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Wednesday Randoms

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  • imageMrsJuliD:
    I think the hardest part for us about deciding on children is the unknown.  Right now, I do think we'll have children.  However, not to bring down the thread further, but one of my BF's had a baby last March and the baby has a genetic disease and probably won't live past 8 months (2 years is the longest a child has ever lived w/the disease).  It has been so hard just to watch them go through this, I can't imagine actually being a parent that outlives their child.  I know that's probably not right to think about, because I know kids bring so much awesomeness to life too.  But the thought of the sadness/stress/worry that comes with kids seems like it might be too much for me to bear.

    Omg that is absolutely horrible.  Sad

  • Holyfuck!  Law books are $$$ Surprise
  • I'm sorry.  I debated even writing that because nothing sucks the fun out of a thread like that.  It really does suck, but I guess on a positive note, they are dealing with it better than I could ever imagine anyone dealing with it.  It brings out a lot of different emotions.  And although this is an awful thing to go through, I also know they wouldn't trade having her in their lives even for such a short and difficult time for anything. 
  • imageMrsJuliD:
    I'm sorry.  I debated even writing that because nothing sucks the fun out of a thread like that.  It really does suck, but I guess on a positive note, they are dealing with it better than I could ever imagine anyone dealing with it.  It brings out a lot of different emotions.  And although this is an awful thing to go through, I also know they wouldn't trade having her in their lives even for such a short and difficult time for anything. 

    Wow, how very sad. 

    I get why this makes you hesitant, and I'm the first person to make the case for a childfree life, but I don't think you should let a tragedy like this make the decision for you.  Holding back on your life because of bad things that could potentially happen keeps you from so much joy.

  • imageKasa:
    imageDesmond&MollyJones*:
    The matrix for your H is hilarious. 

    This made me laugh to because it sounds like something I'd do.  Gotta love living life by spreadsheets.  Big Smile

    My matrix is complete.  I'm glad he suggested it, though, because I was wondering how I would compare the prices and decide what to get. 

    The issue is that I'm going almost completely new.  I'm being really picky about not wanting any highlighting or margin notes for my 1L books just because I'll be learning new study techniques.  I want to set myself up with the best possible chance for success.  If I can find a seller with positive feedback who states their book has no highlighting or margin notes, I'll go used, but that typically saves a whopping $30.  With luck, I'll be able to sell them at the end of the year for half what I paid. 

  • I've been offline all day.  I just peeked in, and there's so much here.

    Right now, I just have a minute to share (for Suze) that I've had some success with renting books that I know I won't keep for my program.  Most of the time they come in pristine condition, but I've had one come with highlights.  Just another avenue for books that wasn't very popular a few years ago.

    Willa 4.6.06 and Henry 10.18.08 Camp Sinki
  • imageDiana Prince:
    Holding back on your life because of bad things that could potentially happen keeps you from so much joy.

    This is so true.  Thank you.  It's right, and I need to hear it.  Because this is something I do too often, in a lot of areas of my life.

  • imageMrsJuliD:
    I'm sorry.  I debated even writing that because nothing sucks the fun out of a thread like that.  It really does suck, but I guess on a positive note, they are dealing with it better than I could ever imagine anyone dealing with it.  It brings out a lot of different emotions.  And although this is an awful thing to go through, I also know they wouldn't trade having her in their lives even for such a short and difficult time for anything. 

    No need to apologize.  That's great to hear that your friends are handlnig this as well as they are.  Sometimes the strength of people amazes me.

  • imageDiana Prince:
    The issue is that I'm going almost completely new.  I'm being really picky about not wanting any highlighting or margin notes for my 1L books just because I'll be learning new study techniques.  I want to set myself up with the best possible chance for success.  If I can find a seller with positive feedback who states their book has no highlighting or margin notes, I'll go used, but that typically saves a whopping $30.  With luck, I'll be able to sell them at the end of the year for half what I paid. 

    That makes sense. 

  • imageMrsJuliD:
    I also know they wouldn't trade having her in their lives even for such a short and difficult time for anything. 

    This!  God forbid anything happen to T, but no matter what happens I wouldn't trade him for anything.  Ever.

    imageMrsJuliD:

    imageDiana Prince:
    Holding back on your life because of bad things that could potentially happen keeps you from so much joy.

    This is so true.  Thank you.  It's right, and I need to hear it.  Because this is something I do too often, in a lot of areas of my life.

    And this is really great advice.

  • imageGRsweetpea:

    I've been offline all day.  I just peeked in, and there's so much here.

    Right now, I just have a minute to share (for Suze) that I've had some success with renting books that I know I won't keep for my program.  Most of the time they come in pristine condition, but I've had one come with highlights.  Just another avenue for books that wasn't very popular a few years ago.

    Hmm, interesting idea.  I might post about it on the admitted students FB page to see if any of the upper division students tried this during their 1L year. 

    And I realized I flubbed the sum formula in excel and double added several things from my matrix.  The actual total is close to $400 less than I originally thought. 

  • imageMrsJuliD:

    imageDiana Prince:
    Holding back on your life because of bad things that could potentially happen keeps you from so much joy.

    This is so true.  Thank you.  It's right, and I need to hear it.  Because this is something I do too often, in a lot of areas of my life.

    Yes

    You don't know how hard it was for me not to aggressively recruit you for the no-kids club.  Devil

  • imageKasa:

    imageDiana Prince:
    The issue is that I'm going almost completely new.  I'm being really picky about not wanting any highlighting or margin notes for my 1L books just because I'll be learning new study techniques.  I want to set myself up with the best possible chance for success.  If I can find a seller with positive feedback who states their book has no highlighting or margin notes, I'll go used, but that typically saves a whopping $30.  With luck, I'll be able to sell them at the end of the year for half what I paid. 

    That makes sense. 

    Fortunately Stingy McStingerson, oops, I mean my darling husband is on board with this plan. 

    Now...to convince him that a case of wine in our cellar is necessary for me to retain the scholarship...

  • H asked me what I wanted for my birthday again, and I just asked him to bake me a cake.  Apparently, that is not good enough for him.

    I don't know why I have issues picking something out.  It's frustrating.  But we all know, based on past experiences, that this man must be told something or I'll end up with steering wheel covers.

    I guess I'll just ask for a giftcard.  B&N, ***'s or iTunes...

  • imageDiana Prince:
     

    And I realized I flubbed the sum formula in excel and double added several things from my matrix.  The actual total is close to $400 less than I originally thought. 

    That would make a difference!

  • imageDesmond&MollyJones*:

    H asked me what I wanted for my birthday again, and I just asked him to bake me a cake.  Apparently, that is not good enough for him.

    I don't know why I have issues picking something out.  It's frustrating.  But we all know, based on past experiences, that this man must be told something or I'll end up with steering wheel covers.

    I guess I'll just ask for a giftcard.  B&N, ***'s or iTunes...

    Tee hee hee... steering wheel cover.  Smile

    I often have a hard time asking for gifts too.  You're not alone.

  • imageDesmond&MollyJones*:

    H asked me what I wanted for my birthday again, and I just asked him to bake me a cake.  Apparently, that is not good enough for him.

    I don't know why I have issues picking something out.  It's frustrating.  But we all know, based on past experiences, that this man must be told something or I'll end up with steering wheel covers.

    I guess I'll just ask for a giftcard.  B&N, ***'s or iTunes...

    Hahaha. This is hilarious. 

     

    Do you want anything for your new bike? Mike put a rack on the back of my bike so I can use a trunk bag on it. It has been really handy.

  • imageDesmond&MollyJones*:

     

    I guess I'll just ask for a giftcard.  B&N, ***'s or iTunes...

    That is funny.  D!ck's Sporting Goods...

  • imageHoektastic:
    imageDesmond&MollyJones*:

    H asked me what I wanted for my birthday again, and I just asked him to bake me a cake.  Apparently, that is not good enough for him.

    I don't know why I have issues picking something out.  It's frustrating.  But we all know, based on past experiences, that this man must be told something or I'll end up with steering wheel covers.

    I guess I'll just ask for a giftcard.  B&N, ***'s or iTunes...

    Hahaha. This is hilarious. 

     

    Do you want anything for your new bike? Mike put a rack on the back of my bike so I can use a trunk bag on it. It has been really handy.

    Ooh!  Great idea!!!  I already have a rack, so maybe I should ask for a trunk bag! 

    And one of these:

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  • imageKasa:
    That would make a difference!

    What's really sad is how little difference it makes.  Crying

    The real total is ~$1K, instead of ~$1400.  Crying

  • imageDiana Prince:

    imageKasa:
    That would make a difference!

    What's really sad is how little difference it makes.  Crying

    The real total is ~$1K, instead of ~$1400.  Crying

    Blech.  That sucks!  But it will be worth it!!!

  • imageDiana Prince:

    imageKasa:
    That would make a difference!

    What's really sad is how little difference it makes.  Crying

    The real total is ~$1K, instead of ~$1400.  Crying

    :-O Yikes.  For one semester?!?  That's just crazy.

  • Juli, I've been able to have some really candid conversations with some of the Special Olympics parents.  One of them said something that really stuck with me.  She said that it's been a terribly rough road for their family after their daughter was born with significant physical and mental disabilities.  But, she said, the good moments have outdone all of the bad, and she wouldn't trade her situation if she could.  Incredible.

    There has been such great conversation here today.  And I missed it live.  *pouting*  I really enjoy the blend of people here and the choices they represent.

     

    Willa 4.6.06 and Henry 10.18.08 Camp Sinki
  • Wow busy day here.

    I spent the day on a pretty awful tubing trip in Newaygo. It was a last minute thing and thought no one checked the weather to notice that it was going to rain for pretty much the whole trip. Awesome! So I was cold, the water was cold and then 2 of the people decided to "play fight" which lead to them splashing the rest of us making us more cold. My BFF stayed wrapped in a towel the whole time. I want my next time to be warm like it has been in the past. 

     

  • GRSP, the randoms don't expire until midnight if you still want to chime in.  Smile

    Deeder, sorry you had a crummy day tubing.  That sounds disappointing.

  • For the most part, the books are just this semester. **cries more** Some of my classes go all year, though, So maybe my book bill will be smaller next semester. I think this sum would have bought me four semesters worth of books in undergrad. I remember crapping my pants over an accounting text that was $96 new. Now I'm lucky to find something used for $96!
  • It was a really interesting day for randoms. Again I ask why we couldn't have had this conversation yesterday when I was dying of boredom? :P Our ceiling fans arrived tonight and we got one almost up before the storm darkness stopped us. I should go make hummus or cheesecake or something now. But I'd rather curl up with a book and listen to the rain...
  • Diana, it didn't dawn on me that your books are that much for the semester.  Wow!

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