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Two Texas Rangers fans: douchey or not?

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Re: Two Texas Rangers fans: douchey or not?

  • Douchey? No. But a little self absorbed? Maybe. If it were my kid, I'd tell her to suck it up, lol. Of course I don't believe in her crying to get what she wants. However, every time I've caught a ball, I've looked around for a kid to give it to. That's just what most people around us do. So I think it's a little weird to sit there and pose with it and such. They are grown adults! Basically, team tartatuga. No the kid isn't entitled to it, but IMO its the nice thing to do.
  • Oh I just reached it on mute on the morning news. I wanted to add that I think the parents did a great job. They just got him to calm down and moved on.
  • The family was just on the Today Show. They don't care that the couple kept the ball, the couple wasn't douchey about it, and most importantly...the couple *did* offer the ball to the boy when they realized what happened. The family said no thanks and used it to teach their son about not getting everything he wants.

    Also, FYI, that couple was at their first Rangers game together and are getting married tomorrow. As a fan, if I were them, I'd be pretty excited about that ball. But I'm also a douche.

  • imageTefLepOM:
    imageLittleMoxie:

    Finally saw the video.  The guy wasn't trying to be a jerk, he went for the ball in excitement, as did many people, and got it.  I don't understand why we all have to look around for anything we may catch and make sure there isn't a kid around who isn't screaming for it and then give it to that kid.

     

    he sat right next to the screaming kid.  Unless you're a moron, which he may be, he knew why he was crying mere seconds after this happened.

    Anyone else thinking these guys heard a lot of crying and whining from this kid throughout the whole game?

     

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  • imagemarie427:

    The family was just on the Today Show. They don't care that the couple kept the ball, the couple wasn't douchey about it, and most importantly...the couple *did* offer the ball to the boy when they realized what happened. The family said no thanks and used it to teach their son about not getting everything he wants.

    Also, FYI, that couple was at their first Rangers game together and are getting married tomorrow. As a fan, if I were them, I'd be pretty excited about that ball. But I'm also a douche.

    Interesting. I'm glad the family spoke up.  

  • Watched the clip on Morning Joe today and my husband's response was that it was a good lesson for the kid to learn he won't always get what he wants. I thought of this debate on the board Crying
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  • imagemarie427:

    The family was just on the Today Show. They don't care that the couple kept the ball, the couple wasn't douchey about it, and most importantly...the couple *did* offer the ball to the boy when they realized what happened. The family said no thanks and used it to teach their son about not getting everything he wants.

    Also, FYI, that couple was at their first Rangers game together and are getting married tomorrow. As a fan, if I were them, I'd be pretty excited about that ball. But I'm also a douche.

    Ditto

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  • imagemarie427:

    The family was just on the Today Show. They don't care that the couple kept the ball, the couple wasn't douchey about it, and most importantly...the couple *did* offer the ball to the boy when they realized what happened. The family said no thanks and used it to teach their son about not getting everything he wants.

    Also, FYI, that couple was at their first Rangers game together and are getting married tomorrow. As a fan, if I were them, I'd be pretty excited about that ball. But I'm also a douche.

    But a nearby kid was CRYING for the ball and that trumps everything.

  • I talked to my H about this last night who is a die hard baseball fan. And he was 100% on "give it to a kid" team. I was really suprised. I tried to say "What about if you are like the biggest fan ever" sort of scenerios and he still firmly was on give it to a kid. He got a ball from a hard core Padres fan back in 89 and still remembers it. Still has the ball and worships the player that hit it. He is certain that it means more to a kid than an adult. But he also thought the couple was just unaware and not trying to be douches.

  • imageeddy:

    I talked to my H about this last night who is a die hard baseball fan. And he was 100% on "give it to a kid" team. I was really suprised. I tried to say "What about if you are like the biggest fan ever" sort of scenerios and he still firmly was on give it to a kid. He got a ball from a hard core Padres fan back in 89 and still remembers it. Still has the ball and worships the player that hit it. He is certain that it means more to a kid than an adult. But he also thought the couple was just unaware and not trying to be douches.

    I'd actually probably agree with this more if the kid was 6 or something.  How much do people remember from when they are 2? 

  • imageLittleMoxie:
    imageeddy:

    I talked to my H about this last night who is a die hard baseball fan. And he was 100% on "give it to a kid" team. I was really suprised. I tried to say "What about if you are like the biggest fan ever" sort of scenerios and he still firmly was on give it to a kid. He got a ball from a hard core Padres fan back in 89 and still remembers it. Still has the ball and worships the player that hit it. He is certain that it means more to a kid than an adult. But he also thought the couple was just unaware and not trying to be douches.

    I'd actually probably agree with this more if the kid was 6 or something.  How much do people remember from when they are 2? 

    This is a good point. But I think he just felt by default a child should have it. But yes his experience was from when he was around 8 years old and actually able to pay attention and follow the game. He was already a budding fan at that point.

  • imagemarie427:

    The family was just on the Today Show. They don't care that the couple kept the ball, the couple wasn't douchey about it, and most importantly...the couple *did* offer the ball to the boy when they realized what happened. The family said no thanks and used it to teach their son about not getting everything he wants.

    Also, FYI, that couple was at their first Rangers game together and are getting married tomorrow. As a fan, if I were them, I'd be pretty excited about that ball. But I'm also a douche.

    Well, then I retract that they are douchey, but maintain that those that take balls from kids are douchey.  But, I am willing to take it as more info comes out, as it did here. 

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  • imageablou:

    I'm definitely on Team Douche. Catch the ball, give it to the kid. It means more to the kiddo.  

    I have another anecdote. About 6 years ago, my H and I were in Chicago, and I took him to American Girl Place. I got my American Girl doll the year they came out, collected cans to buy clothes for them, read all the books. They were a big contributor to my interest in women's history and the history of girl culture.  These dolls were a big part of my growing up and development. 

    I got my dolls new outfits, and we got on the list for afternoon tea.  When we made it in, there was a mother and daughter (with her well-worn doll) waiting as well. I decided to give up our place to that girl and her mom and her doll. Why? Because you're only a kid for so long, and I'll be an adult forever. I can go and have tea as an adult at AGP forthe rest of my life. That could have been her only chance to experience that as a girl, with her mom and her doll. 

    Basically, if you can do something nice for a kid, you do it. The transition from crushed to elated on that girl's face was better than any tea.  

    This makes me very, very happy. What a kind thing to do!

    Edit: I bet, too, every time they tell the story they say "Remember the time that lady gave us her place in line so we could have tea at the AGP? That was so nice of her! We had such a good time!"  You made their fun even more special by your kindness.

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