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Republican debates tonight

Who's watching? I am. Just starting on ABC news.
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Re: Republican debates tonight

  • There's much more substance with less people on stage.
  • I totally missed both debates this week. Fail.
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  • I heard it was bad for Rubio and the intro was bad but I haven't watched it.
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  • Cats - there is a thread about the debate on the political board as well
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  • vlagrl29 said:
    Cats - there is a thread about the debate on the political board as well
    Thanks! Just spotted it. I made one here because of the volume of people and it's a hot topic. Seems quiet here though lately. Super Bowl lol
  • I'm really liking Rubio and John Kasich!
  • I still have to watch it. I wait until a few days later & watch them on youtube, then I don't have to watch any commercials.

    @catsareniice1 I live in Ohio and will say this about Kasich. How he "balanced" things in Ohio is by cutting much of the state support to local schools & cities. So in turn the cities and schools have had to go to the ballots asking for levies to be passed. And what choice do we have but to pass them because we want to keep our schools going well and we want to keep our fire & police crews going along with basic city repairs.  So as a state, the numbers are looking great. But as residents, even though our state taxes as he claims have gone done, my local taxes have gone up. If he is elected president, how I predict he will balance the budget is by cutting funding to many organizations and cut federal funding to states & cities. When funding to states & cities are cut, they go to the citizens and raise their local & property taxes.

  • Erikan73 said:

    I still have to watch it. I wait until a few days later & watch them on youtube, then I don't have to watch any commercials.

    @catsareniice1 I live in Ohio and will say this about Kasich. How he "balanced" things in Ohio is by cutting much of the state support to local schools & cities. So in turn the cities and schools have had to go to the ballots asking for levies to be passed. And what choice do we have but to pass them because we want to keep our schools going well and we want to keep our fire & police crews going along with basic city repairs.  So as a state, the numbers are looking great. But as residents, even though our state taxes as he claims have gone done, my local taxes have gone up. If he is elected president, how I predict he will balance the budget is by cutting funding to many organizations and cut federal funding to states & cities. When funding to states & cities are cut, they go to the citizens and raise their local & property taxes.

    wow.  thanks for the insight on that.  To be honest, that's what I see as the major problem with taxes and all parties/candidates plans.  Every single one will impact things at one level, then have an impact on all levels, and in the end we will pay the same or more.  
  • my husband doesn't let me watch the Republican debates anymore....I think he's fed up with me yelling at the tv! hahaha
  • Still undecided here. No one is impressing me of who's left
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    vlagrl29 said:
    Still undecided here. No one is impressing me of who's left
    Ditto this....and if I feel close to liking someone, I always change my mind over and over. Ugh. I think the 1 guy I can say that I would have a good feeling about Carson, but people don't feel he's tough enough so not sure how much longer he's going to last. I do feel  like he's a good honest man though. I'm trying open my mind to someone who hasn't been a politician, but I don't know....I was liking Trump (Mr. Businessman) in the beginning but he's really scaring me off big time...I feel like he would get the US into a lot of trouble with his big rotten mouth....
  • vlagrl29 said:
    Still undecided here. No one is impressing me of who's left
    Ditto this....and if I feel close to liking someone, I always change my mind over and over. Ugh. I think the 1 guy I can say that I would have a good feeling about Carson, but people don't feel he's tough enough so not sure how much longer he's going to last. I do feel  like he's a good honest man though. I'm trying open my mind to someone who hasn't been a politician, but I don't know....I was liking Trump (Mr. Businessman) in the beginning but he's really scaring me off big time...I feel like he would get the US into a lot of trouble with his big rotten mouth....
    I was liking Rand Paul but he dropped out.  
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  • Erikan73 said:

    I still have to watch it. I wait until a few days later & watch them on youtube, then I don't have to watch any commercials.

    @catsareniice1 I live in Ohio and will say this about Kasich. How he "balanced" things in Ohio is by cutting much of the state support to local schools & cities. So in turn the cities and schools have had to go to the ballots asking for levies to be passed. And what choice do we have but to pass them because we want to keep our schools going well and we want to keep our fire & police crews going along with basic city repairs.  So as a state, the numbers are looking great. But as residents, even though our state taxes as he claims have gone done, my local taxes have gone up. If he is elected president, how I predict he will balance the budget is by cutting funding to many organizations and cut federal funding to states & cities. When funding to states & cities are cut, they go to the citizens and raise their local & property taxes.

    wow.  thanks for the insight on that.  To be honest, that's what I see as the major problem with taxes and all parties/candidates plans.  Every single one will impact things at one level, then have an impact on all levels, and in the end we will pay the same or more.  

    I've been thinking about this thread for a few days. But here on MM, isn't this the basic principle of saving money and/or cutting spending? For those of us who want lower taxes and limited government, this is exactly what would have to happen. Also, to cut the U.S., debt this sort of stuff is exactly what would have to happen. The federal government would make cuts in spending and turn those issues to the individual states. In turn, the states can handle things or they can pass items on to the cities and counties within their borders to handle things.

    While it stinks that education had cuts in Ohio, Kasich (and I'm not his supporter, I just understand what he did) and others like him give the decisions BACK TO the local governments and citizens.

    I used to live in Northeastern Ohio, actually, in one of the out-skirting suburbs of the eastern side of Cleveland. Up until last year, my parents lived in the home I grew up in, in one of the best school districts in the state. By cutting education, and probably other things that could be handled at the city, township, or county level, the Ohio State government DID cut their debts.

    I actually think it's totally fair to allow the local government and their citizens decide via votes in levies or otherwise when, how, and where to spend their money.

    On a federal level...

    Either here on MM and/or at P&CE, there has been discussion about the turtle tunnels in Florida being paid for with federal dollars. IF that decision had gone back to the state of Florida for a vote of Floridians, then those voters could decide whether or not to build the tunnels. Why should people in Ohio, by way of their tax dollars, pay for turtle tunnels, that will NOT affect those people in Ohio? If Floridians want the tunnels, let them get the issue on the ballot and take it to a vote. If it passes, then the state could figure out a way to pay for the tunnels.

    If here in Minnesota, we want to build moose bridges, should a person in Texas pay for that?

    I don't think so. States should have the ability and the rights to do what is relevant and right for their regional needs and desires. And, those regional or state issues do not need to be paid for at a federal level.

    Also, local and state governments do a way better job of handling their citizens' needs than the federal government. The educational needs of Vermont are very different than the needs of West Virginia.

    I support Kasich's ideas and cuts to the spending in Ohio (but I don't support him as a candidate). It makes absolute sense. And, if anybody is actually serious about cutting spending in their own family or in this nation, then this is exactly what has to happen. The voting locales need to decide IF they want stuff in their schools and cities.


  • I support Kasich's ideas and cuts to the spending in Ohio (but I don't support him as a candidate). It makes absolute sense. And, if anybody is actually serious about cutting spending in their own family or in this nation, then this is exactly what has to happen. The voting locales need to decide IF they want stuff in their schools and cities.
    Oh they want stuff.  They just want someone else to pay for it.
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  • Unless you're Flint. Michigan. You try to save money, but by doing this you end up poisoning everyone with lead in the process. Balancing a municipality budget vs balancing your check book is like comparing parallel parking your car to landing on the moon.   
  • well aren't you paying for it regardless if it comes out of your property taxes or federal taxes. Personally I wouldn't want my property taxes going sky high because they are high enough already and most of it is for education.
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  • jtmh2012 said:

    I support Kasich's ideas and cuts to the spending in Ohio (but I don't support him as a candidate). It makes absolute sense. And, if anybody is actually serious about cutting spending in their own family or in this nation, then this is exactly what has to happen. The voting locales need to decide IF they want stuff in their schools and cities.
    Oh they want stuff.  They just want someone else to pay for it.

    Yep. The politicians and leaders who do the hard stuff and cut costs or pass them onto local governments get the bad wraps. But, anybody here who is MM (truly) in their own lives would see that the same things apply on a greater scale to the government.

    Lots of people in California want stuff and they've gotten stuff and now Cali is in serious debt trouble.

    When does it stop, or at least when can the appetites of the people be satisfied enough to realize we just cannot afford some things?



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    vlagrl29 said:
    well aren't you paying for it regardless if it comes out of your property taxes or federal taxes. Personally I wouldn't want my property taxes going sky high because they are high enough already and most of it is for education.

    Yes, but if it's at the local level, you have more control of it as a citizen and voter. You can vote and/or get directly involved in the process to sway peoples' votes in whatever direction you prefer. You have no say over Moose Bridges in Minnesota if that's what the federal government says.

    Plus, if a local government has control and therefore the local voters do as well, there's more up in your face to the politicians who spend the citizens' tax dollars. There is more accountability for the management of funds.

    Also, I think there's some psychology in this too. Isn't it a lot easier to justify an expenditure if you have $4.1 Billion at your disposal versus if you have only $100,000 at your disposal? People tend to be more frugal when the number they see makes more "sense." It's hard to mentally comprehend how much money $4.1 billion is actually. It seems limitless. And, with big numbers like that at the federal level goes the attitude, "Oh, well we've got enough, we can do this."

    I know property taxes rising isn't great, (ours just went up this year), but I'd much rather have that and see the accountable faces of my local politicians, then have the ever increasing federal debt that is creating problems for the near and distant future of our country.



  • jtmh2012 said:

    I support Kasich's ideas and cuts to the spending in Ohio (but I don't support him as a candidate). It makes absolute sense. And, if anybody is actually serious about cutting spending in their own family or in this nation, then this is exactly what has to happen. The voting locales need to decide IF they want stuff in their schools and cities.
    Oh they want stuff.  They just want someone else to pay for it.

    Yep. The politicians and leaders who do the hard stuff and cut costs or pass them onto local governments get the bad wraps. But, anybody here who is MM (truly) in their own lives would see that the same things apply on a greater scale to the government.

    Lots of people in California want stuff and they've gotten stuff and now Cali is in serious debt trouble.

    When does it stop, or at least when can the appetites of the people be satisfied enough to realize we just cannot afford some things?



    Totally disagree. I consider myself very MM, but a government budget should not be managed the same way as I manage my personal budget. Maybe if everyone was the same, but we don't live in a "one size fits all" kind of world. That's just not realistic. Like I said above, just look at what happened in Flint, Michigan. 

  • Either here on MM and/or at P&CE, there has been discussion about the turtle tunnels in Florida being paid for with federal dollars. IF that decision had gone back to the state of Florida for a vote of Floridians, then those voters could decide whether or not to build the tunnels. Why should people in Ohio, by way of their tax dollars, pay for turtle tunnels, that will NOT affect those people in Ohio? If Floridians want the tunnels, let them get the issue on the ballot and take it to a vote. If it passes, then the state could figure out a way to pay for the tunnels.

    If here in Minnesota, we want to build moose bridges, should a person in Texas pay for that?

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    I generally agree with this.  I really have no problem paying higher taxes to be in a good school district or to have trash pick-up or whatever (we pay a premium for our school district, and we don't have kids yet - I'm more than happy to support local education).  But I don't want to pay for the turtle tunnels in FL or the moose bridges in MN.  As a citizen of Alabama, I get no benefit from this.

    Now I will make an exception for national parks, since citizens of every state can enjoy them.

    But TBH, this is a huge reason why I'm against Bernie's proposal for free public college coming from the federal government.  The thing is, there are a number of states that already offer free public college for in-state students if they maintain a decent GPA (usually around a 3.0).  I grew up in a state with this, and you had better believe I needed to get a scholarship to my private school to justify giving up a free education at UGA or GA Tech.  They are both excellent schools, and Tech in particular is nationally ranked for what it does.  You aren't going to find better in the Southeast, and it's free if you are a GA resident with a 3.0 GPA.  There are plenty of jobs in Atlanta, by the way, if you feel the need to move.

    Tennessee has done the same thing.  And personally, I think Nashville > Atlanta.

    The only argument against the above that I see is that it's primarily funded by the lottery (though not 100%), and the lottery tends to attract lower income folks. But I take solace in the fact that nobody is forced to play the lottery, unlike paying taxes.  Everybody is allowed to quit whenever they want.

    So yeah, I don't see why the feds need to mess with issues that can be decided adequately at the state level.  H and I spent a small fortune on federal income tax in 2015 and much much less on state and local taxes.  If I'm laying out that much money anyway, I would much rather it go to the state and local governments to manage, because then the bulk of my tax money is going toward local needs, instead of entitlement programs I won't be entitled to or pork for the other 49 states.



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  • vlagrl29 said:
    well aren't you paying for it regardless if it comes out of your property taxes or federal taxes. Personally I wouldn't want my property taxes going sky high because they are high enough already and most of it is for education.

    Yes, but if it's at the local level, you have more control of it as a citizen and voter. You can vote and/or get directly involved in the process to sway peoples' votes in whatever direction you prefer. You have no say over Moose Bridges in Minnesota if that's what the federal government says.

    Plus, if a local government has control and therefore the local voters do as well, there's more up in your face to the politicians who spend the citizens' tax dollars. There is more accountability for the management of funds.

    Also, I think there's some psychology in this too. Isn't it a lot easier to justify an expenditure if you have $4.1 Billion at your disposal versus if you have only $100,000 at your disposal? People tend to be more frugal when the number they see makes more "sense." It's hard to mentally comprehend how much money $4.1 billion is actually. It seems limitless. And, with big numbers like that at the federal level goes the attitude, "Oh, well we've got enough, we can do this."

    I know property taxes rising isn't great, (ours just went up this year), but I'd much rather have that and see the accountable faces of my local politicians, then have the ever increasing federal debt that is creating problems for the near and distant future of our country.




    Yeah I get what you're saying and it makes sense. I still can't believe our federal debt is 19 trillion.
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  • emily1004 said:
    jtmh2012 said:

    I support Kasich's ideas and cuts to the spending in Ohio (but I don't support him as a candidate). It makes absolute sense. And, if anybody is actually serious about cutting spending in their own family or in this nation, then this is exactly what has to happen. The voting locales need to decide IF they want stuff in their schools and cities.
    Oh they want stuff.  They just want someone else to pay for it.

    Yep. The politicians and leaders who do the hard stuff and cut costs or pass them onto local governments get the bad wraps. But, anybody here who is MM (truly) in their own lives would see that the same things apply on a greater scale to the government.

    Lots of people in California want stuff and they've gotten stuff and now Cali is in serious debt trouble.

    When does it stop, or at least when can the appetites of the people be satisfied enough to realize we just cannot afford some things?



    Totally disagree. I consider myself very MM, but a government budget should not be managed the same way as I manage my personal budget. Maybe if everyone was the same, but we don't live in a "one size fits all" kind of world. That's just not realistic. Like I said above, just look at what happened in Flint, Michigan. 

    Respectfully, I disagree. You're right on one thing here, I believe. A person's individual or household budget will be based on that couple's or families priorities and direct needs. A government cannot do that because there are too many people, too many desires, and too many needs. The government has to make financial decisions more for the group rather than the individual or family. And, that's where it ends. A government budget is still a budget no matter how large it is. It's MM to spend less and save more no matter if you're a single person, a couple, a family, a town, a state or a nation.

    Families sit down and buckle up finances at the kitchen table or living room. Our national "family" is represented by whom we elect. They sit at Capitol Hill and the White House to decide with our family needs. The principles of sound financial management are the same. We can absolutely expect our governments to behave in the same MM ways we do in our own homes.

    The bolded actually proves my point. We do not have a "one size fits all world." You're correct. And, that's why the federal government should stay out of the things like education that can be handled best at the local and/or state level. Because we do not have a "one size fits all" world, each locality needs to be able to decide on their own what and how to do something with their own funds.

  • emily1004 said:
    jtmh2012 said:

    I support Kasich's ideas and cuts to the spending in Ohio (but I don't support him as a candidate). It makes absolute sense. And, if anybody is actually serious about cutting spending in their own family or in this nation, then this is exactly what has to happen. The voting locales need to decide IF they want stuff in their schools and cities.
    Oh they want stuff.  They just want someone else to pay for it.

    Yep. The politicians and leaders who do the hard stuff and cut costs or pass them onto local governments get the bad wraps. But, anybody here who is MM (truly) in their own lives would see that the same things apply on a greater scale to the government.

    Lots of people in California want stuff and they've gotten stuff and now Cali is in serious debt trouble.

    When does it stop, or at least when can the appetites of the people be satisfied enough to realize we just cannot afford some things?



    Totally disagree. I consider myself very MM, but a government budget should not be managed the same way as I manage my personal budget. Maybe if everyone was the same, but we don't live in a "one size fits all" kind of world. That's just not realistic. Like I said above, just look at what happened in Flint, Michigan. 

    The preliminary results of "whose to blame for this" in Flint, MI state that the director of the Department of Environmental Quality is at fault because they did not treat the water properly coming from the Flint River in violation of federal law. The Flint River is high in iron and the iron eroded the lead pipes in peoples' homes.

    Full story here, for anyone who is interested: http://www.cnn.com/2016/01/11/health/toxic-tap-water-flint-michigan/index.html

    According to federal law, there is a way to treat this water to make it safe. But, the DEQ didn't do their job properly.

    So, yes the State switched their water supply from Lake Huron to the Flint River...to save money. But, you've got to assume they didn't intend for the DEQ to then not treat it properly to make it safe. They were going to reconnect to Lake Huron in two years.

    "In 2011, Flint was declared to be in a financial state of emergency, and the state took budgetary control. Therefore, all the decisions made during the water crisis were at the state level, which state officials confirmed, not by the City Council or the mayor."

    My point is proved in this statement....local officials know what's best for their cities, towns and states. Big government stepping in and taking over something is not generally a good thing.

    Also, any decision any entity makes could end in a disaster. Do we not attempt to make budgeting savings because a disaster could occur? The root cause isn't a move to save money, the root casue is someone and his agency being derelict in their duties.

  • emily1004 said:
    jtmh2012 said:

    I support Kasich's ideas and cuts to the spending in Ohio (but I don't support him as a candidate). It makes absolute sense. And, if anybody is actually serious about cutting spending in their own family or in this nation, then this is exactly what has to happen. The voting locales need to decide IF they want stuff in their schools and cities.
    Oh they want stuff.  They just want someone else to pay for it.

    Yep. The politicians and leaders who do the hard stuff and cut costs or pass them onto local governments get the bad wraps. But, anybody here who is MM (truly) in their own lives would see that the same things apply on a greater scale to the government.

    Lots of people in California want stuff and they've gotten stuff and now Cali is in serious debt trouble.

    When does it stop, or at least when can the appetites of the people be satisfied enough to realize we just cannot afford some things?



    Totally disagree. I consider myself very MM, but a government budget should not be managed the same way as I manage my personal budget. Maybe if everyone was the same, but we don't live in a "one size fits all" kind of world. That's just not realistic. Like I said above, just look at what happened in Flint, Michigan. 

    Respectfully, I disagree. You're right on one thing here, I believe. A person's individual or household budget will be based on that couple's or families priorities and direct needs. A government cannot do that because there are too many people, too many desires, and too many needs. The government has to make financial decisions more for the group rather than the individual or family. And, that's where it ends. A government budget is still a budget no matter how large it is. It's MM to spend less and save more no matter if you're a single person, a couple, a family, a town, a state or a nation.

    Families sit down and buckle up finances at the kitchen table or living room. Our national "family" is represented by whom we elect. They sit at Capitol Hill and the White House to decide with our family needs. The principles of sound financial management are the same. We can absolutely expect our governments to behave in the same MM ways we do in our own homes.

    The bolded actually proves my point. We do not have a "one size fits all world." You're correct. And, that's why the federal government should stay out of the things like education that can be handled best at the local and/or state level. Because we do not have a "one size fits all" world, each locality needs to be able to decide on their own what and how to do something with their own funds.

    No, I don't expect our government to behave the same way. 50% of this country doesn't believe that either. Not because everyone wants "stuff for free", but because we believe it is our responiability to help those that have a harder time helping themselves. That's what I mean by not one size fits all. Respectfully, your point is out of touch with reality. You write as if you live in a world where if families "buckle down and work really hard" everything will be okay, but sadly that's not always the case. What about those families that don't have kitchen tables to sit down at? Wages have not kept up with demands. It's a lot harder to pull yourself up from your bootstraps for those who grew up in life of privilege verse those who grew up in the hood.  When local governments fails their people, (Flint water & Detroit schools) it's the federal governments job to step in and help, because who else is going to? 
  • I agree that to balance the budget, they have to cut spending and when spending is cut, some areas will lose their funding. The thing I don't like is that they aren't being open with the public about this. He makes it seem like I can balance the budget, I have magic powers. What I would love to hear, I can balance the budget, but it means that we're going to have to cut spending and that means some places that currently receive federal funding support may lose some or all of their federal funding.

    And it's just as bad with Bernie Sanders, free college, free other stuff, but someone has to pay for that Teachers still need to be paid, utilities for the schools still need to be paid, the support staff (maintance, janitors, etc) have to be paid. The money to pay them has to come from somewhere.

  • emily1004 said:
    emily1004 said:
    jtmh2012 said:

    I support Kasich's ideas and cuts to the spending in Ohio (but I don't support him as a candidate). It makes absolute sense. And, if anybody is actually serious about cutting spending in their own family or in this nation, then this is exactly what has to happen. The voting locales need to decide IF they want stuff in their schools and cities.
    Oh they want stuff.  They just want someone else to pay for it.

    Yep. The politicians and leaders who do the hard stuff and cut costs or pass them onto local governments get the bad wraps. But, anybody here who is MM (truly) in their own lives would see that the same things apply on a greater scale to the government.

    Lots of people in California want stuff and they've gotten stuff and now Cali is in serious debt trouble.

    When does it stop, or at least when can the appetites of the people be satisfied enough to realize we just cannot afford some things?



    Totally disagree. I consider myself very MM, but a government budget should not be managed the same way as I manage my personal budget. Maybe if everyone was the same, but we don't live in a "one size fits all" kind of world. That's just not realistic. Like I said above, just look at what happened in Flint, Michigan. 

    Respectfully, I disagree. You're right on one thing here, I believe. A person's individual or household budget will be based on that couple's or families priorities and direct needs. A government cannot do that because there are too many people, too many desires, and too many needs. The government has to make financial decisions more for the group rather than the individual or family. And, that's where it ends. A government budget is still a budget no matter how large it is. It's MM to spend less and save more no matter if you're a single person, a couple, a family, a town, a state or a nation.

    Families sit down and buckle up finances at the kitchen table or living room. Our national "family" is represented by whom we elect. They sit at Capitol Hill and the White House to decide with our family needs. The principles of sound financial management are the same. We can absolutely expect our governments to behave in the same MM ways we do in our own homes.

    The bolded actually proves my point. We do not have a "one size fits all world." You're correct. And, that's why the federal government should stay out of the things like education that can be handled best at the local and/or state level. Because we do not have a "one size fits all" world, each locality needs to be able to decide on their own what and how to do something with their own funds.

    No, I don't expect our government to behave the same way. 50% of this country doesn't believe that either. Not because everyone wants "stuff for free", but because we believe it is our responiability to help those that have a harder time helping themselves. That's what I mean by not one size fits all. Respectfully, your point is out of touch with reality. You write as if you live in a world where if families "buckle down and work really hard" everything will be okay, but sadly that's not always the case. What about those families that don't have kitchen tables to sit down at? Wages have not kept up with demands. It's a lot harder to pull yourself up from your bootstraps for those who grew up in life of privilege verse those who grew up in the hood.  When local governments fails their people, (Flint water & Detroit schools) it's the federal governments job to step in and help, because who else is going to? 

    Your implication by the bolded is that the other side of the aisle doesn't want to and in fact does not help the people who are having a harder time helping themselves. This simply isn't true. And, it is borderline insulting. You may think I'm overly tough and not based in reality but if that were really the case, my DH and I wouldn't have donated $60k in 2015 giving to starving, uneducated, underprivileged kids.

    You will find, though, that what the Republican desire is is to empower the grassroots, empower the local people, empower the average Joe and Jane citizens to work together at their local levels, even state levels, and solve their problems in better ways than a big, huge federal government can do. That could be through local politics, but it could also be through other local groups like PTA, local religious groups, etc.. What Republicans also like IS help for the very poor and unemployed, but not just help on the government tab with little or no expected results.

    I just read a story that a woman raised $10k or some other healthy amount on GoFundMe for her ill daughter. The government got wind of it and threatened to pull her government financial aid if she took the "additional income." I think this is absurb. But, what wouldn't be absurd are benchmarks put in place for people to check in and demonstrate good faith efforts to become reemployed, to do drug testing for benefits, and/or other things.

    Occasionally here on MM, posters write about whether or not to financially help their family members who are struggling. Some posters always do. It seems though, that many do not help if the family members display poor life management skills and poor money related skills. People always go back to the hand that feeds them. MM posters see this in their own families. Obviously, that translates to the greater society. We need to help others. But, the others also have to demonstrate good will in making steps to get out of their situations. And yes, there will always be people who just cannot because they are too ill or too disabled, and for those people, we need to provide compassionate care to make sure they can get their needs met.

    The fact remains that even if we want to help 100% of people, 100% of the time, our whole nation simply cannot, we don't have the resources at the federal level to do so. At some point, practicality, as hard as that sounds, has to come in. I say let the states and localities help their citizens, and sure, have the federal government step in when necessary for those dire situations like Hurricane Katrina (FEMA) and Flint, etc..

    If that means local taxes do raise, then so be it. I'm happy to have my money go to the elderly who need aid in my community. Or kids needing lunches at schools. Or, increased aid for the people without homes.

  • That's all well and good but Republicans don't project that attitude. Remember when Mitt Romney said the 47% who don't pay taxes with always vote for Obama so they can keep their handouts coming. Nothing like insulting the poor people who are only taking advantage of tax breaks available. I also happened to be one of those 47%-ers. By all measures we all firmly in the middle class if not upper middle class. All the drug testing done for welfare recipients have found VERY few positive results
  • smerka said:
    That's all well and good but Republicans don't project that attitude. Remember when Mitt Romney said the 47% who don't pay taxes with always vote for Obama so they can keep their handouts coming. Nothing like insulting the poor people who are only taking advantage of tax breaks available. I also happened to be one of those 47%-ers. By all measures we all firmly in the middle class if not upper middle class. All the drug testing done for welfare recipients have found VERY few positive results


    I think its a waste of money and in my personal option if our family was on welfare I would be insulted by talking a drug test.  Just because you are on welfare doesn't mean you are a druggie - it can happen to anyone.

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  • emily1004emily1004 member
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    You're putting words on the page that are simply not there. At no point did I say that Republicans don't help out the less fortunate. You started to assume and it wasn't my intention to insult anyone.  Obviously most of us want to help out those that are less fortunate than we are, but I wasn't talking about personal charities. All I was trying to point out is that the federal government can not and should not be ran like a household budget. Now I'm going to assume, but correct me if I'm wrong: I assume you or your SO want to retire someday. The federal government will never retire, ipso facto we can't expect our government to treat its budget the same way.

    PS. I don't think you're overly tough, we are having a debate.

  • vlagrl29 said:
    smerka said:
    That's all well and good but Republicans don't project that attitude. Remember when Mitt Romney said the 47% who don't pay taxes with always vote for Obama so they can keep their handouts coming. Nothing like insulting the poor people who are only taking advantage of tax breaks available. I also happened to be one of those 47%-ers. By all measures we all firmly in the middle class if not upper middle class. All the drug testing done for welfare recipients have found VERY few positive results


    I think its a waste of money and in my personal option if our family was on welfare I would be insulted by talking a drug test.  Just because you are on welfare doesn't mean you are a druggie - it can happen to anyone.

    I've had to take drug tests for employment (and I'm not a school teacher, nurse or other frequently tested population) and I'm sure there are a lot (mostly?) negative tests for pre employment screening as well.  

    I've always found that it was a little embarrassing as well, but if I have to take a test to EARN my money then there is no harm in taking a test if you are accepting government funds.  
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