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For some strange reason I don't like having sexin our bed. I associate it with sleep; therefore, I ask my husband to beinventive and spontaneous. I prefer a spur of the moment thing and itmakes him REALLY happy.
Well, I always begin by wearing something from the Victoria Secret's underwear line. I massage his body with coco butter. Create a whip cream top hat if you know what I mean. Then I lick it off because I have a sweet tooth. I melt into his arms to let him know that I have been yearning his touch all day. I grip him with each thrust by doing kegel exercises which drives him craaaazy!!! We try every move imaginable to reach the point of having mutual orgasms in sync. Finally, we collapse in each others arms out of sheer exhaustion.
After taking a shower together, we begin round 2.
Well, I always begin by wearing something from the Victoria Secret's underwear line. I massage his body with coco butter. Create a whip cream top hat if you know what I mean. Then I lick it off because I have a sweet tooth. I melt into his arms to let him know that I have been yearning his touch all day. I grip him with each thrust by doing kegel exercises which drives him craaaazy!!! We try every move imaginable to reach the point of having mutual orgasms in sync. Finally, we collapse in each others arms out of sheer exhaustion.
After taking a shower together, we begin round 2.
We like to send sexy texts throughout the day. Sometimes I'll send him a pic just to spice it up a bit. By the time we hit the door at home we can't wait to rip off each others clothes then relax in each others arms.
Date night with sexy new lingerie underneath is always fun too. I can't wait to show him and he can't wait to see me in them at the end of our evening. The anticipation and surprise waiting for us when we get in private helps the hormones rage throughout the night
I love being married!!
DJNAB
Danielle Nelson
501
DJNAB
Danielle Nelson
501 Peterson Drive
DJNAB
Danielle Nelson
501 Peterson Drive Johnstown,
DJNAB
Danielle Nelson
501 Peterson Drive Johnstown, CO
Making sex a priority with a hectic work/life schedule can be difficult. To keep things sizzling in the bedroom, my husband and I will pick a night to pop open a bottle of wine and light the candles. Some sexy lingerie and a few games to start it off. Other times, we'll turn off the lights and give each other hot oil massages to relax our stresses away. From there, the night is history!
My husband and I have code words for everything, like ice cream means sex. So in the middle of the day, when I comment on Facebook "I am really craving some ice cream" he knows what I actually mean but to everyone else it is an innocent post.
It really gets him in the mood because he is thinking about it for the rest of the day. Besides, it is kind of exciting announcing to everyone on Facebook that you are dying to have sex with your husband without actually saying it. Slightly voyeuristic!
It is extremely important to both of us to keep our relationship a priority. We both come from broken families and know that we never want that for us or our children. So we do our best to keep our love alive and are not scared of trying new things... It takes two and you have to be willing to put in the work but it is absolutely the most rewarding when you put your best efforts forward.
We got a new apartment and moved in right after the wedding. When we moved in we had nothing! We used Dave's old bed as our couch for weeks until our new couch arrived. Therefore, we had (and still have) fun "christening" each room in our apartment (we set a goal to do it in every room). We also "christen" new pieces of furniture, etc. New dining room table...well not on top of it...but over it! Yes, furnishing an apartment can be SEXY!
We have 3 rules:
1. Date night once a week, where we have a romantic dinner and then do something fun for just us two.
2. Try a new position or toy at least once a month.
3. Jump each other whenever possible, no matter where we are, and we can't say no
Pipe down, you had your chance!
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The secret to keeping things sizzling in the bedroom is never saying NO to SEX. When your partner takes the initiative to 'sex-you-up,' it's because he wants you; he desires you. He is thinking of the pleasure you have given him and will give him. Saying No is a big turnoff and might prevent him from initiating it in the future to avoid the rejection. So even if you are not in the mood or tired (remember, he had a long day too), give it a try, the next thing you know, you will be asking for another round. :-)
Also, kissing the same way you kissed the first time with compassion, romance, and guilt (should I really be doing this?) will get things heated up and on the way to the bedroom.
What we do to keep it sexy is have photo shoots! My baby dresses me up in lingerie and heels of his choice. Sets up a sexy atmosphere and takes photos. He is the director and I am his model. There are no limits.toys? Yes please! It also is fun to look at the photos at a later time. It is our home made porn. It is me in a different light for him. The naughty, seductive, secretive, sexy side that only he gets to see. Such a turn on!! Whether it be in the shower, the kitchen, or bedroom, it is on and it is H-O-T, hot!
DJNAB-Danielle Nelson-danielley89@live.com-501 Peterson Dr Johnstown, CO 80534-10/19/89-970.691.5660