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Sexting? How do you forgive and move on?

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Re: Sexting? How do you forgive and move on?

  • To tell you the truth i have something similiar happen to me. And if he is not willing to put in the work to the relationship and you have done everything in your power to forgive him and work on the relationship then i say at least separate and have him move out. take a break from each other. and if he comes begging to be with you again then he needs to do whatever it takes to regain your trust again. and if he still isnt willing to do that then file for divorce and see if that wakes him up.

    because you can only do so much. it takes two.

  • imagelakersgirljj24:

    To tell you the truth i have something similiar happen to me. And if he is not willing to put in the work to the relationship and you have done everything in your power to forgive him and work on the relationship then i say at least separate and have him move out. take a break from each other. and if he comes begging to be with you again then he needs to do whatever it takes to regain your trust again. and if he still isnt willing to do that then file for divorce and see if that wakes him up.

    because you can only do so much. it takes two.

    Really, lakersgirl, really?

    This is your very first post EVAR and you choose this to post on?? 

    ::shakes head:: kids these days

  • Considering he is the one who messed up, he should be willing to do whatever it takes. If you feel like he needs to go to counseling for what he did and for you to learn how to forgive him, he should be more than happy to do it.
  • I think you gave the best advice here KellyAnn, contrary to what everyone else seems to think. I can relate to the OP, I too had a husband cheat on me (newlyweds) and now we have a beautiful baby girl who is 2 months old. I was pregnant with our daughter and of course I was livid with anger, resentment, jelously, pretty much every terrible emotion- but I did not want to "throw in the towel" because we had a daughter on the way and I had to think how it would effect her too. Im not saying to stay together just because of a child, but if the cheating partner is willing to work on the issue, apoligizes, and excepts the new boundries then it is worth fighting for. I have since noticed a change in his behavior, not glued to his phone anymore, and always telling me where he is going and who he is with, as I tell him when I go out anyways. Sure it will take a while to 100 percent trust him again and I feel tempted to show the past in his face when I get mad, but I look at what we created together and see the change in him and no I am fighting for a good cause. I respect your advice to the OP, as you tried to tell her what she wanted to hear without making cheating seem like it's not a big deal- because it is, and I sure did give him the Ultimatum if he did cheat on me again! (guess what that would be) lol.
  • Holy shiit. 

    STOP POSTING HERE! STOP STOP STOP!!!

  • Remember this post?

    Welcome to TIP's most popular post of 2010, both by replies and by views. :P 

  • Why, smock? For the love of god, WHY?
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  • Because I love to torment you, Joce.
  • Obviously, you sick hor!!!!!!!!
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  • Joce, this can be our super cool club house that no one else knows about. Think how cool it is to have our own zombie thread!
  • I was wondering why this popped up.

    Shoot it!  Aim for the brain!

  • OMG.  I'm away from TIP for a week, and this is what I come back to.  Fvck this place.  lol
  • imageDrinknDerive:
    OMG.  I'm away from TIP for a week, and this is what I come back to.  Fvck this place.  lol

    BWAHAHA!!!! 

  • imageDrinknDerive:
    OMG.  I'm away from TIP for a week, and this is what I come back to.  Fvck this place.  lol

    That's what you get for leaving us!

  • Why the fuuck did this pop back up?

    Burn it it's evil and must be purified by fire.

    image

     

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    Time to put on your big girl panties

    I've got your rainbows and ponies right here
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  • imageDrinknDerive:
    OMG.  I'm away from TIP for a week, and this is what I come back to.  Fvck this place.  lol

    LMFAO!

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  • imageOosumSauce:

    Why the fuuck did this pop back up?

    Burn it it's evil and must be purified by fire.

    image

     

    Fire will not touch this kind of evil. 

  • I plan to keep bringing this thread back every few months just to annoy you guys. YWIA.
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  • Noooooooo! Make this post die! Please!
  • Did the OP ever come back? I'm thinking MUD. Stick out tongue
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  • I no its hard. My husband kinda did that to me. He didnt "sext". He done talked to a girl we new from a bar. Hed talk to the ho bout the things he wanted to do to her. I dont no if he done anythen with her. My cusin said they done. But I beleve my husband.

    You needa think bout the season. Jesus Christ was sent hear to teach us al bout forgiveness. Its best to remember that. We grow when we forgive.

  • imagecoltsrsuck:

    I no its hard. My husband kinda did that to me. He didnt "sext". He done talked to a girl we new from a bar. Hed talk to the ho bout the things he wanted to do to her. I dont no if he done anythen with her. My cusin said they done. But I beleve my husband.

    You needa think bout the season. Jesus Christ was sent hear to teach us al bout forgiveness. Its best to remember that. We grow when we forgive.

    And with that I am officially embarrassed to be from Indiana.

  • imageJustDuckyDancer:
    imagecoltsrsuck:

    I no its hard. My husband kinda did that to me. He didnt "sext". He done talked to a girl we new from a bar. Hed talk to the ho bout the things he wanted to do to her. I dont no if he done anythen with her. My cusin said they done. But I beleve my husband.

    You needa think bout the season. Jesus Christ was sent hear to teach us al bout forgiveness. Its best to remember that. We grow when we forgive.

    And with that I am officially embarrassed to be from Indiana.

    It can't be real ... can it?

     

  • WHY TIMMY WHYYYYYYYYYYYYY ?????

     

    *crawls under desk and cries*

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  • FFS I am going to gouge out my eyeballs from the pure stupidity a few posts down and the zipper santa vags that are posted.
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  • imageSweetCuppinCakes:
    I love you Snail.

    hey hor- I was just thinking about you!!!

    We should start PIPing things again, I have some time to kill. haha

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