, anovulatory cycles)

Clomid 50mg 9/13 = BFP! EDD 6/7/14 M/C 5w6d Found 11/4/13
1/14 PCOS / Gluten Free Diet to hopefully regulate my system.
Chemical Pregnancy 03/14
Surprise BFP 6/14, Beta #1: 126 Beta #2: 340 Stick baby, stick! EDD 2/17/15
Riley Elaine born 2/16/15
TTC 2.0 6/15
Chemical Pregnancy 9/15
Chemical Pregnancy 6/16
BFP 9/16 EDD 6/3/17
Beta #1: 145 Beta #2: 376 Beta #3: 2,225 Beta #4: 4,548
www.5yearstonever.blogspot.com
TTC since 1/13 DX:PCOS 5/13 (long, anovulatory cycles)

Clomid 50mg 9/13 = BFP! EDD 6/7/14 M/C 5w6d Found 11/4/13
1/14 PCOS / Gluten Free Diet to hopefully regulate my system.
Chemical Pregnancy 03/14
Surprise BFP 6/14, Beta #1: 126 Beta #2: 340 Stick baby, stick! EDD 2/17/15
Riley Elaine born 2/16/15
TTC 2.0 6/15
Chemical Pregnancy 9/15
Chemical Pregnancy 6/16
BFP 9/16 EDD 6/3/17
Beta #1: 145 Beta #2: 376 Beta #3: 2,225 Beta #4: 4,548
www.5yearstonever.blogspot.com

"You know you're in love when you don't want to fall asleep because reality is finally better than your dreams." - Dr. SeussTTC since 1/13 DX:PCOS 5/13 (long, anovulatory cycles)

Clomid 50mg 9/13 = BFP! EDD 6/7/14 M/C 5w6d Found 11/4/13
1/14 PCOS / Gluten Free Diet to hopefully regulate my system.
Chemical Pregnancy 03/14
Surprise BFP 6/14, Beta #1: 126 Beta #2: 340 Stick baby, stick! EDD 2/17/15
Riley Elaine born 2/16/15
TTC 2.0 6/15
Chemical Pregnancy 9/15
Chemical Pregnancy 6/16
BFP 9/16 EDD 6/3/17
Beta #1: 145 Beta #2: 376 Beta #3: 2,225 Beta #4: 4,548
www.5yearstonever.blogspot.com
If you had a choice would you pick a minimum wage job and be on assistance or a higher paying job assistance free? Most people would choose the latter.
You keep saying you're not sheltered, but you just made an argument that said where you're from people can do it. You are consistently contradicting yourself.
TTC#2 4/14
A Parachute in an Oak Tree: A World of Love
TTC since 1/13 DX:PCOS 5/13 (long, anovulatory cycles)

Clomid 50mg 9/13 = BFP! EDD 6/7/14 M/C 5w6d Found 11/4/13
1/14 PCOS / Gluten Free Diet to hopefully regulate my system.
Chemical Pregnancy 03/14
Surprise BFP 6/14, Beta #1: 126 Beta #2: 340 Stick baby, stick! EDD 2/17/15
Riley Elaine born 2/16/15
TTC 2.0 6/15
Chemical Pregnancy 9/15
Chemical Pregnancy 6/16
BFP 9/16 EDD 6/3/17
Beta #1: 145 Beta #2: 376 Beta #3: 2,225 Beta #4: 4,548
www.5yearstonever.blogspot.com
You're claiming that you need to watch your goddamn back b/c you're sooooooo liberal in you backwoods Limbaugh loving BFE town? Pull your head out of your ass, do some research on what the world is like for those who can't "get out of debt and have toy cars via the Dave Ramsey method" and get the hell over yourself.
It would at least be less disingenuous if you just came out and said that you think you're better than everyone else.
ETA: rage mixed with fat fingers = typos.
To make you feel my love.
TTC since 1/13 DX:PCOS 5/13 (long, anovulatory cycles)

Clomid 50mg 9/13 = BFP! EDD 6/7/14 M/C 5w6d Found 11/4/13
1/14 PCOS / Gluten Free Diet to hopefully regulate my system.
Chemical Pregnancy 03/14
Surprise BFP 6/14, Beta #1: 126 Beta #2: 340 Stick baby, stick! EDD 2/17/15
Riley Elaine born 2/16/15
TTC 2.0 6/15
Chemical Pregnancy 9/15
Chemical Pregnancy 6/16
BFP 9/16 EDD 6/3/17
Beta #1: 145 Beta #2: 376 Beta #3: 2,225 Beta #4: 4,548
www.5yearstonever.blogspot.com
Also, you're argument is collapsing on itself. "You get as good of employees as you pay for" so CEOs should earn BILLIONS because they carry "all the risk" and employees have nothing to lose. How very wrong you are. Maybe financially the CEOs carry all the risk, but employee's lives rest on their salaries. If a CEO gets fired or loses their job they have something to fall back on in savings. A minimum wage employee loses their job and they are screwed. Minimum wage employees has no risk? Where do you get this stuff? The employees have ALL of the risk.
TTC#2 4/14
A Parachute in an Oak Tree: A World of Love
"I DO NOT love that you think so many things revolve around you. I know you're bitter. I get it. But I'm over your feelings." The best person on the internet ever!
Brij sweetie, if you prove that the employee is not doing their job or is in the wrong, they will not receive employment benefits. You just have to document things. Unemployment is for people that are laid off or just terminated. Sure, somemay make it work, but it is a percentage of your pay and only for a limited time.
Also, as someone who works with individuals with mental health and substance use issues (also low income) please don't equate low pay/government benefits with alcoholics. It could be interpreted as really hurtful.
I think you have a good heart, and it is great that you help others, but more education is definitely needed.
Cinnabun and Junebug say, "Go Wildcats!"
TTC#2 4/14
A Parachute in an Oak Tree: A World of Love
Sorry @Apollo11235, but I've gotta call you out on this. You can't say that all employers don't do that. I'm a business owner and I strongly believe in compensating my employees for their good work. One of the guys I hired in August has received three 10% raises since he's been here. Now, there's another employee of mine that is doing the bare minimum so he hasn't gotten a raise and is on his way out the door if he doesn't take this last warning he just received to heart.
Some people can do that. Some people. Please refer back to my precious posts. If I wouldn't have gotten student loans (which I'm no where CLOSE to paying off even with my doctorate degree) or credit cards, we wouldn't have eaten for 3 years. And we were blessed to have family that helped us when we needed some months too. Rage. This went from me getting that you want a discussion to remembering your ignorance that is continuing to fuel your ridiculous fire.
2. I have conflicting views on the minimum wage myself. Based on my experiences as an employee and working for a small business.
3. I am in Washington state and our minimum wage is almost $10 already (it goes up each year) and the city of Seattle is going to up the minimum to $15.
It will be interesting to see what happens.
I worked for a while in HR (I am still in HR) for a smallish family owned retail company.
They ran a number of stores and paid above minimum wage, though not significantly above minimum wage (to start - after a couple years or with a promotion it was much more money). And they offered benefits to FT people (and they had mostly FT retail employees).
Anyway, the way that the stores worked was that the manager had a budget for labor. A dollar amount.
So if minimum wage goes to $15, then that manager is not going to be able to give the employees there very many hours. This will reduce the number of employees and/or reduce people from 40 hours to 20 or 30. Which will mean less people working and less hours for those who do work. And possibly make some employees not eligible for benefits.
Maybe it will work out - maybe those with reduced hours can get a second job somewhere else and make up the difference. Maybe those who loose their jobs will find other work, maybe those who loose their benefits will have enough money to buy their own benefits on the exchange. I don't know. But maybe it will hurt people as well.
I do think some businesses will close, others will automate jobs (checkout at the grocery store anyone?). And I think there will be less hours/jobs overall for unskilled labor. Just my guess.
When you've been married this long, you need a ticker to remind you.
Baby Boy M - 08/01/2013
When you've been married this long, you need a ticker to remind you.
Baby Boy M - 08/01/2013
Baby Boy born 5.3.15